Been There Got Out Podcast

Tara, a seasoned legal nurse consultant with 25 years of experience, sheds light on the pivotal role nurses play in legal cases, particularly those involving children with special needs. Her expertise in reviewing medical records helps attorneys make sense of complex medical terms and diagnoses, often serving as a cornerstone in disputes where parents may disagree on a child's treatment. With...

Parenting expert Clarissa joins us to unravel the myth of the perfect parent and provide a deeper understanding of how to navigate the complexities of raising children. She introduces her innovative Foundations of Connection framework, designed to aid parents in fostering better communication and building deeper connections with their children by creating a safe and non-judgmental environment. Tog...

Angela Kim, a renowned senior credit consultant and founding member of Credit Repair Boss, joins us to unravel the intricate role of credit during and after a divorce. Angela offers an expert analysis on maintaining good credit as a foundation for starting anew and achieving financial independence. She dispels common myths, such as the notion that closing old accounts can benefit credit scores, an...

Karen McMahon, the founder of Journey Beyond Divorce, joins us to share her profound insights on breaking free from the mental hold of a high-conflict ex-spouse. We discuss how ruminating on an ex-partner's behavior can cloud one's judgment during and after divorce, hindering the path to personal empowerment. Karen emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and compassion, guiding us t...

Join us as we explore the nuances of child-centered divorce with our insightful guest, Tracy Ann Moore Grant, the founder of the Amicable Divorce Network. Tracy shares her expertise on how emotions can cloud judgment during divorce proceedings, leading parents to prioritize personal outcomes over the well-being of their children. Discover the innovative approach of the Amicable Divorce Network, wh...

Discover the transformative journey of Ralph Beaubrun, a Haitian-born dance studio owner in France, as he shares his incredible story of using dance to heal and inspire people worldwide. Ralph's journey from a family of artists in Haiti to becoming a beacon of joy through dance will captivate your heart. We explore the powerful role dance plays in overcoming toxic relationships and how redisc...

Charlie McCready, an esteemed alienation coach from England, joins us to unpack the emotional turmoil of parental alienation, particularly during the holiday season. Often described as the "Bermuda Triangle" of holidays, these times can amplify feelings of loss and vulnerability for parents separated from their children. Our conversation offers heartfelt strategies for maintaining connec...

Mardi Winder-Adams, a seasoned divorce coach, opens up about the complexities of navigating high-conflict divorces in our latest episode. Specializing in cases involving challenging personalities like narcissists, Mardi shares her empathetic yet strategic approach to supporting women through tumultuous separations. The conversation highlights the necessity of assembling a strategic team—comprised...

How do you navigate the stormy seas of co-parenting after trauma?" Join us as we tackle this pressing question with Katie from the UK-based Single Mama Club. Katie's dedication to empowering single mothers resonates through our engaging conversation, shedding light on the hurdles of parental alienation and post-separation challenges. Learn practical strategies for maintaining emotional r...

What does the term "legal abuse" really mean, and how can it empower those lost in the complexities of the legal system? Our guest, social media sensation JayDee Milo, takes us on a journey of validation and understanding, shedding light on this often-overlooked issue. Known for his comedic videos featuring wigs, JayDee brings a unique perspective to the table, highlighting how language...

Can your gut health truly be influenced by trauma? Discover the profound connection between stress, gut health, and physical well-being with our special guest, Maisie Smith-Lovett, a holistic health practitioner and trauma healer. Maisie unravels how legal battles and strained relationships often keep our bodies locked in a perpetual fight-or-flight mode, disrupting our digestive system and overal...

Unlock the secrets to understanding addiction and empowering recovery in our gripping conversation with addiction counselor and certified parent coach, Mary Ann Palmer. This episode promises to redefine your approach to addiction by embracing non-stigmatizing language and acknowledging the complex interplay of genetics and mental health. Mary Ann provides powerful insights into how parents can inf...

Join us as we explore the complex and emotionally charged topics of parental alienation and false allegations in custody cases. We welcome Charles Jamieson, a highly experienced attorney from Florida, who shares his invaluable insights gathered over 40 years of practice. Charlie helps us understand how parental alienation often arises when one parent attempts to vilify the other, significantly imp...

