Attitudes!

Bryan is back in Texas for his dad's birthday and full of Oregonal and Erin pulls out some good ol' gym floor xanax for her flight anxiety. Bryan gives an unfortunate update on President Musk's attempts to erase LGBTQ+ informaiton from federal websites, including years of scientific research from the CDC website necessary for doctors practicing medicine with queer patients. Erin tells us about the...

Today we present Bryan Safi’s Series of Unfortunate Events as he attempts to fix his broken MacBook at the Apple Genius Bar, deals with a car breakdown, and realizes multiple financial mistakes from the last few years.  We also share some straight culture with a B-side Neil Young song that should never existed.  Erin tells us about a woman who took her divorce case to the European Court of Human R...

We spent Inauguration Day distracting ourselves learning about the history of Kohl’s and interspersing some Martin Luther King Jr. quotes for good measure. Bryan updates us on LGBTQ+ momentum around the world including Germany’s Self-Determination Act, Denmark and Czechia allowing gay and bisexual men to donate blood and conversion therapy being banned in Mexico. Erin calls out beauty influencers...

We left LA due to the fires, and our thoughts are with everyone affected. Erin's back in Santa Fe having home cooked meals with the ones she loves, Bryan is going crazy with his parents in Texas. Erin shares details of five South Carolina doctors challenging the state's 6 week abortion ban. Bryan praises Costco's unwavering support for their DEI programs when other companies are caving to threats...

Bryan is back with tales from his holiday trip to Italy involving Coke Zero and Christmas poems. Erin hiked, journaled, and ended up with stomach problems from grocery store sushi. Bryan gets heated about Democrat concessions in the National Defense Authorization Act which will block healthcare to trans children of military service members. Erin reads into an article from the Australian jounal Bod...

Happy New Year! We'll be back next week. In the meantime enjoy Bryan's recap of Dateline: Season 23, Episode 4. Carrollton, Texas - where there are more churches than Starbucks. The perfect "Leave It To Beaver" family, bags of Taco Bueno, crafting, scrapbooking and a murder for hire plot that breaks up a family in the strangest way. For more Dateline Recaps visit www.patreon.com/attitudes  See omn...

A post-Christmas miracle - the final Columbo from 2003! The boomer writers of the OG Columbo series asked themselves, "What's popular with the kids these days?" and the answer they came up with? RAVES. This episode has a young Matthew Rhys, murder by glass table, Columbo flirting with a girl at a warehouse party, racist maid tropes, and an excuse to say someone is sleeping with the fishes. For mor...

We're off for the Holidays, but we wanted to gift you something from behind the paywall! One of the most recommended stores in our DMs and emails. Named to Fortune's Best Companies to Work For, the 107 year old Rochester NY-based, family-owned Wegman's Food Market. For the rest of Season 4 of Groceries and the back catalog visit www.patreon.com/attitudes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy inf...

Bryan takes us on his 36 hour NYC Pig Bitch Tour which includes an apartment fire, "Birdboxing" himself, a coffee tour and Bergdorfs. At her convent, Sister Mary Gibson triggers some scent memory by using some Murphy Oil Soap to clean her hardwood floors. Bryan tells us about Michigan Democrats trying to gather support to end "zombie laws" which could lead to consenting adults being prosecuted for...

We're back from Thanksgiving and Erin is never cooking again, meanwhile Bryan had a celebrity encounter at one of New York's hottest restaurants. Erin tells us about Pastor Joel Webbon's riling up of his supporters against the 19th Amendment. Bryan is annoyed by former music video director Robby Starbuck's return - this time targeting Walmart and their DEI programs. For all of our bonus episodes v...

Happy Thanksgiving! The discussion about our 2025 queer white water rafting trip continues with worries about whether or not we can bring full mattresses to camp on. Bryan discusses the latest attempts by the Texas Legislature to decriminalize gay sex. Erin tells us about Georgia's Maternal Mortality Committee being disbanded after findings about preventable deaths were leaked to the press. For al...

We're back from the wayOUT Gala where we honored Harper Steele and Bryan spent a lot of money on a joke (for a good cause). Erin shares some disturbing gender disparity details regarding drug testing in this country and how changes could improve medicine and the economy. Bryan stumbles upon Stormy Daniels' OutTV show For The Love of DILFS, and shares some positivity from newly-elected Congresswoma...

