Birds and Bees Don't Fck

Andrew Orolfo is a stand up comedian, host of the meter gameshow and one of Just For Laughs New Faces of 2022 originally from Oakland, CA where they pretty much just watched a video from the 80s with dude stuff. Some things we said... "Sometimes you get close to death and then you come, you know what I mean?" "We're so often rushing with ourselves, especially men and people with penises." "Creatin...

Nicoletta Heidegger is a therapist, sexologist, equine assisted psychotherapist, educator and host of the podcast 'Sluts and Scholars' originally from the porn capital of the world (aka the San Fernando Valley) where thankfully she grew up in a sex positive home that lead to being the sexy powerhouse that she is today! Some things we said... "We all have the capacity to be woo girls" "The San Fern...

Nathan Hammerle is a sexual wellness educator and novelty specialist from central Ohio where the older kids faked them out and gave all the younger kids anxiety about the sex ed videos they had to watch about puberty. Some things we said... "Sex is messy and weird and we're gonna fuck up and just like, keep going." "Safety is the foundation of any successful kink scene." "How can we get more creat...

Raye Schiller is a comedian, screenwriter and professional yenta originally from Queens, NY where they were raised as an Orthodox Jew. Yes, that means we are two Jews from New York which is obviously why this is the sexy yenta episode! Some things we said... "We're Jews. We have our own traumas." "The gender thing was the reason I left. I couldn't exist in that world where I was a second class cit...

Dr. Alix Agar is a Clinical Sexologist and one of LA's top Sex Therapists originally from Oakville Ontario where her mom was the cool mom to create safe spaces for her, and all her friends. A literal hero. In this episode we talk about: 02:06 Early Experiences as a Dancer 03:34 Bonding Experiences through Travel 04:04 Exploring Power Dynamics and Relationships Working On a Cruise Ship 05:55 Open C...

Miss Spent Youth is a Los Angeles based burlesque performer, producer, teacher and pin up princess originally from North Carolina where the girls were afraid to swim on their periods! In this episode we talk about burlesque, empowerment, creativity, body positivity, power dynamics, body confidence, sexuality, burlesque, sex education, circumcision, shame, open-mindedness, acceptance and SO much mo...

Amanda G. Savage is a comedian, host and creator of the show G. Savage Talks originally from the great soft pretzel state of Pennsylvania where she did an anti-abstinence only presentation and we Stan. Also, happy 420 ya'll! This episode was unofficially sponsored by Bloom , their vapes are so tasty and smooth. If you're into it, I highly (!!) recommend this brand. In this episode we talk about: T...

ShelBee is an aerial performer, instructor and sex worker originally from Taiwan and grew up in an Asian community in SoCal where she was taught using a tampon means you're losing your virginity! In this episode we talk about: 03:19 ShelBee got me a gift!! 05:13 Cultivating Eroticism 08:58 The Impact of Positive Examples of Single Women 18:20 Asian Cultural Beliefs about Tampons 23:04 Older Siblin...

Dr. Nazanin Moali is a Clinical Psychologist, Sex Therapist and Host of the Sexology podcast originally from Iran where sex education was TRULY non-existent. In this episode we talk about: 00:00 The Importance of Different Perspectives 03:09 The Role of Communication in Relationships 07:15 The Impact of Nonverbal Communication 10:06 Changing Attitudes Towards Therapy and Mental Health 12:04 The In...

Christine Medrano is a comedian, actress and writer originally from Winnipeg Manitoba, Canada where she went to Catholic school and watched an abortion video at age 14, and that was pretty much it! In this episode we talk about: 03:21 Christine was in a Sex Ed Video! 04:16 We have a pitch… the office, but it's an STI clinic! 06:29 Misconceptions about Anal Play and Sexuality 10:03 There wasn't any...

This week we're mixing things up because Rena Martine (Women's Intimacy Coach, Author and Ep. 25 guest ) and I had the opportunity to park up at the Hollywood Burlesque Festival Bazaar and speak to some of incredible performers from the weekend. In this episode we're talking to: @boogerboobs an Aussie based in Los Angeles Tito Bonito, the @cubabmissilecrisis of burlesque @Sydvici0uz the east coast...

Michael Hollice is the Founder and Creative Director of The Play LA (that's a sex party) originally from Los Angeles where his class watched the birthing video forwards and backwards… literally. That baby got sucked right back up! In this episode we talk about: 00:46 The Play LA and Prioritizing Health, Consent, Intimacy, and Artistry 04:04 Arielle's Magical Experience at The Play LA 06:19 Sex as...

Morgan Jay is a musician and comedian originally from Mahwah, New Jersey where he was taught that women would derail and distract him! In this episode we talk about: 04:11 Creating a Sexy and Fun Show 05:46 Transitioning from Stand-up to Music 07:33 The Evolution of Comedy Clubs 12:02 Understanding Different Sexual Preferences 16:20 The Importance of Consent and Aftercare 20:02 Exploring Sexual We...