Unlock the secrets to safeguarding your financial future during and after a divorce with insights from Tony Wimperis, a seasoned CPA and tax director. Learn how to navigate the intricate world of divorce-related tax issues, including the potential conflicts of interest when accountants have longstanding ties to one spouse. Tony provides invaluable advice on managing the risks of unreported income,...

Renowned psychologist and author Dr. Josh Coleman joins us for an eye-opening conversation on the challenging realities of parental estrangement and alienation, particularly amidst high-conflict divorces. Drawing from his influential book, "Rules of Estrangement," Dr. Coleman reveals surprising statistics and societal stigmas surrounding estrangement. With 70% of estranged parents having...

Join us as we explore the intricate and emotionally charged issue of parental alienation with our insightful guest, Charlie McCready, a UK-based parental alienation coach. Charlie shares his personal journey as a survivor of alienation, shedding light on the concept of "pre-alienation," which he coined to describe the subtle grooming process leading to relationship breakdowns. With his e...

Can anxiety be transformed from a daunting presence into a manageable part of life? Join us as we uncover the complexities of modern anxiety with Andrea Nave, a licensed therapist and creator of the "How to Beat Anxiety Blog." Andrea and I explore the reasons behind the apparent rise in anxiety levels today, from societal issues like election stress and economic worries to the relentless...

Join us as we welcome back our friend, Chelsey Brooke Cole, a therapist and author specializing in narcissistic abuse and complex trauma. Chelsey shares her journey and expertise in navigating safe sharing after experiencing abuse. We explore the delicate balance between maintaining boundaries and fostering healthy relationships, emphasizing the importance of discernment in choosing whom to trust...

What if the most dangerous form of abuse leaves no physical marks? Join us as we sit down with Ellen Schwartz and Maliha Janjua from Women Aware to uncover the dark reality of coercive control, a form of domestic violence that instills fear and isolates victims without physical assault. As New Jersey pioneers legal changes to recognize this insidious abuse, we dive into the controversies these law...

The holidays can be a twinkling time of joy for many, but for those who've tangled with a narcissist, the season's lights may dim. Our conversation with John from Male Victims of Female Narcissists peels back the layers of this often unspoken struggle, whatever your gender. Together, we unravel the painful process of ending a toxic relationship, especially when it leads to the heartbreak...

Acclaimed singer and author Tyra Juliette Schwartz joins us to unravel the pressing issue of shielding children from gaslighting while nurturing their critical thinking abilities. With her compelling book, "The Sky is Red," Tyra shares powerful insights from her extraordinary journey—from touring with music legends to becoming a mother and fierce advocate for children's empowerment....

Unlock the secrets to creating harmonious parenting plans that stand the test of time. Join us for an enlightening conversation with Connecticut attorney Kevin Hoffkins, who brings over 35 years of family law experience to the table. Kevin sheds light on the pitfalls of vague legal language and offers strategies to avoid prolonged court battles through the crafting of clear, customized parenting a...

Family lawyer and mediator (and author of our first book's foreword!) David Morneau joins us to shed light on the emotional rollercoaster of divorce proceedings and the legal system's role in intensifying fears. With his practice of principled cooperative negotiation, David offers a refreshing perspective on handling conflicts constructively, emphasizing the importance of supportive voic...

What if the rising tide of eating disorders among children could be linked to the emotional aftermath of high-conflict divorces? Join us as we unpack this critical issue with Melissa Spann, the Chief Clinical Officer at Monte Nido and Affiliates. In our conversation, Melissa unveils the alarming trend of eating disorders manifesting as early as six years old in contexts often overlooked, such as t...

Unlock the secrets to personal empowerment and healing from narcissistic abuse with Tanya Marie Dubé, our inspiring guest and the host of the Unbreakable Women Pop-Up Podcast. Learn how Tanya's journey evolved from helping individuals through divorce to becoming a beacon of hope for survivors of emotional abuse. This episode provides actionable insights on building resilience and finding cour...