Behavior Gap Radio

It's the 1,000th episode of Behavior Gap Radio! Carl takes a moment to celebrate the podcast's journey and dives into a personal reflection on fear. With candidness and wisdom, Carl shares his own experience of coming to terms with fear, challenging the idea of trying to banish it completely from our lives. Instead, he suggests a different approach: embracing fear, understanding its significance,...

Carl asks a game-changing question: What's the One Thing you already know could make your life so much better? He asks listeners to recognize the simple yet mighty steps they could take to boost their happiness. Sharing from his own life and experiences, Carl stresses the importance of putting these known actions first instead of endlessly searching for new fixes. Whether it's getting more shut-ey...

Carl explores how attention is the secret weapon in our lives but is often overlooked! Reflecting on his own attention habits, Carl discovers to what degree focused attention can change how we see the world. He encourages listeners to rethink where they're putting their focus, understanding how it can totally reshape what matters most in their lives. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most imp...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl takes listeners on a journey to uncover their life's purpose. Carl acknowledges the frustrations and self-doubt that often come with this quest. He urges listeners to approach it with curiosity and playfulness, likening it to a whimsical dance with dragons! Carl reminds us that finding our purpose is a continuous adventure of trial and error. He leaves l...

Titled "The Problem," this episode features a short essay from Carl's latest book, Volume Two: Meaningful Conversations—a collection of 52 conversations about Money and Life. Carl paints a mental picture with a simple sketch: a big circle labeled "the problem" with a dot in the center labeled "you." In just two sentences, he prompts a thought-provoking question: Do you have a problem, or does the...

Carl shares the untold story of his meeting with Chip Gaines for the 50 Fires Podcast. At the final in-person meeting to decide the show's distribution, Carl recounts the nerves and excitement of meeting the iconic Chip and Joanna Gaines. Revealing his secret plan to treat the meeting like a podcast episode focused on money, Carl shares a riveting conversation with Chip about the meaning of money....

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl delves into the nuanced world of goals with his latest insights titled "Navigating Life's Journey: The Dual Nature of Goals." Reflecting on the dual role of goals as both a blessing and a potential curse, Carl explores how goals offer direction and purpose but can also distract from the present moment. He emphasizes the fluid nature of goals as educated...

In this field episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a powerful reflection following a dinner discussion with students from Utah Valley University. Inspired by a student's question, Carl revisits the impactful query he poses at the end of his podcast "50 Fires" regarding the role of money in one's life. This time, he's turned the lens on himself, contemplating what he hopes his own children wi...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl uncovers the illusion many of us have fallen victim to—the Arrival Fallacy. With excitement, he shares that this phenomenon, where we believe reaching a goal or destination will bring lasting happiness, finally has a name. Carl explores how we often say, "When I have this much money, I'll be secure," or "Once I reach this goal, I'll be happy," only to fi...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl delves into a profound question: How do we determine our needs, wants, and desires? Carl reflects on his recent in-person workshop and the challenge of navigating consumer society. Drawing insights from John Kenneth Galbraith's concept of the dependence effect, Carl explores the idea that consumer demand is driven more by advertising and marketing than g...

What's the first feeling that arises when you think about money or see a money symbol? Drawing from insights shared by the audience, Carl reflects on a range of emotions, including jealousy, fear, and even opportunity. He emphasizes the importance of noticing these feelings without judgment and shares a powerful approach: observing them as a non-judgmental outsider, saying, "Isn't that interesting...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the pivotal role of purpose in making sound financial decisions. He emphasizes that purpose is not merely a starting point but a continuous reference point that guides all decisions related to money. Carl likens purpose to a lens through which we view our financial choices. It turns out that it often gets overlooked in discussions about money! D...

Carl shares a thrilling update on his four-year project, which has evolved into a captivating podcast called "50 Fires," with executive producers Chip and Joanna Gaines at Magnolia and a distribution deal with Warner Brothers. Set to launch in 2023, "50 Fires" explores the intersection of money and meaning. Carl offers a sneak peek into a recent interview with Breaking Bad's Dean Norris (who playe...

Carl explores the concept of lightness, contemplating what it means to carry a lighter load in terms of future goals and intentions. He shares a transformative shift in his perspective, acknowledging that the responsibility of shaping the next 10 years need not feel like a heavy burden. Carl reflects on the idea of turning the responsibility of his life over to God, allowing for a more playful and...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl dives into the world of "fancy financial feelings." As Carl explores the nuances of coveting, envy, and jealousy, he challenges societal norms around discussing these emotions. Carl invites listeners to join him in exploring these forbidden financial feelings! Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly email on the web! Sign up for the...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the common excuse of labeling unexpected expenses as "one-time" occurrences, only to discover that life is full of unforeseen events. Reflecting on the recent chaos caused by utility workers in his neighborhood and the resulting costly damages, Carl questions the tendency to overlook the predictability of unpredictability. Listen in as Carl shar...

How do you navigate the age-old struggle of finding a balance between living in the present and pursuing future goals? Carl explores the concept of being committed but not attached and examines the depth of that paradox. He reflects on the challenge of going all-in on a goal while still maintaining a sense of detachment from the outcome. Want more from Carl? Get the shortest, most impactful weekly...

On today's episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a personal story that spans years revolving around mysterious foot cramps. Through the lens of his health concerns and family history with Parkinson's, Carl explores the power of stories we tell ourselves. Listen in and reflect on the narratives you create and how easily confirmation bias can shape your perception! Want more from Carl? Get the...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl explores the challenging realization that personal obstacles often lie within ourselves. He talks through the importance of action over knowledge and how important systematic habits are if you want to turn your intentions into reality. Drawing inspiration from Brian Johnson's concept of a daily protocol, Carl discusses the significance of pushing through...

Join Carl on a preview of an exciting new podcast project where he explores "Conversations About Money and Meaning." Although he can't reveal all the details just yet, Carl shares an intriguing snippet from a recent conversation, reflecting on an op-ed from The New York Times about a Wall Street trader dissatisfied with a $3.6 million bonus because it wasn't enough. Delving into the elusive concep...

Carl explores a simple yet powerful point: Doing things differently, especially in your work life, is inherently confronting to others. Focusing on the specific example of working calmly, Carl delves into the fascinating phenomenon of how the mere act of choosing calmness can make people uncomfortable. In this episode, Carl reflects on the confrontational nature of opting out of the craziness and...

In this episode of Behavior Gap Radio, Carl shares a captivating story that unfolds over years, weaving through unexpected twists and turns. The narrative of this story raises intriguing questions about intuition, alignment, and the mysterious ways in which life unfolds. Carl invites listeners to consider the concept of being open to unexpected thoughts and experiences that may lead to remarkable...

In this episode, Carl reflects on John Cleese's insight that creativity requires both time and space to flourish. If you're curious about unlocking your creative potential and intentionally setting aside time for it, Carl's thoughtful insights offer valuable guidance! Don’t wait around for creativity to come to you by accident. Be creative on purpose. Carl released a series of four episodes from B...

Today, Carl tackles the tough subject of dealing with unthoughtful criticism or "haters." He defines haters as those who disagree without really thinking it through, often twisting words or refusing to understand. Carl shares his own strategy for handling such criticism, stressing the importance of not letting haters steal unnecessary attention. He talks about the power of deleting or ignoring unt...