Big Lash Energy -Confidence, Relationships & Dating Advice for Women Who Want More!

Hilarious! Jayna agrees to a date with a Pick Up Artist " for the story " and shares every cringey detail. As a follow up to episode 142 (10 Signs He's a Pick Up Artist), you'll be a butterfly on the wall while she strolls through a Las Vegas Casino with a man she already knows is only out for one thing. He says all the lines and does all the tricks, but our host stays two steps ahead. *insert kar...

Sometimes, the sleeziest men come disguised as good guys. Can YOU tell them apart? In this eye-opening episode, Jayna dives into the world of pickup artistry so you learn to recognize the manipulation tactics and behaviors often employed by so-called "PUA's". Hot off a trip to Las Vegas, our host shares some hilarious examples of the wild things men have said and done in an effort to get her...wel...

Are you seeing the first signs of aging? Wondering if Botox is your best option? What are the risks? In this episode, Jayna's dear friend (and botox injector), Dr. Kaabar, answers all the questions you might be too afraid to ask about preventing fine lines and wrinkles. Listen in on this fun, candid conversation so you can make the best, most informed decision for yourself. You might be surprised...

💰Did you miss the class on how to get that bag? Do you need money advice? Then press play! If you're drowning in debt? Too broke to break up? Wondering if you'll ever be able to afford the life that you want? Then listen up! In this episode, Jayna's invited Money Coach (and BLE Bestie), Gina Judge to come share what SHE knows about making and growing your dough. Jayna discusses her own fears and...

Ready to make this your best year ever ? 🌟 Think you know everything about manifesting? In this episode, we're dishing the 7 secrets no one talks about when it comes to turning your dreams into reality. From dodging common pitfalls to amplifying your manifesting mojo, we've got the hacks to help you unlock your true potential and create a year so epic, you'll swear it's magic. ✨ So grab your vis...

Please check out Episode 33 If you're feeling alone this holiday season, or looking for a little more holiday hype.  Remember when our parents decked the halls? OR when we really did believe in Santa Clause? Now, we're making all the magic happen and it's both exhausting and expensive. In fact, if you don't put the time in, the holidays won't happen! This is a quick little poem Jayna wrote about w...

You probably know your love language, but what about THEIRS? If trying to find the perfect gift makes you twitch, then you'd better listen to this! Once you learn this one simple hack, you'll be impressing your loved ones  and saving money like scrooge- any time of the year! Jayna has always been an extreme gifter- she'd do ANYTHING to be the one who gave the best present. Then, somewhere along th...

WARNING: Adult Content!  First, does getting hit on by a teenager count as a compliment? Then, come join Jayna and 2 Besties of the male variety for a cheeky convo at the adult table. This one's informative and good for a laugh- Soso Juv (Team Loverboy) and H.L.S.(Team F*boy) from the "My 5 Cents Podcast" never hold back!  To hear more from Soso and HLS, check them out on spotify THE MY FIVE CENTS...

Why's everyone laughing AT Jayna's back? Well...let's just say a tribute to her Grandpa went horribly HORRIBLY wrong! Tattoos are meant to be permanent reminders of meaningful moments—but sometimes, they come with unexpected surprises (ie: Who would have thought she'd need TWO cover ups?!) In this episode, we explore a jaw-dropping tattoo horror story that's both cringe-worthy and cautionary. Then...

Arzo gives Jayna a " Mom Report Card " and the two recap their favorite moments from their first year as a Mama / daughter duo. What grades did the new mom get when it came to discipline, leading by example, housecleaning, cooking, laundry and helping with homework? Listen to find out! One thing's for sure, Arzo always says it like it is! (SPOILER ALERT: Jayna did *not* get straight A's!)   IN THI...

Last week, Jayna discovered a 20 year old email that was the last correspondence she had with her biological father. Now, she's on a search to find the man she calls Frank.  She's trying everything from hacking into highschool email accounts and sifting through facebook profiles, to tracking down long lost relatives. Whether you've walked a similar path or simply love stories of self-discovery, th...

Is your dad to blame for your bad track record with men? Jayna was a textbook example of what it looked like to have "daddy issues".  Now, she's given the term some thought and decided that it's TRASH. This episode is a must listen for anyone whose father (or father figure) was less than ideal OR anyone planning on raising a daughter. We discuss how our father-daughter relationships affect how we...