Sarah Tomchesson is a sex educator, fed-up feminist, queer mom and co-host of the Fck Yeah! Podcast originally from a little all over but who had her first sex ed class in Los Angeles where they were interrupted by an earthquake! In this episode we talk about: 02:02 SIECUS and Sex Education Advocacy 05:21 The Importance of Policy Change 10:17 The Fear of Talking About Sex 11:15 Unpacking Shame and...

Tyomi Morgan is a Sexologist, Intimacy Coordinator and creator of The Cowgirl Workout originally from Chicago where they went on a class trip to learn about sex! In this episode we talk about: 03:04 Intimacy Coordinating, obviously! 14:43 The one thing you MUST know as an Intimacy Coordinator 23:00 When Sex Ed is a class trip… 29:29 Impact of Sex Education on Personal Exploration 38:08 Virginity i...

Allison Goldberg is a comedian and creator known for her dating show, Love Isn't Blind originally from Baltimore where they scribbled some stuff on an overhead projector and called it a day! In this episode we talk about: 01:25 Allison actually knows about the birds and bees! 02:07 Love Isn't Blind - The Dating Show where men aren't allowed to talk! 04:47 Pole Dancing and Rock Climbing 06:29 Intim...

Christina Calph is an actress, comedian and creator of Comedy Pole Show and The Last Improv Show originally from a small town outside of Buffalo, NY where they were taught demons were going to take over their bodies! Yay! In this episode we talk about: 01:09 Talking about Rain in LA, because it's law 02:24 Growing Up in New York 03:37 Comedy Pole Show and the best comedians and pole dancers in LA...

Jean Franzblau is an Intimacy Coordinator, Writer, Performer and Creator of the Cuddle Sanctuary originally from Hollywood Florida where her mother didn't know she was kinky! In this episode we talk about: 01:11 Different Roles in the Sex Industry 03:03 The Physiology of Orgasm 04:00 The Impact of Shame on Pleasure 05:23 Creating Authentic Intimacy in Film 08:13 The Complexity of Faking Orgasms 10...

Demi Wilde is an author, educator and content creator originally from Visalia, California where he had to GTFO as fas as he could! In this episode we talk about: 02:57 The Commodification of Connection 10:23 Demi's journey into Sex Education 17:02 Growing Up Religious 21:13 Those First Wet Dreams 25:33 Poetry as Therapy 31:35 Demi Dishes the Dirt on Sh*tty Dating Trends 38:04 A Hookup Horror Story...

Jil Chrissie is a comedian, writer and host originally from Denver Colorado where she was not quite sure if she should be looking at a lady's vagina with a baby's head in it in the third grade (sound familiar?).   In this episode we talk about: 00:50 Pretty Privilege is a thing 02:08 The Misconceptions Around Virginity and Hymens 06:01 The Trauma of Early Sex Education 07:44 The Terrifying Reality...

Anne Holder-Shipp is an award winning Sex & Relationships Educator and Author of '18 Modern Love Languages' originally from Wolfurrow, New Hampshire where they learned more about sex exploring the library's card catalog then they ever did in a classroom! In this episode we talk about: 01:34 Pandemic Era Transition to Online Teaching 11:11 The Balance Of Fair Compensation and Accessibility For In-P...

Ify Nwadiwe is a Comedian, Actor, Writer and Thot Dad originally from Los Angeles, CA where his Catholic School taught him religion instead of health and his public School made him sign up for sex ed as an elective as if learning about your body was the same thing as learning photography or Roman history. In this episode we talk about: 04:31 LA vs. New York 14:42 Sex Education in School 18:05 ADHD...

Joy Wolfe is a Writer, Director and Spiritual Comedian originally from Hollywood, CA and Albuquerque, New Mexico where they had a rotating door of teachers for the kids to torture with bad jokes instead of learning every week. In this episode we talk about: 01:42 Journey with Sex and Astrology 03:08 The Importance of Boundaries in Sex 06:16 Misconceptions about BDSM 07:01 The Influence of Religion...

Wendy Perkins is an Orgasm and Neuro Pleasure Coach originally from North Hollywood, CA where she was simply told not to have sex because you will get a disease and die… yikes! In this episode we talk about: 01:11 Becoming an Orgasm and Neuro Pleasure Coach 03:06 The Role of the Nervous System in Sexual Experiences 13:20 The Need for Self-Regulation Skills 14:45 The Impact of Shame and Guilt on se...

Michele is the CEO and Co-Founder Squirtopia, originally from San Diego, CA where going Catholic School meant that Jesus was her homie who she didn't want to disappoint. In this episode we talk about: A warning, we are two excited Leos. This conversation is passionate! How she and her co-founder / husband wound up living in Amsterdam An orgasm and a business idea…. Witches & Sex magic! Dismantling...