Brandi and Sel

balanced mess

Society EN ↓ 83 episodes

girlies, it's messy over here! in all seriousness, we're just living life. Brandi and Selitha started this podcast in college and have been friends and co-hosts since. Tune in for a new season of elevated girls chats and life updates in their mid 20s. Follow them on insta @balancedmesspod

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Brandi and Sel

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Society

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Latest episode

Aug 10, 2025

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Episodes

Starting a New Job and Getting Promoted 24.08.2022

Brandi and Sel are BACK! Things have been a bit busy for the both of them as they transition into their new roles. What has been the difference between Sel's previous role and promotion? How has the last couple weeks of Brandi's first full time job been?  Tune in tonight! Follow us: @themodernmodelpod

Brandi in the Bay: Arkansas to California 14.07.2022

This week's episode is about Brandi's big move to the Bay Area. From Arkansas to California, Brandi and Sel discuss pros and cons of being out West, living alone, and taking steps to achieving personal goals post college. Tune in to learn more about her experience and show some love on insta @themodernmodelpod to get another "life in Cali" update!

Being Authentically You with Keauno "Keke" from Twentysomethings! 31.03.2022

Brandi and Sel sit down and talk with fellow Arkansan/University of Arkansas Alum Keauno "Keke". He talks about his upbringing, moving to Arkansas and his time on Netflix's Twentysomethings: Austin. He also shares some life updates and how he remains true to himself.

Going from Homeschool → High School 24.02.2022

Brandi and Sel discuss what it's like to be homeschooled. Spoiler - it's not what people think it is. Have you ever thought about being homeschooled at the beach? The hosts also touch on life updates that will give you a laugh. Tune in to find out who was homeschooled and whether she would recommend it. 

Relationships! 03.02.2022

Sel and Brandi discuss relationships, dating apps and their thoughts on marriage. Tune in to this episode to hear their conversation!

Hello 2022! : reflections and new year plans 06.01.2022

Brandi and Sel reflect on 2021 and share their next moves for the new year. The co-hosts discuss topics from travel to jobs to friendships. Tune in to hear about how they are going into 2022 and let them know if you can relate! Contact them on insta @themodernmodelpod 

Meeting with an Author, A Discussion with Ayana Gray 09.12.2021

Brandi and Sel talk with Ayana Gray, a New York Times bestseller and Indie bestselling author in speculative fiction. She tells us about her journey with writing and the trip abroad that gave her the inspiration to write "Beasts of Prey", her book that is being adapted into a Netflix film.

Miss Arkansas Stephanie Barber 18.11.2021

Brandi and Sel speak with Miss Arkansas Stephanie Barber before she hits the stage for Miss USA! Tune in to hear how Stephanie started pageantry, the most important things she learned during her reign, and how she serves her community today. 

Red Flags 🚩🚩 28.10.2021

What are your red flags? Brandi and Sel talk about red flags in relationships and (maybe ) food choices? Learn a bit more about them and some personal red flags!

For Love of Juice ft. Swoon Juice Bar 14.10.2021

Brandi and Sel speak with Nicki, co-owner of Swoon Juice Bar, about starting a local business. Nicki and her husband, Roman, opened a new juice bar in Fayetteville, AR and it is popping off! The three touch on what is takes to turn dreams of being your own boss into reality... and doing what you love while creating an impact in the community. Tune in to hear the couple's story!

First Impressions are Always Right? *STORYTIME* 30.09.2021

Brandi and Sel talk about their own first impression stories with people in their life and if first impressions determine their views on people. 

Life Fresh Out of College ft. Jenny Wong and Jedd Ramos 16.09.2021

Brandi and Sel sit down with Jenny and Jedd to discuss post college life. They share their routines, thoughts on reality, and expectations for the future. 

Life of an Artist with Nae Danielle 07.09.2021

Brandi and Sel sit down with singer Nae Danielle and talk about her journey as an artist. She goes into some life lessons and her full circle moment. Tune in to this inspiring episode and to hear a snippet of her song "Nonsense," available on Apple Music and Spotify.

What Feeds Your Energy? 19.08.2021

Brandi and Sel talk about what feeds their energy. Are they introverted or extroverted? Does the enneagram or zodiac signs relate to how they naturally seek energy? Find this out and more in this episode!

Baggage Check 22.07.2021

Sel and Brandi sit down and talk about the experiences that have shaped them and what they think of the term “hurt people hurt people”.

How You Party Is Who You Are? 03.07.2021

Did Sel and Brandi have Sweet 16 parties? From college parties to wedding plans, does how you party define you?

Our 1st Big Girl Job: post grad, full-time, new place 17.06.2021

Brandi and Selitha talk about getting their first jobs out of college! Selitha also has an awesome life update. Tune in to hear all about it!

We went on Vacation! 10.06.2021

Welcome to season 4! Tune in to hear Brandi and Selitha discuss their recent trips to Hawaii, New York, and Boston. 

We're Graduating! : finals, personality test 06.05.2021

It's the start of a new chapter...Brandi and Sel are graduating! From taking the last finals of undergrad to 16 personalities test and workplace fit, see if they agree with the results.

Life Update 22.04.2021

Brandi and Selitha discuss their last few weeks of senior year, their next moves after college, and catch up on current events!

Sista's Keeper Mag, Teaching and all Elle Shanice Media with LaPorsha Lowry 08.04.2021

Selitha and Brandi sit down with entrepreneur LaPorsha Lowry. LaPorsha is the owner and publisher of "Sista's Keeper Magazine" and all Elle Shanice Media. Tune in to hear her story of building her brand, starting a business and future aspirations and goals!

Let's Talk: Rise in Violence Against Asian Americans 26.03.2021

Let's Talk is a series Brandi and Selitha created to bring awareness on issues in modern society. They discuss the rise of violence against Asian Americans since the pandemic started. Tune in to hear what they have to say on this problem. 

Alright, it’s time to Move On! 18.03.2021

Sometimes things just don’t work out, but it’s okay! Selitha and Brandi talk about relationships that weren’t the best in that time or with that particular person.

Entrepreneurship with The Cake Occasion owner Stephanie Long 11.03.2021

Brandi and Selitha sit down to talk about being a small business owner with Modern Model Stephanie Long! They dive into baking, entrepreneurial lessons, and advise for those interested in being a boss. 

Birth Order Personalities 04.03.2021

Brandi and Sel talk about birth order personalities and if they can relate to some of the traits with both of them being firstborns.

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