BecomingU

In this episode, Busayo and I discuss boundaries, relationships, self-respect, and personal growth. We talk about how setting boundaries affects both friendships and romantic relationships, and why communication and self-awareness matter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode is a real conversation about motherhood, not just the “joy,” but everything. We talk about the emotional highs and lows, the challenges, the support (or lack of it), and how it all impacts your life, your career, and your sense of self. I’m joined by Toluwase, who shares her personal experience navigating pregnancy, postpartum, and motherhood . We get into everything. If you’ve ever w...

I had a great conversation with Mrs. Florence Abolaji Lawal about balancing career, marriage, and personal growth. We talked about the idea of “having it all” and how it often comes in seasons, the importance of setting priorities, and some of the common myths around women, leadership, and success. She also shared her perspectives on women’s empowerment, financial independence, and rediscovering y...

Yes! We now have a community, and the first 20 people to join will get something special. Let’s get the conversation going, here’s the link to join: https://chat.whatsapp.com/K0FU2tNWdTu4Am9lYv50CU On this week’s episode, I sat down with CheckedEdgar, and let’s just say… I was shocked to learn that he went on 72 dates in 52 weeks. And somehow, he’s still single. We talked about everything, the goo...

In this episode, Selina and I talk about love, work-life balance, and the cultural differences between Ghana and Nigeria. We share our Valentine’s Day experiences, discuss the challenges of integrating into new environments, and reflect on gender roles and the position of women in African society. We also touch on entrepreneurship, travel plans, and the importance of cultural understanding between...

In this episode, Comfort Omovre, a relationship coach, and I unpack the question, “Is love ever enough?” We talk about heartbreak, healing, and the role friendship plays in romantic relationships. We also share our experiences with toxic dynamics, self-discovery after heartbreak, and learning to let go of the desire for validation. We share it all from the heart. 00:00 The Crisis of Faith in Love...

I had a really chill conversation with Deborah about how she moved from food science into tech and is now working as an AI software developer. We talked about learning tech on your own, dealing with imposter syndrome, and why having the right community matters so much. She also shared some honest truths about tech, especially for women, and why it is never too late to start. If you have ever thoug...

In this episode, Aduragbemi Oladunjoye and I talk about content creation and what it really means to be visible in the digital space. We talk about the pressure that comes with being called a “content creator,” personal branding, and the balance between planning and spontaneity when showing up online. We also talked about networking, self-promotion, and why advocating for yourself matters in compe...

In this episode, I sit down with Ehiz Oriaifo to have an honest conversation about the journey from unemployment to entrepreneurship in Nigeria. We discuss the realities of building a creative business, using social media for marketing, navigating client relationships, and why diversifying income is key. Ehiz shares his personal journey, the fears of leaving stability, lessons learned along the wa...

In this episode of the Becoming You podcast, I sit down with Tofunmi, an HR professional, and we get into it. She shares how she found her way into human resources, what the job market actually looks like right now, and how AI is changing the hiring process. We talk about confidence in interviews, what HR people are really looking for, and some personal experiences that shaped how we both think ab...

On today’s episode, we’re talking money, spending, saving, investing, and basically everything money-related that our parents forgot to mention lol. And we have a guest! Today, I’m talking with Oladapo, who is a data analyst, and we chat about our money habits. We talk serious stuff in the most light-hearted way ever. Enjoy the episode! Don’t forget to follow us on Instagram and join the conversat...

Happy New Year, my friends, and welcome to 2026! In this episode, we talk about everything goals: the importance of setting them, the challenges that come with it, and why self-reflection is key to real growth. I share personal experiences, break down practical goal-setting strategies (including SMART goals), and talk honestly about why hard work still matters, manifestation aside. I also yap a li...

