Brandi and Sel
balanced mess
girlies, it's messy over here! in all seriousness, we're just living life. Brandi and Selitha started this podcast in college and have been friends and co-hosts since. Tune in for a new season of elevated girls chats and life updates in their mid 20s. Follow them on insta @balancedmesspod
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Brandi and Sel
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Aug 10, 2025
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Episodes
A California Wedding 10.08.2025 39:48
Hi guys! We are back with a HUGE life update...Selitha is MARRIED!! In this episode, we’re spilling all the wedding details—from the proposal to the final countdown before the big day. Selitha shares everything: the dresses, florals, stunning designs, and all the behind-the-scenes moments. You don't want to miss this one, tune in!
The Journey of Becoming: Eps 1 20.05.2025 45:35
Hi guys! We are back and starting with the first episode of our brand-new series, The Journey of Becoming . We talk about who we were as kids, first impressions, share funny stories and more. Life is full of moments that mold us, but how did they ultimately shape our path to womanhood? Tune in, and maybe you'll find yourself relating to some of the experiences and stories we share!
Bachelorette in Thailand! 18.04.2025 34:26
It's never a dull moment when you gather up a group of girls and travel across the world to party. Tune in to hear all about Selitha's bach trip with her besties. Events include Bangkok city life, island hopping in Phi Phi, and monkey attacks.
The Girls are Traveling! 21.10.2024 31:02
Hi guys!! Brandi and Sel are back to talk about their most recent trips. Selitha gives more detail into her memorable Italian vacation and Brandi shares her time in the beautiful Belize. What was the best part? Tune in to find out!
An Engagement in Italy 04.10.2024 31:01
Hi guys! We are back again and with some BIG news! Our co-host Selitha is ENGAGED!! We are about to get into all the details, from how it was planned, the Lake Como proposal to the details of the ring. Tune in to hear it all and cheers to a new beginning for Selitha!
Friendship Test: Gets Deep 27.07.2024 28:46
Hey guys!! Sel and Brandi talk about recent life updates and take a friendship test. They've been friends for almost 5 years but feels much longer. Tune in as they get to the root of their friendship!
Moving is Expensive? pt. 1 | life in CA, girl chat 07.06.2024 19:08
Brandi and Sel are back with an update on moving! The two reflect on the pros and cons of moving to a higher cost living state like California. They breakdown the reality of how to live comfortably without compromising lifestyle. Insta @onelastthingpodcast
Solo Travel Adventures: Tips and Tricks 21.04.2024 28:34
Selitha and Brandi share their experience with solo traveling internationally and domestically. They discuss safety, tips on booking tours, and more. Tune in!!
Big Sis Advice: Relationships and Dating 17.02.2024 33:01
Brandi and Sel sit down and give their advice on some relationship questions. Change or compromise? Who pays for the first date? Age gap relationships? Find out their thoughts on this week’s episode!
Big Sis Advice: Finding your 3rd place, get out of your head, community 30.01.2024 18:22
Sel and Brandi reflect on their current season of life as women in their mid 20s. The co-hosts share what having a "3rd place" means to them and how they are making strides to fulfill that space. Tune in to One Last Thing for some catch up! IG: @OneLasthingPodcast
We're Having Quarter Life Crises! 06.12.2023 47:43
*Cue "Quarter Life Crisis" by Taylor Bickett* Sel and Brandi discuss the pressures of turning 25, what it means to them and how they cope. What's the cause of a quarter life crisis? Society, internal pressure or a bit of both? Tune in to hear their take!
Moving is Hard to Do: The Pros and Cons of Moving from your Hometown 12.10.2023 36:04
What’s it like moving over a 1,000 miles from home? Biggest regrets? On a lighter note, has Selitha found her favorite places to go in SoCal? The girls sit down and talk about their experiences moving and lessons learned.
Life Update: Moving to Cali, New Job, Same Time Zones!! 05.10.2023 29:05
Sel and Brandi are back, and they have some big news! Both of the hosts are officially in the same time zone. Tune in to hear about their new beginnings and what this next chapter of adulthood will look like. follow the insta @onelasthingpodcast
Deep Thoughts: TikTok Edition 13.08.2023 28:42
Brandi and Sel sit down and express their thoughts on some topics they found from TikTok. From friendships to life goals, would you rather allows us to dig deep and get to know us more!
Therapy Dupes 06.08.2023 27:37
Brandi and Selitha talk about the importance of mental health. They share their experiences with therapy and some self-care tips. Find time to take care of you 💕
First Impressions on Europe: Pt. 2 Travel Tips, VAT Refund & Stories 30.07.2023 28:40
Airbnb or hotel? Make dinner reservations or walk-in? Brandi and Selitha are back for part two of First Impressions, but this time with some tips on Europe travel. Selitha also has a story on things to look out for when making a large purchase abroad.
First Impressions on Europe: Ireland, London, Paris 23.07.2023 26:40
Selitha had a European summer and Brandi is here to ask all the right questions! The women discuss what Selitha did in Ireland, London, and Paris and what her thoughts were as a first timer visiting Europe. Brandi had her European moment in Italy just a few weeks before so definitely tune into last season's episode "European Summer 2023" to hear about it. Want to know the reality of...
Big sis energy: life in our mid 20s, dating, ex friendships, goals before 30 16.07.2023 53:51
Welcome to One Last Thing with Brandi and Selitha! They sit down with special guest Cristy during their girl's day outing. The women talk about how life has been post college (now in their mid 20s) and share their perspectives on: relationships, rekindling past friendships, and goals before 30. Tune in for some fun...this is a spicy episode. insta @onelasthingpodcast
One Last Thing: Rebranding 10.07.2023 27:12
Brandi and Selitha are back with a new season and new name! The co-hosts are all about big sister advice (literal big sisters) as they navigate through their mid 20s, elevated girl chats, and collaborating with professional guests. Tune in to catch up as they answer some thought provoking questions to give you a preview of their upcoming raw and unfiltered episodes. Follow them on insta @onelasthi...
European Summer 2023 02.06.2023 34:17
We're back!!! And we went to Europe? Brandi and Sel catch up on the past couple months and plans. Big changes are coming soon...Stay tuned!
Anniversaries, VDay, and Gen Z 22.02.2023 23:58
Hey guys! Brandi and Sel are back to catch you up on their lives, work anniversaries, and a future girls' trip? They get candid on work life balance and the recent topic from young professionals yearning to have purposeful work.
Rating the Past Year in Person | filmed for a movie, moved, Thailand 07.01.2023 28:14
Brandi and Sel are back together IN PERSON. The duo rate 2022 and share how they feel about the new year. Join them for a girl chat on moving, being in a movie, and their excitement for life's next turning point.
Who Should Pay for the Wedding? 28.11.2022 29:45
Brandi and Sel bring a recent family function topic to the pod: Weddings! The co-hosts discuss cultural traditions on who pays for the wedding. They share their opinions on who should take on the heavier weight. Tune in to hear what women want for their weddings and the modern approach to financing one.
EXPOSING OURSELVES 16.10.2022 48:53
Brandi and Sel have some things to say! In this episode we expose some funny stories and lessons learned. Tune in to our candid conversation of some of our experiences. Find the co-hosts on insta @themodernmodelpod for updates!
Making the First Move 07.09.2022 40:40
Sel and Brandi discuss making the first move on dates, friendships, and how they deal with strangers. Tune in for a funny conversation that encourages the audience to put themselves out there to achieve what they want. Life is too short to not say "Hi!"...life also is too short to not listen to this episode ;). Find the co-hosts on insta @themodernmodelpod for updates!
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