BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

This week we talk about the best in media, why folks (i.e. comedians) needs to be more careful with their platforms and how BFF's can navigate a world that is often always so very disappointing.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Follow the show on social : Twitter |...

This week, we FINALLY give y'all the Drag Race episode you've been asking for, specifically naming our favorite Black drag queens of yesterday and today (rest well Chi-Chi!), talk Tik-Tok snacks and pride conspiracy theories.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Continue to make the haters mad and rate us 5 star...

This week we celebrate 50 years of hip-hop (again) by talking about the good, the bad AND the queer, discuss rejection (edges SNATCHED) and why we deserve at least one more album from Rihanna. We will be back next week with another all new episode  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on so...

This week we sit down with creator Michael Rice to discuss the exploitation of Black queer bodies, when we feel most authentic and why America's got a true problem.  Trigger Warning - Discussion of drug usage - for those who might want to skip this weeks "Category Is" section because of the discussion of chem sex, you can fast forward to 51:19. Keep in mind that this is not an episode shaming thos...

This week we sit down with TV Producer and writer of the amazing book, " My Government Means to Kill Me " to discuss why it is so important for BFF's to use their voice intentionally - specifically in times like now where the government is actively using any means to take it away.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail...

This week we get into a (closing Pride) conversation about growth, why we need to change our outlooks on activism and why this Pride season is giving Great Value over Up & Up overall. IYKYK. IT'S A PRIDE CELEBRATION WITH APPLE PODCAST!  OUR SHOW IS BEING SPOTLIGHTED BY APPLE! HOORAY! With that, we have put together the perfect (queer) Apple Music playlist for you here.  “Rarely do you hear peo...

This week we get into a conversation about why we love being Black, accountability around fat-phobia and if oatmeal can be savory.  IT'S A PRIDE CELEBRATION WITH APPLE PODCAST!  OUR SHOW IS BEING SPOTLIGHTED BY APPLE! HOORAY! With that, we have put together the perfect (queer) Apple Music playlist for you here.  “Rarely do you hear people talking about what makes them happy to be Black, fat, and q...

This week discuss the idea of what it means to be a "mean queen" and projection.  IT'S A PRIDE CELEBRATION WITH APPLE PODCAST!  OUR SHOW IS BEING SPOTLIGHTED BY APPLE! HOORAY! With that, we have put together the perfect (queer) Apple Music playlist for you here.  “Rarely do you hear people talking about what makes them happy to be Black, fat, and queer,” says Jon Paul, co-host and creator of BFF:...

This week we chop it up with the incomparable Amber Abundance about how Black Fat Femmes can make "abundance" a mindset, navigating intergenerational healing and why Target shouldn't be the standard for pride merch. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow...

This week we get into a deeper dive around Pride Month, how to celebrate it without being problematic and how to support the movement - now more than ever.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter |...

This week Jon & Joho are traveling, but they didn't want to leave you without a beat to step to! Enjoy a quick kiki as they talk about all the mess that is pop culture.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJ...

This week we welcome one of the baddest, Cheyenne M. Davis, to the show to talk about pleasure in all its forms, media representation both on screen and behind the scenes, and the oppression still caused today by that bag Carrie gave Louise in the SATC movie.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow th...

This week we talk about what truly defines legendary status, the range of anti-blackness in our community, and how it's ALREADY MAY. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website   F...

This week we welcome the one and only Laci Mosley to talk about being a recovering people pleaser, why sometimes you gotta let your nail tech go and how you can return things from Amazon at Kohl's.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: T...

This week we welcome the one and only Dirty Lola to discuss the ways we are relearning love from a queer lens and how we can continue to love ourselves, even when love doesn't seem to love us the way we want to be loved.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram...

This week we discuss the wave of anti-trans and anti-queer legislation (we reference VOX in this episode) and what you can do to help the community.   Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website   Follow Jordan: Tw...

This week we are talking about what it means to be seen, ideation & suicidality (yes that's a word!) and why we will NEVER rent from a certain rental car company again.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Webs...

This week we chat with Dr. Torie Weiston-Serdan about the power of mentoring, why more Black queer youth need mentors and what we can learn from them in the fight against systematic oppression.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitt...

This week, we come to you LIVE and in living color for this special episode recorded in February at Irvine Valley College where we talked with the Office of Student Equity about the show, our BFF experiences, and how to twirl on them haters! Special shoutout to our friends Heather and Taliah who sat us down for a great conversation at IVC! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week we discuss what it means to be outspoken, how Jon loves a secret menu and why all debt should be forgiven.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website   Follow Jordan: Twitter | Instagram | Website   See...

This week we get into the history (and appropriation) of ball culture, the need for chosen family and why we hate the people who love us but never want to help us. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website   Foll...

This week we talk about the body, what products we love and hate and why people (yes those people) need to stop sexualizing the trans experience.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Instagram | Website   Follow Jordan: Twitte...

This week, we talk with the one and only Aurielle Marie about manifestation, how we continue to be our ancestors' wildest dreams, why we all need a little more support these days and why Florida AND the NYT's can go straight to hell with gasoline drawers.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the sh...

This week we celebrate 50 years of hip-hop by talking about the good, the bad AND the queer, discuss rejection (edges SNATCHED) and why we deserve at least one more album from Rihanna.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonPaul: Twitter | Inst...

This week, we talk with the one and only Jimanekia Eborn about the journey to self love, the struggles that can come with loving yourself radically and why Girl Scout cookies should come in a multi-pack.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow DoctorJonP...