In this episode, I reflect on my plans for December, sharing personal anecdotes and insights about the importance of creating memories, enjoying the festive season, while navigating the challenges of adulting. I talk about my podcast journey, the growth it has experienced, and my plans for the new year. I also share my Spotify Wrapped and a bit of social commentary on relationships. 00:00 Introduc...

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Tolulope Komolafe as we talk about the realities of life after graduation. We talk about adulting, career choices, and the chaos that comes once school is over. We reflect on our own university experiences and how unprepared we all feel when real life starts. Tolu's cake business brand page is - _la_tozzi 00:00 Reflecting on Life Phases02:01 The Chaos of Post-Univ...

In this episode, Bukky and Ayomide engage in a conversation about blackness, resilience, and identity. They explore their personal experiences with racial consciousness, the challenges of navigating double consciousness in daily life, and the cultural differences they encounter living in different countries. 07:07 Resilience and Identity in the Black Experience 13:49 Racial Consciousness: Realizat...

In this episode, Dr. Bright Gyamfi joins me as we discuss Pan-Africanism, the tension between community and individualism, and what activism really looks like today. We talk about why political consciousness among young people matters more than ever, the complexities of Nigeria’s issues, and how music has always been one of our strongest tools for awakening. This episode is a reminder that our ind...

In this episode, I have a conversation with Ife and Faith about what it really means to be spiritual but not religious. We share personal stories on faith, community, and finding meaning beyond traditional religion. We talk about how spirituality is a deeply personal connection with God, while religion often follows more structured paths. We also explore the beauty and challenges of maintaining fa...

In this episode of Becoming You Pod, Joel, Olu, and I have an honest conversation about patriarchy and how it affects men. We talk about whether patriarchy can also be a burden, the financial expectations placed on men, and the emotional struggles they face when it comes to being vulnerable. We also reflect on what patriarchy really means, its historical roots, and how the roles of men and women a...

In this episode, Bukky talks about the struggle to find work-life balance. She shares personal experiences and cultural perspectives on ambition, money, and self-care. Through honest conversations with friends, she explores how capitalism shapes our idea of success and questions whether true balance is even possible today. 00:00 The Quest for Feedback and Self-Reflection 02:56 Navigating Financial...

In this episode, Bukky shares her personal experiences with various fears that come with adulthood, including the fear of making it, losing loved ones, and the fear of silence and loneliness. She discusses the impact of these fears on her mental health and happiness, and emphasizes the importance of confronting them to lead a fulfilling life. Bukky also explores the complexities of social connecti...

In this episode, we talk about sexual and reproductive health, discussing the cultural stigmas that prevent open conversations about our bodies. We explore the importance of education, the role of medical practitioners, and the need for early detection of health issues, particularly breast cancer. The conversation also addresses common myths surrounding sexual health and emphasizes the significanc...

In this episode, I explore the complex relationship between Christianity and feminism, addressing some common misconceptions and reflecting on how these two ideologies can actually align. I share personal stories and observations from society, touching on topics like gender equality, submission in marriage, and the importance of open conversations about feminism within faith communities. At its co...

In this episode of the Becoming You podcast, I talk about the end-of-year pressure and trying to hit all the goals before the year ends. I share some of my own experiences, moments when things didn’t go as planned, the stress of expectations, and how society sometimes makes it feel like we’re behind. More than anything, I reflect on staying hopeful, keeping things realistic, and finding ways to ta...

In this episode, I explore a question we all grapple with: is it really possible to love yourself with your imperfections? I discuss what self-love truly means, why it is more than just a feeling, and how it requires intentional practice every day. I talk about the societal pressures and internal struggles that can make self-love feel impossible, and why forgiveness, positivity, and self-compassio...

This week’s episode is a special one, as we had our very first guest of the season, Stella Maris, join me. We mainly spoke about life in the diaspora, specifically how we’ve navigated cultural disconnects and the struggle to find real community and friendships. We touched on many aspects, from colorism and imposter syndrome to the stress of adulting and the joy of embracing our roots. It was such...