bed hoppers - swinging in the UK

Thanks for downloading our podcast. Ever wanted to know what it's like being a bull? This is the episode for you! We chat to Ashley Del Toro, Chicago’s Premier Hotwife Lover, about all things bull, hotwife, stag and vixen. He gives us some insight into life as a bull, his top tips for finding the right single guy for you and what it's like flying across the world for a special meet. We cover a hug...

Thanks for downloading our podcast.  In this episode we talk about a surprise MFM - and what it might mean (along with our forthcoming event) for our ever developing approach to the lifestyle. We announce that tickets for our Vanilla Alternative takeover event are now on sale. And we have a good ole natter about rules and boundaries. Handy links Want to come to our come together takeover event at...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this bonus episode we talk about night two of our social 2.0. Why's that interesting? Well, there's an orgy with some amazing friends, for one. We spill the beans on some naughtiness. We also take time out to reflect on seeing our good friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen do their Hotwife thing. We talk about how we felt seeing a very different dynamic.  We a...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. Trigger warning - this one is a little bit of a name dropping humblebrag. We talk about our second social event and how it went. Mrs H names and shames the people who misbehaved, we talk about a couple of surprise guests and we have some audio clips from people who attended. We speak about what went well and how we could improve it for next time. Oh, and we teas...

We return to the Vanilla Alternative after a couple of years off (blooming pandemic, eh?). We give our thoughts on the updated club and interview some folks who went along with us, along with some listeners we bumped into. Then it all gets a little bit hot. We talk about a seven person orgy that we hosted in our room on the night - and a few other things that we got up to in VA. Stay tuned to the...

Thanks for downloading our podcast.  In this episode we announce that our second social has now sold out (thank you everyone) and speak to our incredible friend and special guest Violet (https://twitter.com/WhatVioletDid). We talk about findom, pay pigs, camming, photography, us (hey, it is OUR show) and lots of other interesting things as we get to know Violet better. It's a fabulous insight into...

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast! This time we are joined by our delightful friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen. We talk about getting started in the swinging and Hotwife lifestyles (since it's a New Year and all that jazz). So, if you've decided to do something exciting for the New Year, this could be just what you're after. We offer some hints and tips and also explore some of our own journey...

Thanks for downloading our show. This time around we take a trip to meet the delightful Clitbang ( https://twitter.com/ms_clt ) and Essex Sprite. We talk about our naughty night with them and then chat about a nice little social visit with Starlord and Pennylane ( https://twitter.com/starlordandpen ). We talk about sexy times, missed opportunities and why Mr H has to be involved at all times. We t...

Thanks for downloading our show. This time around we head to Birmingham for the Up the Brum social event - and stay in an AirBNB with the delightful DisNerds and PennyLane and Starlord. We talk about how the social went for us and some of the naughty things that happened later on in the evening. We also cover some of the challenges of sorting out Social V2 and a bit about how we're feeling about o...

Thanks for downloading our podcast! Martyn from the Swingers TV show makes a welcome return to talk about being a single guy in the lifestyle and give us the behind the scenes info about his appearance on the Kinky Dating TV show. We reflect on our TV time and also our not so recent social.  Martyn offers some top tips for single guys too - handy if you're trying to make an impression in the swing...

Thanks for listening to our show! This one is all about a recent sexy date and how things went a little bit wrong. Just like the song says - we fuck things up and make mistakes! Don't worry though - it all turned out ok in the end. Honest. We cover a few of the things that have gone wrong on other dates too. And we have our final Secret Vixen blog at the end (this time Secret Stag reads his take o...

Thanks for checking out our show. After some travel and adventures, we come back home to find that El juego de las llaves (Game of keys) season two is now available on Amazon Prime. We talk about the show and explore some other Swing based TV shows and movies that you might enjoy (and some you probably won't).  We also have another reading of the Secret Vixen blog ( https://secretvixen.blog/ ), wh...

Thanks for checking out the bed hoppers podcast. This time around we head to the Unseen Lounge social in Nottingham with Secret Vixen. We talk about some sexy fun, with Mrs H taking a back seat and watching the action. You'll hear her report to Secret Stag - wow, that gets a little hot. And just when you think things are coming to an end, we have a special guest who reads a chapter of her blog (al...

