Be The Torch

Most leaders believe trust is earned through vision, values, and competence. It isn’t. People don’t trust your words. They trust your patterns. In this LIVE conversation, I break down why smart, capable leaders lose their team’s trust without realizing it and what separates leaders people follow from leaders people quietly manage around . You’ll learn: The subtle behaviors that cause teams to filt...

Most men are playing victim and blame everything around them. Her. The kids. The employees. The economy. Meanwhile their body is softening, their relationship is flat, the business is stuck and they keep attracting the same chaos in different clothing. In this solo episode, Cletus breaks down one of the core Be The Torch principles: life is a mirror, not a verdict. Your results in business, your b...

Dude, you don’t need a psychic to predict the future, you just need the balls to look in the mirror. In this episode, Cletus Coffey exposes how your current habits, beliefs, and standards quietly predict whether you’ll face divorce, burnout, or business collapse. You’ll learn how to read the signs, raise your standards, and stop the breakdown before it happens. Looking for more training to unlock...

You snap at your kids? Lose it with your partner? Let pressure dictate your decisions?  It’s not about them my friend. It’s about you. And if you don’t get this under control, you’ll burn trust, connection, and energy that you can’t afford to lose. In this episode of the Be The Torch Podcast , Cletus Coffey shares the Torch Treatment™ A 7-step recalibration tool that helps you regulate your emotio...

The Impossible Triangle That’s Screwing You..and Everyone Else If you’re a divorced dad running a business, you’ve been sold a lie that you can give 100% to your business, 100% to your kids, and 100% to yourself. The math doesn't add up. It’s impossible, and it’s killing you. In this episode of Be The Torch , I break down the brutal reality of the “Impossible Triangle” every divorced dad entr...

Are you struggling to balance business, fatherhood, and your own healing post-divorce or as a single dad? You’re trying to be a great father, a successful business owner, and somehow rebuild your life after divorce. But something keeps breaking down. That something… is you. In this episode breaks down: Why the “balance” myth is a lie keeping men stuck The dangerous role-playing identities that lea...

Most men believe that the best legacy they can leave behind is financial—wealth, inheritance, or handing over the family business. But here's the truth: that mindset might be hurting your children more than helping them. In this episode, I reveal the three powerful shifts every man must make if he truly wants to leave a legacy of freedom, fulfillment, and happiness : Possibility Over Wealth C...

Divorced. Distracted. Drowning in business?  If that’s you, and you’re tired of pretending everything’s fine while secretly struggling to keep it all together—this episode is your roadmap back to power. I reveal: - The 3 lies every divorced dad entrepreneur believes - The framework that rebuilt my life after burnout - How to lead from peace, not pressure 🔥 Join the FREE 5-Day Master Your Morning...

Brother, if you feel constantly drained, overwhelmed, or pulled in a million directions, this episode is a must listen.  I drop the hammer on one of the biggest silent killers of self-respect, productivity, and peace: poor boundaries. Whether it's your ex (co-parent), your clients, your employees, or even your kids—if you can’t hold the line, you’re not leading. You’re leaking energy. You’re...

The success of your business is a direct reflection of YOU.  In this episode, I’m calling out the trap most entrepreneurial single dads fall into: building a business at the cost of their health, relationships, and peace of mind. I break down: Why building a business before building yourself is a dead-end How your current struggles are mirrors—not roadblocks The 5 areas of self-mastery that drive...

No really...The #1 Investment in Your Business is You.  Most men think if they grind harder and make more money, their business will thrive. The truth? Your business can’t outgrow the man running it. In this episode, I lay down the hard truth: if you’re out of alignment, your business is too. Whether it’s your relationships, your mindset, or your energy— you are the single biggest investment in yo...

In this episode, I break down the 3 hidden power leaks that are silently sabotaging your leadership and business. If you’re a business-owning single father who’s tired of burnout, pressure, and underperformance...this one's for you. Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life? START HERE: Book a Call with Cletus If you are looking for more tips...

