Be The Torch

In this powerful episode of Be The Torch , Cletus Coffey dives into a topic often reserved for women’s podcasts—orgasms—and explores how they, along with vacations, are meant to release tension and stress, but in the big picture of life are only fleeting moments of relief that are keeping men stuck.. Discover a new approach to living a life of daily freedom, presence, and pleasure beyond these tem...

Do you sometimes feel like you’re carrying a heavy load and no one really knows how hard it is? In this episode of the Be The Torch podcast, I dive into the widespread struggle men face when they place all their energy into their relationships, children, and businesses—without nurturing their own purpose. As a single father and entrepreneur, I get it, I too lost myself in my responsibilities and a...

If you are a man in pain, struggling, feeling broken and need someone to talk with, please do not hesitate to dial 988. An anonymous call to talk it out with someone.  In this episode of the Be The Torch Podcast , we dive into the often overlooked struggles of high-performing men. Whether you're a man living this experience, or someone who loves and supports a man, this conversation sheds lig...

Ever feel like you don't have enough time to be a parent AND a business owner? Would you believe that if your focus is primarily on your business and your children, you are cheating everyone, including yourself, out of a life worth living. In this episode of the Be The Torch podcast, Cletus Coffey dives deep into what you should REALLY be focused on so that you can live the life you truly des...

Do you have an Olympic Hangover like I do? In this Olympic edition of the Be The Torch podcast, I dive into the lessons from the track and field events, particularly the men's 100-meter dash. If you’re feeling the Olympic hangover and missing the excitement, this episode will give you a fresh perspective on how the principles of sprinting apply directly to your journey as a man, father, and e...

Welcome to the Be The Torch podcast with your host, Cletus Coffey. In this episode, we dive deep into the journey of self-mastery for men, focusing on the power, purpose, passion, and play that lead to true freedom and fulfillment. If you're a single father and an entrepreneur, seeking growth in all areas of life, this episode is for you. We'll explore the importance of healing, building...

In this episode of the Be The Torch podcast, we dive deep into the art of communication—an essential skill for any entrepreneur, father, or leader. Join us as we explore the three core steps that can transform your business, relationships, and personal life. Learn how to communicate authentically, correct effectively, and shift behavior for better outcomes in every area of your life. Episode Highl...

In this important episode, we address a segment of men who do not have much support, resources or community to help them grow and evolve. Single Fathers who own and run businesses. We explore the unique challenges single fathers face and outline a roadmap to transform their lives. This episode serves as a bridge, connecting practical strategies with the ultimate goal of achieving a fulfilling life...

Transform your business and life by learning the power of profits. It's time to value your worth! Episode Highlights: Introduction to the fourth element of personal culture: Profits . Common pitfalls business owners face: not paying themselves and undervaluing their worth. Personal insights from Cletus Coffey on transitioning from professional athletics to business. The importance of shifting...

Struggling to balance entrepreneurship, fatherhood, and personal fulfillment?  This episode is your game-changer. Episode Highlights: Episode 5 of the " Power of Personal Culture " series, emphasizing the importance of presence in achieving life’s true fulfillment. Insight into Cletus’s personal struggles and how his experiences as a former professional athlete informed his approach to p...

Hey it's Cletus Coffey, bringing you the another episode on Personal Culture. In this episode, we're tackling #3 of the Power 5 of Personal Culture and its a crucial aspect: people. Here are the highlights: Leading Yourself to Lead Others: As high achievers and entrepreneurs, we often have a lot of people counting on us – whether it's in business, at home, or in our communities. But...

I ntroduction to Physiology: Hey there, it's Cletus Coffey from Be The Torch, back with video number two of our Power Five series on personal culture. Today, we're diving into physiology, which is all about taking care of the powerhouse that is your body. Understanding Personal Culture: Quick reminder: personal culture is about honing in on five key areas of your life: psychology, physio...

In your business, in your relationship, in your parenting, and your health, in your money – it's time for a transformation!  Join us on this podcast episode as we break free from old patterns and embrace a new journey towards success and fulfillment.  If you're ready to unlock your true potential and elevate every aspect of your life, this is the place to be. Let's shatter limitatio...

The power of Personal Culture is something every high performing man should learn how to embrace. It is the KEY to the FREEDOM, the PEACE, the FULFILLMENT and HAPPINESS that already lives inside you. Now is the time to light your torch and bring these feeling to life.  Introduction to Personal Culture: Hey there, it's Cletus Coffey, founder of Be The Torch, and I'm thrilled to kick off t...

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This episode is for those leaders who desire to impact the lives of others, whether it be at work, or at home. Coach and author, Levi Nelson who tell the story of what happens when a leader decides to care for those they lead. A powerful listen for anyone who wants to the most out of their people in a caring climate.  "I don't believe in a work life balance. I never stopped being a dad w...

In this first POWERFUL Be The Torch interview, we chat with Eben Greene, a entrepreneur of 35 years who open shares the real time challenges he faces personally and professionally as he navigate a pivot in life and business. Eben describes, in true colors, the challenging impact of focusing on business and business only has had on his health, his marriage and his family. "I really haven'...

Welcome to the Be The Torch podcast. This is the first episode and trailer for this new show. In this trailer, Cletus shares the journey to the rebrand and what he has learned along the way.  Join us as we explore how to find our inner torch so you can illuminate a path to success in all areas of life.  "I had to learn how to build a life my business fit into, not a business my life could fit...

In this eye opening episode, Cletus begins to share the process of telling the truth and accepting vulnerability as we way of life.  As entrepreneurs, we learned to "go all in," to "hustle and grind," however this strategy most often leads to pain and suffering. Especially if the business does great! Get ready to learn the value of creating a life rooted in purpose, passion, ha...

The popular cliche sports that almost every coach, and even media personalities, use is "trust the process." It's common usage leads us to believe that most athletes (and people) do not trust the process. So in order to achieve the success you desire in life after sports, should you really "trust the process?" Believe it or not, most athletes have struggled in using many o...

Let me know if you ever heard this as a competitive athlete: You need to go all in. Block out all distractions. Give it everything you have. Dedicate yourself. You have work on your game in-season and in the off-season. Of course you did. Our well intentioned coaches and parents wanted to support our athletic dreams. However, what they failed to realize was by encouraging us to go "all in&quo...

Sports is the ultimate platform for learning life's most important lessons. However, would you believe that our participation in sports has increased our levels of stress and anxiety? If you find yourself struggling with stress, pressure, anxiety, overwhelm and confusion around what success really is in life, then this is the episode for you. This goes beyond the stress that parents, coaches,...

The 5 P's to success in life after sports, are power keys every former athlete must understand! Are you seeking fulfillment in your life after sports? Are you struggling to find something that you are as passion about as you once were with being an athlete? Do you crave the fun, freedom and fulfillment of sports? You're not alone! As you know, the transition to finding success in life af...

Welcome to the 2022 Winter Olympics episode with former professional snow skier Jamie MoCrazy. If you are an Olympics fan like I am, the next several weeks are going to a ton of fun. The amazing part of the Games is only 3 athletes in each event are coming home with a medal. What we know as former athletes, is often times a victory, or in this case a medal, can make or break this experience for ma...

When it comes to setting goals, sports failed us. For most of us, goals were based on status, wins & losses, stats, times, championships, and achievements. If we hit them, we were elated! If we missed them the season was consider a failure. This pattern of goal "setting" and goal "missing" has to stop...starting now. In the episode, I give you a foundational system you can...