BodyJoy: After Office Hours Podcast

Sessions is a special edition of BodyJoy: After Office Hours where Melissa works with real clients in real time. Names have been changed to protect privacy.  In this candid conversation, Melissa sits down with Austin to talk about something many men experience but rarely discuss: erectile dysfunction that isn't rooted in physical health. Austin shares his four-year journey navigating ED after...

Melissa sits down with Mos Jef, a master level Shadow EFT practitioner and founder of Sanctum Institute of Life Harmonization, for a raw, real conversation about the parts of ourselves we push away and what happens when we finally let them be seen. Jeff shares how he developed his own methodology after years of exploration (and a dark night of the soul that started at Burning Man), why 95% of our...

After 35 years in the sexuality field, sex educator and coach Charlie Glickman joins Melissa D for an honest, shame-free conversation about prostate pleasure, body safety, and why most people are asking the wrong questions about sex. What we get into: Prostate pleasure 101 · navigating fear around anal play · why safety is the foundation of all pleasure · the nervous system nobody's talking a...

What happens when sexual healing moves beyond the mind and into the tissues of the body? In this episode of BodyJoy After Hours, Melissa sits down with somatic sexologist and pelvic floor specialist Makia Mullin to explore the powerful intersection of nervous system regulation, sexual health, and embodied pleasure. Drawing on two decades of experience in pelvic care and somatic sexuality, Makia sh...

What happens when intimacy slows down enough for the body to truly land? In this rich and intimate conversation, Melissa sits down with Uma James to explore the transformative power of slowness, sacred erotic work, and building a sustainable, integrity-based business in the world of sensual and somatic practice. Uma shares her journey from holistic sex education and fertility awareness into hands-...

In this engaging conversation, Melissa D and Stephanie Ganowski explore the intricacies of men's sexual health and relationships. Stephanie shares her journey from a challenging relationship to becoming a coach for men, emphasizing the importance of understanding and communication. They discuss common issues men face, the role of vulnerability, and the impact of pornography. The conversation...

Summary In this conversation, Philippe Lewis shares insights on the evolution of play events, the importance of creating safe spaces for exploration, and the role of attunement in relationships. He discusses the significance of emotional intelligence and attachment theory in navigating modern relationships, emphasizing the journey to secure attachment and the concept of considerate non-monogamy. P...

What if “safe and social” isn’t the highest expression of nervous system regulation? In this episode of BodyJoy After Office Hours, Melissa D. sits down with entrepreneur, somatic pleasure artist, and product designer Josh Eros Ocean Rosenfield for a rich, embodied conversation about sacred touch, sensation play , pleasure without performance, and what it truly means to feel held, nourished, and s...

In this episode of BodyJoy After Office Hours, Melissa sits down with Tigress Lily, certified Erotic Blueprints coach and somatic practitioner, for a wide-ranging conversation on kink, power dynamics, and presence as tools for healing and connection. Tigress shares her unconventional path from the corporate world into erotic leadership, including how intensive therapy, somatic work, and BDSM helpe...

In this intimate, laughter-filled, deeply honest episode, Melissa “Mango” from BodyJoy sits down with erotic educator, practitioner, and long-time collaborator Casia Sobolewski for a conversation that travels through motherhood, boundaries, non-monogamy, erotic integrity, and the sacred art of pleasure. Together, they unpack how years of exploration, sex-positive community, and somatic practice ha...

In this episode, Melissa has the absolute privilege and honor of speaking with Rahi Chun, a somatic sex educator, sexological body worker, and genital de-armoring specialist. Rahi and Melissa dive deep into the research and common experience of women who feel numb, disconnected, or lack desire internally. They discuss how somatic sex education and de-armoring work to restore more pleasure, sensati...

In this powerful conversation, Melissa and Cosmo dive deep into the unexpected but natural transition from the world of being a chef to becoming a leading pleasure and intimacy guide. Cosmo explains that the crossover makes perfect sense: both roles involve curating people's desire and finding unobstructed paths to feeling nourished. Cosmo shares his own personal journey, including the profou...

Join Melissa of Body Joy After Office Hours as she sits down with JD, a lifestyle Dom, Daddy, and one half of the internationally acclaimed rope bondage duo Two Knotty Boys. A teacher of interactive rope bondage and restraint for over two decades, JD co-authored the bestselling books Two Knotty Boys Showing the Ropes and Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes . In this deep-dive conversation, JD redefi...

Welcome to the season premier of Season 2 of After Office Hours with me, Melissa D! Tonight is extra special as we have the incredible Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates joining us!  With 13 years as a relationship coach, they've uncovered a game-changing insight – unresolved emotional hurts often stand as a barrier to the intimacy couples desire. Dr. Hazel-Grace's approach is nothing short of innova...

KINKtober After Office Hours with the Knotty Boys After Office Hours with Melissa D., Provocateur of Body Joy Intimacy School. This month we are doing a special dedication to all things kinky for KINKtober! Special Guests:  J D & DAN, aka the Two Knotty Boys began teaching their world-famous rope bondage classes in 1999. Having published two how-to bondage books ("Two Knotty Boys: Showing...

After Office Hours - KINKtober with Special Guest Irina Nyx After Office Hours with Melissa D., Provocateur of Body Joy Intimacy School. This month we are doing a special dedication to all things kinky for KINKtober!  Special Guest: Irina Nyx is an Erotic Artist, a Friendly Sadist, and a Dominant Liberatrix. Her work as a professional dominatrix is augmented by her background in various somatic he...

KINKtober After Office Hours with Special Guest Sex Posi Sheba Special Guest Sex Posi Sheba About: Sheba is a Sex & Intimacy Coach and Erotic Artist located in St. Petersburg, FL. She works with clients virtually and in person for one-on-one coaching sessions around relationships, sexuality, exploration, and body positivity. She leads kink-friendly/queer-friendly workshops encouraging intimacy...

KINKtober After Office Hours with Special Guest Johnny Vajra After Office Hours with Melissa D., Provocateur of Body Joy Intimacy School. This month we are doing a special dedication to all things kinky for KINKtober!  Special Guest: Johnny Vajra is a Spiritual Alchemist, Intimacy Guide, and Pleasure Educator based in St. Petersburg, FL. He is the co-founder of the St. Pete Retreat, a center for h...

Join Melissa Davison, Somatic Sex Educator & Provocateur of Body Joy Intimacy School (Austin, TX & Northern CA) talk sex with Special Guest Betty Martin as we discuss "Consent and Crossing Boundaries".About: Dr. Betty Martin, a Chiropractor, a Body Electric School trained Sacred Intimate, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Foundations of Facilitation trainer, and a self-propelled...

Tune in & listen to our fun banter, ask questions, comment along, get some great advice and insight from 2 rebel women... Melissa D. & Dr. Hazel Grace. Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates is radical permissionist and pleasure warrior here to help eradicate global toxic sexual shame. Through her compassion, playful, and dynamic facilitation, she is endlessly passionate about humans celebrating their bodi...

{After} Office Hours with Melissa D. & Special Guest Dr. Charla Hathaway talking about Risk, Lust & Healing in the oldest profession. 

{After} Office Hours with Melissa D. & Special Guest Sheba Queen of the Night

We will be going deep into the Prostate and Anal Pleasure for Men.

Full Episode: Tips for a Soft Cock

Episode 2 - Does He Fuck Too Fast?