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast. This time around we talk about our social. That's right - the one we've been banging on about for ages. We host our first ever social event. Was it a success? Did we party too hard the night before? Did we fail to host an orgy? Did we make up for it the next day? What on earth was pizza-gate? And why should you keep your eye on the naughty corner?  We answer all...

Thanks for taking a look at our show. This week we interview fabulous guests Kitty Dagger and Emerald Debauchery about all things BBW (that's Big Beautiful Women). We find out about their lifestyle experiences, the ups and and downs and their advice on body confidence and ethical non monogamy. If you've got thoughts about this episode and would like to get in touch - hit us up on Twitter (@bedhopp...

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast! In this episode we talk about our weekend away with Hiscockhertail and Secret Stag and Secret Vixen. We cover some sexy play times but also reflect on introducing friends to friends and jumping back on the saddle. We catch up on Secret Vixen's blog and talk about the bed hopper's social. Find out about our friends at @HisCockHerTail, @Secret_Stag and @secret_vix...

Welcome to episode 109!  We take to Twitter to ask for topics and questions and get a great range of things to cover. From what men should wear to a club to challenges with babysitting and more. We tease (quite literally) some recent adventures and also speak about rebuilding trust after breaking some rules. If you sent a question or topic our way - thank you! If you'd like to comment on the episo...

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast. In this episode we talk about rules (yes - we know that's a trigger word for some) and how they've evolved over the last 18 months in particular. We cover three different occasions (with some sexy bits) where it seems that Mrs H has broken our rules/boundaries. Angelic Mr H doesn't gloat at all about this (honest). People of Twitter join in and add t...

What an epic story! This one is all about Clit Bangs' (@ms_clt) Star Trek themed birthday party. Hint - it turns into something of a borgy (borg orgy). We talk about all of the hot stuff, what (and who) went down and about a slight break in our rules. From nerves of playing again through to giant purple hats, this one literally has it all. Want to find out more about the other party people? They w...

Thanks for downloading our show. This time around Mrs H talks to the delightful @secret_vixen1, Vanilla Ice off of @HisCockHerTail and @ms_clt. Massive thanks to those amazing ladies for hopping into our show. The topic? This one is all about lady parts, vulvas, pussy, flaps, minges and more. Do they like their own? Do they like other peoples? What about labiaplasty? This one covers some serious g...

Thanks for taking a look at our show. In this happy instalment Mr H's sister (and her two friends) interview us on everything they'd like to know about the swinging lifestyle. From jealousy to rules to 'please don't spill that on my recording equipment' - this one has it all. Well, maybe not all but it has us answering some fun questions and having a good time. Special thanks to Chopper (Mr H's si...

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast! In this episode we talk about breaking the seal and getting back into some adventures. There are a couple of stories - one about Mrs H's friend and one about a recent encounter with the amazing Secret Stag and Secret Vixen (off of the Twitters). There's some moral story, sexy times and 80s cartoons. Sounds like a perfect mix to us! Find Team Secret at @Secret_St...

Thanks for downloading our show. In episode 103 we tackle a few more swinging sites, including swing-pro, virtualswingin, Natterish and Killing Kittens. We take a look at the user experience, number of users, how they feel and much, much more. If you're a member of these sites, do say hello! Next time around we'll be talking about lady parts - so if you have thoughts on that, please get in touch a...

Welcome to episode 102 - where we take a look at some of the different swinger dating sites (mostly with a UK focus). We talk functionality, security, look and feel - and much, much more. The sites we cover are... https://silverswingers.co/ https://swingersbarn.co.uk/ https://xsite.uk/ https://clubhouse121.com/ Do you have a favourite site? Do you use one of the above? What did you think? Get in t...

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast.  Since this is episode 101, Mrs H thought it was a great opportunity to moan about some of the stuff we don't like about the swinging lifestyle. So we chuck some of the things we don't like in the Room 101 bin - and head to Twitter to see what some of listeners would throw away too. Listen now to find out what really grinds our gears. Have you got so...