After praising her performance in Sunset Blvd. Bryan is upset with the lead Pussycat Doll's recent Instagram likes and comments of conservative content, and Erin is introduced to the 1985 Alice in Wonderland with Carol Channing. Bryan teaches us how to disengage and set boundaries with our Trump-loving family members this holiday season. Erin tells us all about the Korean 4B movement (also known a...

Well, that happened. Erin and Bryan have a raw morning-after discussion about the Election Day results, what is going on in America, and the small victories that will help guide us into the hell that will be Trump's second term. For this week’s bonus This New Thing We're Doing! visit www.patreon.com/attitudes Join us on Discord for episode discussions and Watch Parties! https://discord.gg/gK2eZHCS...

Happy Halloqueen! This year Bryan dressed as the skeleton of Vincent Price and Erin is a woman who can never get warm. Erin describes her gym's trainer "bate board" of guilty pleasures, and Bryan recounts a neighbor's on-the-nose costume party. Erin tells us about Olivia Dreizen Howell's viral tweet answering the question "Can my husband find out who I am voting for in the Presidential Election?",...

Bryan's back from New York where he witnessed Nicole Scherzinger's star turn in Sunset Blvd. on Broadway. Erin is back in LA and describes the generational gap between herself and the others in her workout class. Erin covers the reproductive rights propositions and ballot measures up for a vote in Florida, Maryland, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New York and South Dakota. Bryan reminds us t...

We open this week with a discussion about the matchmaking service It's Just Lunch and, following the news of Elon's upcoming Optimus humanoid army, why we'd rather have a twinkish C3PO-style robot. Bryan tells us about Grindr's newest AI "wingman" development to help users improve interactions on the app, suggest conversation starters, and even make dinner reservations. Erin updates us on former U...

Bryan is starting his own private insurance company (with many prerequisites before joining), and Erin shares details about her recent pet psychic call, and a neighbor who brings horses over to eat grass and a dog food eating child. Erin discusses Judge Robert McBurney who struck down the Georgia's six week abortion ban under HB 481, and Bryan is confounded by MAGA men's obsession with JD Vance. I...

This week Erin is joined by star of stage and screen Drew Droege, who is currently starring in Dracula, A Comedy of Terrors at The Old Globe in San Diego! We discuss the differences in San Diego and LA culture, make modern movie references to Backdraft and Terminator, and figure out who the hell Hailey Bieber is. Plus, Erin discusses the $1.5 million dollar settlement Kansas City, Missouri made to...

Erin's doctor is having her take a 30 day Dutch Test, and Bryan's neck skin is turning red from an Instagram dermatologist's product recommendations. Erin takes us through the horrific events and GOP decisions in Georgia that led up to Amber Nicole Thurman's preventable death. Bryan shares details of the recent HRC poll which shows how many LGBTQ+ adults are registered to vote, who they're voting...

This week Bryan's fresh from visiting Texas and watching The Perfect Couple with his mom. We also discuss the Emmys and Jelly Roll's face tattoos. Bryan introduces us to Sarah McBride, the history-making legislator from Delaware who is on track to be the first openly trans person in Congress. Erin shares details about Missouri's Amendment 3 to enshrine abortion rights into the state constitution a...

We couldn't record a regular episode this week, but have put together another compilation of some of the best bits from the Vault for you to enjoy! In this ep you get the story of how Erin and Bryan met, Erin's German Date who made her eat charcuterie while watching Girls Gone Wild, plus interviews with Guy Branum and Jeffery Self! Check out Erin's new show Chicken Sisters now on Hallmark+, and Br...

Bryan is back from seeing the incredible Jellicle Ball revival of CATS in New York which somehow takes the original concept of wibble wormble and jingle jangle, but has it make sense. Erin buys a pencil case that is pig in the front and party in the back. Bryan discusses Ford Motor Company's abandoning of the HRC Corporate Equality Index essentially halting any initiatives promoting equity and inc...

This week's Columbo guest star Dabney Coleman spawns a discussion of fine dining and celebrity-inspired dishes at Dan Tana's in LA. Erin takes us through the lawsuit between Australia-based company Giggle (created by TERF Sall Grover) and trans woman Roxanne Tickle who was manually kicked off the app. Bryan tells us how Robby Starbucks now has his sights on Jack Daniel's DEI initiatives. For this...

This episode is the devil's number!!! This week Bryan and Erin share important life hacks (going to the grocery store, car rentals). Bryan gives us the rundown on DoxyPEP, which is one of the most significant medical advancements in STI prevention in decades. Erin rips into conservative podcaster Allie Beth Stuckey's "Relatable" Christian perspective. For this week's bonus Dateline Recap visit www...