Beatriz Lloret

Attachment Specialist

Health EN ↓ 3 episodes

Helping people with Anxious Attachment: I am Beatriz Lloret, an EFT couples therapist who transformed my own anxious attachment into a secure one and helped hundreds of people do the same. Doable, small steps, many reps. Calm ➡️ Clarity ➡️ Connection.

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Beatriz Lloret

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You Can't Think Your Way Out Of Anxious Attachment 17.12.2025 18:50

If you’ve ever said, “I know I’m overreacting… so why can’t I stop?” this episode is for you. Anxious attachment isn’t a thinking problem - it’s a nervous system pattern. I explain why insight and reassurance don’t stick when your body is in alarm, and how bottom-up regulation brings real relief. We explore the window of tolerance, the neurobiology of attachment panic, and the Wise Pause, a prac...

The First Step To Start Healing Anxious Attachment 21.10.2025 10:35

Anxious attachment fires fast. Your body senses threat, a protector part takes the wheel, and you reach for quick relief that repeats the negative cycle. The Wise Pause is the first step to rewiring. It interrupts impulsive moves, gives your nervous system time to settle, and brings your wise Self back online so you can choose connection that lasts. The simple roadmap is PAUSE → REGULATION → CLARI...

A Couples Therapist Overcomes Her Own Anxious Attachment 19.10.2025 11:11

The story I used to hide as a couples therapist: while I spent years helping couples repair - my own marriage ended. Anxious attachment does not change with just knowledge. I could not shift with insight alone - not even couples therapy did it for me. I knew something was missing because I saw the same wall in about 20% percent of my clients who pursued hard but stayed stuck. After my divorce I s...