BFF: Black, Fat, Femme

This week, the BFFs are getting silly! We talking about some of our favorite historically Black phrases (see, what happened was...we got inspired by our good judys). Catch the phrases that move our spirit as we talk about how having McDonald's money has healed our inner children. Also, Joho rants about why  One of Them Days is a must-see movie. Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!  Support Vic...

Last week your BFF's sent love and light to those impacted by the fires of Altadena, but this week we wanted to get into what makes the city so important and special. We also chat about ways we each can help build/re-build community and why so many of us are tired of people making MAGA their personality.  Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!  Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires H...

Happy 2025! This week we discuss the wild ride that is already 2025, forgiveness and how folks can navigate ideation (we have added a chapter for Yes Ma'am & No Ma'am Pam so you can skip). In addition, we also discuss the SoCal fires and why we are done with Influencers.  Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!  Support Victims of the Eaton & Palisade Fires Here!  Make the haters mad...

Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE!  Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!  Follow Jordan: Instagram  |  Websi...

Originally post date - October 7, 2024: This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas! Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy ticket...

Hey BFF's! Yes we've reached the final episode of the year. We asked you all to share your favorite moments and we mashed them all together to give you all the high's (and lows) that made you chuckle.  Black Fat Femme will return with new episodes Tuesday, January 14th, 2025.  Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  We want to connect with you...

This week your BFF's give you one more episode for 2024. We chat things our parents didn't warn us about being a (Black) adult, our personal Wrapped and why grief is a whole a$$hole.  Buy DoctorJonPaul's book here!  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show:  BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com...

On this week's episode, your BFFs sit down with digital maven and  Archie: The Podcast  host Archie Jay to talk about what it takes to bet on yourself in the industry. The trio also discuss what words describe their personal brands (chaotic) and more. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars. We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show:&nb...

This week your BFF's talk Black telekinesis, what makes A.A.V.E. (African American Vernacular English) so special and how we plan to stop being so hard on ourselves in 2025 - because honestly, life is already hard enough. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show:  BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t...

This week on the show your BFF's invite LEGEND Miss Lawrence to the mic to talk self preservation during the holidays, standing on BIG business and how we plan to fix our plates for turkey day, sans Christopher Columbus.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show:  BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com . Also, don’t...

This week on the show your BFF's invite our new sister to the show, Anania, to talk top and bottom of the crop bops, art as resistance and why we really need to keep praying to the ancestors for guidance at this time in history.  MY. GAWD.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show:  BlackFatFemmePod@gmai...

In this week's episode, Jon and Joho break down their reactions to the election, and explore the role toxic masculinity may have played in its outcome. Also, your faves talk about the best candies, and knocking down transphobes.   Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black....

This week on the rewind, listen to one of our favorite episodes with the iconic and super funny Dexter Mayfield as we discuss ass, maintaining our sexy and how thankful we are to all of you for making our show what it continues to be.  We will be back with all new episodes next week. 😁 Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  We want to connect with you more! Send us an email with your thoughts/...

This week your BFF's get political and talk about direct implications of trans bills and California propositions. We also discuss why folks need to leave earlier for the airport.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Bl...

This week your BFF's are rejoined by our good Judy Mayhem Miller as we discuss the ever-iconic and ever-relevant Paris is Burning! We also dive into our beauty secrets, and Joho got a salacious no ma'am pam tell-all. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black. Fat. Femme: R...

This week your BFF's talk the vulnerability of coming out, the problems we have with Netflix's "Love is Blind" show and why we all need to move with more audacity.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black. Fat. Femme...

This week your BFF's invite the one and only PAWD GAWD Kid Fury to the third seat to discuss not only how life is better, but what we all have to do to keep it that way. Plus, we also give Tisha Campbell her rightful flowers for reminding us to celebrate being STEEL HERE!  Watch the live recording for free on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email wit...

This week your BFF's share their thoughts on conferences, the new hit Hulu Show, "How to Die Alone" and why Chappell Roan needs a chaperone.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Pre-Order DoctorJonPaul's Book, "Black. Fat. Femme: Revealing the Power o...

This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by the one AND ONLY AMBER RUFFIN to giggle, talk politics and comedy and why we must all live mas! Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Buy tickets for our live show here.   Pre-Order DoctorJ...

This week your BFF's are joined in the third and fourth seat by Darren & Esther from the Second Sunday to chat the difference between being spiritual vs. religious, how one get's over religious trauma and why Jesus and Michelle have the same meaning.  If you know, YOU KNOW.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with y...

This week the BFF's talk about the thing that every millennial can relate to - parenting the parent. We also talk things our parents said to us when we were younger (that we now get as adults) and why Jon might actually like Sade.   Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please!  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : T...

This week your BFFs invite the incomprehensible Bebe Soft on to talk about life, finding love for yourself while in transition and how fun it can be to deconstruct gender and identity expectations on the internet.  Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please!  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com. Subscribe to our YouTube page here !  Follow t...

This week, the BFFs do a deep dive into activism, how Black folks are sometimes made to be activists without their permission, and how we are actually doing ENOUGH. We also get into last week’s DNC and Joho gives his mama a special shoutout. Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars, please!  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on s...

This week your BFF's dive into a nuanced conversation on why each of us are the sh*t and what it has taken us to get there and why sometimes you gotta believe it to achieve it.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter |...

This week your BFF's talk the anniversary of #FadeintheWater (Montgomery Riverfront Brawl 2024), Colorism and why ANYTHING is better than Panda Express.  Watch the live recording on our Youtube channel here ! Make the haters mad and rate us 5 stars.  Send us an email with your thoughts/comments about the show: BlackFatFemmePod@gmail.com Follow the show on social : Twitter | Instagram Follow Doctor...