Why Happy Wife, Happy Life is Holding Your Business Back is not for weak men.  This is for men who want to feel loved, find happiness, meaning and purpose in their lives.  Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life? START HERE: Book a Call with Cletus If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources...

Your morning routine might be the silent killer of your energy, focus, and freedom. You’re just too afraid to admit it. You know damn well that tapping your phone, slurping coffee, and shoveling garbage in your mouth is NOT the way a man who’s on a mission starts his day. Yet your body and mind? It’s addicted. Conditioned. You’ve become a prisoner to your weakness before the sun even comes up. Thi...

If you clicked on this episode, respect to you. Most men won’t even approach this conversation because they’re afraid of what they’ll find inside themselves. The truth is, when you get triggered, it’s not about THEM. It’s about YOU. Your partner makes a comment, your kids push your buttons, someone at work challenges you...and boom, you react.  Are you tired of that experience?  Tired of the impac...

Men are taught from a young age that success equals happiness. The belief that if they grind harder, make more money, and achieve more, they’ll finally feel fulfilled.  But what happens when you check all the boxes—business, money, relationships, status—and still feel empty? In this episode, we’re breaking down the biggest lie about success and why your achievements aren’t making you happy.  You’l...

In this powerful episode of the Be The Torch Podcast , I reveal the key to transforming every area of your life: understanding that everything you experience is a reflection of who you are inside .  From your relationships with your partner, co-parent, and kids, to your results in business... Everything stems from your thoughts, beliefs, fears, and insecurities. I walk you through the truth that m...

#80 AI vs. Authentic Intelligence: The Real Secret to Standing Out in Marketing is a fresh take on the mad rush to adopt AI. Yep, AI is here to stay and while it's a viable tool, it is not the ultimate solution for your business. Learn the power of having a foundation of Authentic Intelligence to attract customer who will stay with you for the long haul.  In this episode, I explore: The diffe...

I'm turning 50!  It wasn't easy, however I share the top 5 lessons I've learned in my first 50 years of life that all men, single dads, and entrepreneurs can benefit from.  Whether you’re looking to take control of your mornings, build meaningful relationships, or create a thriving business, this episode is packed with valuable insights that can help you level up in every area of li...

Men Need Transformation—Not Just Change In this powerful episode of Be The Torch , I expose the biggest mistake ambitious single dads make: focusing on quick-fix changes instead of deep transformation. If you’re ready to move past superficial, short-term wins and finally experience true freedom, fulfillment, and success in your health, relationships, and business, tune in. Looking for more trainin...

In this episode of Be The Torch , Cletus Coffey challenges the popular notion that a woman’s top job is to give her man unconditional loyalty. Instead, he reveals why this demand stems from unhealed trauma and misguided masculine posturing—and how true loyalty, respect, and love can be experienced. If you’re a single dad wondering how to build a healthy, fulfilling relationship without the macho B...

In this episode of Be The Torch , I breakdown three common archetypes single dad entrepreneurs fall into—Victim, Fan, and Torchbearer—and how to break free from old outdated broken patterns that are keeping you stuck. I'm a former athlete so I use a powerful sports analogy, to help you learn how to recognize your current state of affairs, shift your mindset, and step into your true authentic...

Is it true that men need to stop "taking care of their responsibilities."  In this world where there expectation is that men must take care of their responsibilities, we are losing men. They are losing themselves. Men are lost, broken, exhausted, and in the process of producing, performing, and providing are taking less and less responsibility for themselves.  It's time for radical...

WARNING!  Do not attempt to go out into the dating world, as a single dad, until you have learned this game-changing strategy for not just finding love, but your soulmate. Looking for more training to unlock greater purpose, passion, profits and play in your life? START HERE: Book a Call with Cletus If you are looking for more tips and support to have success in all areas of life, these resources...

In this episode of Be The Torch , Cletus Coffey calls out entrepreneurs stuck in the hustle and grind, and shows how to step into their power by redefining their role in business—and life. Creatively crafted through the language of sports, discover how to level up from being the overwhelmed, overworked athlete/player to the true owner of your business.  🎙 What You'll Learn: [00:02:45] The sur...