bed hoppers - swinging in the UK

In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of random fun topics. Does Secret Stag enjoy the limelight? Will we be tempted by the one ring? How many pop culture references can we fit in one sitting? Fin...

After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They explore just what makes Secret Stag tick and what drives his desires. If you've ever thought about being a stag (or cuck) this might just be the episode for yo...

In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the benefit of all listeners! Download now for a fabulous convo with fabulous ladies. Thanks for hopping into our bed.   Handy links Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitt...

In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like to send us a question, hit us up at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com Thanks for hopping into our bed! Links and stuff Special thanks to the following for submitting a...

Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang! This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), some of the amusing stories and a little bit of the sexy times that we had on the night. We also talk about Mr H's birthday (thanks for all of the well wishe...

In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to - and Mr H gives the deets of his sexy story. Would we do it again? You'll just have to listen to find out! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Wa...

This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show ( https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder ) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers and talk about the Winter Wonderland event - our joint event which was the largest swinging hotel takeover that's ever happened in the UK (what a mouthful). We go behind th...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. We take time out to follow up on a discussion we'd started in Miami. For some context, in Florida Mrs H missed out on the opportunity to play with some ladies/one particular lady. This, linked in with some observed changes to our approach, has prompted some discussion about separate play. So, we lay it all out on the table and talk about why this might be a thin...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about our recent adventure to Florida and how Miami Podcast-A-Palooza (PCAP) went for us. We cover what it was like at the event, what we got up to and our thoughts on returning. There's some theme park talk and a little bit of naughty too - something for everyone!  Handy links Find out more about about PCAP and other Libertine events her...

In this episode we speak to the lovely Olivia and Gage about Swinghub (their new lifestyle dating app), appearances on TV (including Open House) and also explore how they met and what they do with their spare time! We have some fun along the way, chat about our shared TV experiences and find out much more about them too!  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out about SwingHub: https:...

In this episode we have a chat about some upcoming events and talk through our approach. What are our expectations, some of our rules and boundaries - and how are we going to make the best of our experience. Take a listen to find out how we prep for events - and have some honest conversations about how we think it might go! Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Handy links Come to our Winter Wonderla...

In this episode we have a quick catch-up on Mrs H's birthday and then dive right in to the topic of the day - our visit to Swindon Swingers Club. We give you the basics on how it works, what it's like and try to remember the layout off the top of our heads. It's a handy guide if you're planning to visit for the first time! We also cover a little bit about how we're feeling when visiting clubs and...

Thanks for downloading our show! In this episode we answer some listener questions - from making a great first impression and recovering from an illness - all the way through to an exploration of masturbation (thanks for that one, Mrs H!). We also announce our brand new event (Winter Wonderland) that we're hosting with the amazing Wanderlust Swingers. We offer an update on our home lives and talk...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about some of the sexy times we had on our Going Dutch adventure. From six in a tiny room to a show for two - this one has it all. We cover the naughty times but also deep dive into a something of a hiccup on the Sunday afternoon. We talk about losing yourself in the moment and how much you give to your play partners - and we wonder how m...

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about our Going Dutch event with the Wanderlust Swingers. We cover the basics on the trip and explore the two clubs that we visited - Fata Morgana and Fun4Two. We compare the two and reveal our favourite - handy if you're heading to Amsterdam and the like. Do get in touch if you've been to either club or have some other recommendations. ...

Thanks for taking a look at our podcast. In this episode we talk about our Hot Summer Nights event at Penthouse Playrooms (co-hosted with the Wanderlust Swingers) and how it went for us and for special guests HiscockHertail (LV and VI). We cover what's been going on at home and the lead up to the event - along with a few spicy details about the night.    Special thanks go to... Cate and Darrell fo...

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we answer popular listener question - what are our favourite clubs in the UK? So, we talk about our top three and explore just why we'd recommend them, the good, the bad and the ugly. Well, mostly the good - we're pretty positive. Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Handy links The Vanilla Alternative:  https://va2.co.uk/ Le Boudoir: https://leboudoi...

Thanks for picking our podcast! In this episode we talk about our worst experience ever. We delve into some of the meets that have gone wrong and then into a situation that we'd never want to repeat. We explore a weekend break from several years back that we've never discussed on the podcast before. Trigger warning - it includes a hospital trip and a seizure - so please keep that in mind as you li...

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about a rather exciting weekend. From bottomless drinks and hosting friends all the way through to our social event and a very sexy threesome. Sounds like a great weekend to us. Secret kisses and sleepy hand jobs too! We also talk about attending a rather lovely social event in Oxford. Apologies in advance for Mr H's voice - I'm sorry, I...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. This one is a chat between us - we decided to ask each other some questions that we think everyone might benefit from. So, consider this a lifestyle and relationship check-in. The questions are... 1. Why are we doing this? 2. Are we having fun? 3. What does the future look like? 4. How are we staying connected? 5. Is there anything you'd like to tell me? We run...

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we interview great friends the Twoofus (or the Twoofers) - and find out more about how they came to join the lifestyle, their favourite clubs and who they'd have over for tea. There's some fun along the way with favourite sandwiches and who'd play us and them in our own film.  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out more about the Twoo...

In this episode we tackle some of the great swinger myths - where they might come from, if any of them are actually true and which are just urban legends.  Mrs H pulls together a list of her favourites and tests Mr H on the fact or fiction. A fun little adventure through some of those crazy things we've heard in the swinging lifestyle. Thanks for hopping into our show! Handy Links Hot Summer Night...

In this episode we invite fabulous friends Secret Vixen and Secret Stag on for a discussion on guilt. We cover feeling guilty as parents, carers and friends as we take time out to explore our sexuality and the swinging and hot-wifing lifestyles. If you've ever felt bad for dropping your friends, leaving your kids with the grand-parents or having your own life - this might just be the topic for you...

Did you know that we were on TV again? In the UK we were on 5Star (a Channel 5 thing) on a show called Adults Only - swingers wanted. At the time of publishing, it's still available on catch up. We talk about filming, what on earth made us do TV again and what we thought about the programme. We compare it to our previous effort on television and work through what worked well and what wasn't for us...

We delve into some random listener questions - from the ultimate Batman to perfecting your profile. Should you sh1t on your own doorstep and how long have we been name and face out? There's some serious discussion and some fun to be had too. Also - look out for the slightly new intro! Thanks for hopping into our bed. Handy links Want to come to our Going Dutch event?  Head here to get tickets and...