Sometimes, all you need is for one person to believe in your potential in order to turn your whole world around.  Before Arzo moved in with Jayna, the odds were stacked against her. A hard upbringing left her unable to see a future for herself. Her family thought she would end up on the streets and even she told her high school principal that in 5 years, she'd likely be selling drugs in a back all...

Are you doing the MOST for the man in your life and getting the LEAST in return? If you're ready to start being treated how you deserve , then stop what you're doing and press play like....YESTERDAY.   Black Cat Energy is a total game changer. Its a mindset shift you can make to start seeing results RIGHT AWAY. In this episode, Jayna gives examples of how to respond to real world problems in order...

This is a dating ghost story... with a twist! In Part 2 of this spooky series, Jayna travels all the way to the Dominican Republic to meet her wannabe prince charming...then POOF!! Who Knew!?  In this episode, our host shares her own haunting experience as well as a story submitted by a BLE Bestie. October might mark the beginning of spooky season, but there's nothing scarier than Jayna's dating l...

Have you ever been ghosted ? Even better yet, have you ever been ZOMBIED? * cue scary music*  What's so terrifying about simply saying "thanks but no thanks?" In this episode, Jayna shares her own haunting experience as well as stories submitted by BLE Besties. October marks the beginning of spooky season, but there's nothing scarier than or hosts dating life. Give this one a listen for a laugh th...

Have you ever had a couple margaritas then started saying what you REALLY thought? After 20 years of doing hair and makeup, Jayna is finally getting some stuff off her chest! In this weeks episode, she's giving REAL answers to questions like "Should I tip my makeup artist?" as well as how to navigate vendor review pages, manage expectations and take better wedding photos.  In true BLE fashion, Jay...

Jayna messed up BIG TIME when she first started her business- and it almost derailed her success! Now, it's her 20th anniversary of being an entrepreneur, so she's looking back and sharing that very costly lesson with YOU.  (Consider it Marketing 101 but without the expense of business school!) If you're an entrepreneur, small business owner, or somone wanting to start a side hustle, this episode...

SPECIAL EDITION: Jayna tells her unbelievable wedding day story in an interview first aired on " What Was That Like ", a podcast hosted by Scott Johnson As a professional makeup artist who'd worked in the wedding industry for over a decade, Jayna thought she was ready for ANYTHING on her big day. Unfortunately, no one could have predicted THIS.... cue scary music  Imagine finding out on the mornin...

WARNING: Adult Content  We're talking about self love , ladies! Get ready for a juicy, unapologetic conversation all about you and your pleasure. Yup....this ones all about masturbation! In this episode, Jayna explains the health benefits of cumming, 4 tips on how to improve your solo sex, a history of sex toys and fun facts about your clitoris. (phew! is it getting hot in here?)Together, we're go...

Ever felt like everyone's enjoying sex but you ? In her 20's, Jayna hated every minute of it. At the time, sex felt like an obligation, not something she was really into. Inexperience, selfish lovers and a guilty conscience meant orgasms were few and far between and as a Christian, she was afraid to admit she wanted more or better sex for fear that she'd come off looking like a slut.  After 2 deca...

 One for the spiritual besties! A surprising take on prayer, manifestation and getting what you want from the universe. CAUTION: Listening may cause an increased sense of purpose and a sudden urge to love on the people around you.  In this episode, Jayna shares the message that shifted the way she viewed her relationship to God, how she lived and how she loves.  A lighthearted look at what it mean...

Jayna and Arzo shared their story in the past, but in order to protect themselves, they kept out the ugly parts. Today, you're finally going to hear the  real truth- no matter how uncomfortable it might be. If you've been following along with their story so far, you might find these details surprising and possibly even hard to hear. In this inspiring episode of Big Lash Energy , we spotlight the i...

"Have you seen Rodney?" An unbelievable, unscripted  true story of a Tinder date gone wrong as told by Jayna's Uber driver! Ever have a good heart to heart with a complete stranger? In this episode, you're riding "Passenger Princess" alongside Jayna on the way to Podcast Movement in Washington DC. The drive itself is smooth...it's the story that's got ALL the twists and turns. In Episode 118, Jayn...

You'll never believe what Jayna's done for these girls! Is she a stylist? Or a brides personal assistant? Sometimes, its hard to tell the difference. Everyone knows that brides are demanding,  but Jayna never imagined she'd be flossing teeth, scrubbing feet or even wiping butts. If you think being a wedding makeup artist is all just lipstick and contour then honey, buckle up!   In this episode, ou...