Becoming You Again

Unlock the secret to emotional resilience with one simple practice. Imagine shedding your stress and emotional baggage with a transformative technique called rhythmic shaking. This is an empowering somatic practice that helps you release tension and stress, especially if you're navigating grief or feeling overwhelmed. This episode will teach you the power of gentle movement and rhythm in fost...

When something goes wrong who’s the first person to feel your wrath? If you’re like most women, it’s you. The viper tongue shows up with a barrage of ways you’re not good enough and it’s all your fault.  In this episode I talk about why we, as women, are so mean and full of self hate and how to switch the narrative learning to like (and hopefully even) love yourself.  In this episode I confront th...

When was the last time you felt frustrated, annoyed or downright angry at something your ex did? If it was recently, or if you’ve ever thought, it would be so nice if they’d just do things the way I do them, then this episode is for you.  In this episode, we'll explore the concept of 'manuals'—those pesky expectations we impose on others—and how releasing them can lead to dropping t...

Imagine breaking free from the chains of self-blame that you’re feeling, especially after going through divorce. This episode explores the profound self-blame women often experience during and after divorce, rooted in societal conditioning and expectations. I’ll discuss the fine line between taking responsibility and succumbing to guilt and offer tools to reprogram your conditioned societal belief...

Healing from divorce trauma is a journey that requires more than just time—it demands a commitment to understanding and nurturing your own emotional health. What if you could move past paralyzing grief and disconnection from yourself that often come with a divorce? In this episode, I share four transformative steps to help you heal from the trauma of your divorce, guiding you toward reclaiming you...

As the year comes to a close, many people find themselves in a reflective state, especially those who have been experiencing the emotional journey of divorce. Have you ever wondered how grief from a divorce can reshape your life? Join me, Karin Nelson, where I offer insights into understanding divorce grief beyond the traditional stages. By the end of this episode you will see how grief emerges no...

Making confident decisions during and after divorce can seem daunting, especially if you've been living your life in the shadow of deferring to someone else's authority, not trusting your own opinions, and dismissing your intuition as knowledge of what's best for you. But it doesn't have to be this way. You can develop the skill of making confident decisions. Join me, Karin Nel...

Ruminating thoughts can feel like a relentless storm, especially during the emotional upheaval of divorce. Imagine finding a way to calm those swirling thoughts without battling them head-on. Join me as we explore how somatic practices can help regulate your nervous system and alleviate stress, allowing your mind to refocus on healing rather than replaying the past. We'll delve into the emoti...

Divorce is often full of complex emotional pain and suffering during/after divorce.  Imagine transforming your experience of pain into a manageable part of life by recognizing how self-imposed suffering makes everything feel worse. In this episode you'll gain insight from Buddhist analogy, and learn to empower yourself to take control over your emotional life. By the end of this episode you&a...

Divorce and the holiday season can feel like an overwhelming emotional rollercoaster full of triggers, unexpected bad surprises and a lot of thoughts of just wanting them to be over. But this year can be different. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I share personal insights and practical strategies to help you manage your holiday season this year to make you feel more calm, more capable of handling the ne...

Amidst the turmoil of divorce, managing stress can feel like an insurmountable challenge, but what if you could navigate it with healing, clarity and control? Join me as I teach you about the complexities of the stress cycle and uncover how understanding its nuances can transform your experience during and after a divorce. With insights in this episode, you'll discover how to reclaim your pow...

Setting boundaries after divorce is a transformative step towards reclaiming your emotional well-being. Ever wondered how boundaries differ from ultimatums, especially when navigating the complexities of post-divorce life? Join me as I walk you through the difference between the two, helping you establish personal limits that protect your emotional safety while fostering healthier relationships. W...

Do you find yourself spinning in thoughts of worst case scenario after divorce? Do you try to anticipate all of things that could go wrong and try to figure out a way to stop it all from happening? In this episode you will learn to unlock the secret to stopping the cycle of catastrophic thinking.  Imagine yourself navigating the storm of intrusive thoughts and worst-case scenarios with understandi...

Over-functioning, especially among women in the midst of divorce, becomes a relentless cycle of exhaustion and misplaced control. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I share insights, personal stories and heartfelt exploration of how societal pressures and more lead us to take on too much, become burdened by the mental load of it all and feel like we have the world on our shoulders - always at the expense o...

Discover the transformative power of movement in managing anxiety and the overwhelming freeze response that often accompanies the journey of divorce recovery. Listen in as I relay my personal experience with going from my habitual freeze/shutdown state to instant realigning of my nervous system and feeling better through movement. You will learn a quick practical technique to calm your nervous sys...

How often have you made choices and decisions based off of what someone else might think? If you're like me, that happens pretty often. In this episode I'll teach you about the mirror effect of perceived society judgment. You'll discover the transformative power of self-acceptance and confidence as you learn to overcome rejection and self-judgment. You'll learn the key to being...

Can breaking free from all-or-nothing thinking transform your post-divorce life? This episode promises to show you how shifting away from black-and-white thought patterns can unlock the power and choices you didn't realize you had. I'll walk you through how this limiting mindset can leave you feeling powerless and stuck during your divorce. I'll also offer practical strategies to re...

Ever wondered why comparison during and after a divorce feels so painful? Join me on this episode of "Becoming You Again" as we uncover the deep-rooted reasons behind the comparison instinct and how it affects our emotional well-being. You'll learn why our mind turns to comparison in the first place. You'll hear relatable scenarios from divorce and family life that illustrate h...

Navigating the emotional whirlwind of divorce can feel overwhelming and isolating, but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode you will learn a transformative emotional processing tool that can help you manage the complex feelings you're experiencing. I'll guide you through the practical exercise that will help you shift your focus from distressing narratives to your physical sensations....

Feeling lonely after a divorce can be an overwhelming experience, particularly for women. It's essential to understand that loneliness is an emotional state and not a reflection of your worth. Join me, Karin Nelson, as I unpack the difference between being alone and feeling lonely. I'll show you why loneliness  feels so heavy and how being alone in society today has gotten a bad rap. I o...

What if the act of letting go isn’t a one-time event, but a continuous, liberating journey? Join me, Karin Nelson, as I walk you through the intricate and often emotional process of moving forward after a divorce. This episode unpacks the concept of letting go, emphasizing that it's a skill requiring time, patience, and emotional resilience. I will explore and offer practical strategies to gr...

Can you truly transform your emotional state during a divorce by changing your thoughts? Discover the profound impact of your mental habits and gain control over your emotions in what can often feel like an overwhelming time. Through this episode of "Becoming You Again," we explore the top-down versus bottom-up processes of thought and emotional responses, revealing how awareness of thes...

What if trusting yourself was the key to rebuilding a strong, independent life post-divorce? Rediscover the power of self-trust this week as we explore how you can reconnect with your innate confidence and intuition, even amidst the turbulence of life changes. Drawing from my own experiences, I share actionable insights designed to help you remember what your self trust feels like so you can revit...

Feeling overwhelmed by divorce guilt? Discover how to break free from societal and internal pressures that make you feel like a failure. This week on "Becoming You Again," we unravel the deep-rooted sources of divorce guilt, especially among women, and challenge the patriarchal beliefs that surround divorce. Divorce guilt can feel like a heavy burden, but it doesn’t have to dictate your...

When you're in the thick of your divorce, it can feel like EVERYTHING sucks, EVERYTHING is hard, EVERYONE is against you, and you're life will NEVER feel peaceful or normal again. In this episode I'm teaching you the 50/50 principle that can help you look at your divorce and anything else in your life through a different lens. This episode will serve as a guide to getting through th...