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Anonymous says after his marriage ended he got involved with another lady but quickly realised after they went away together that she’s not the girl for him.  After breaking things off she told him that she was pregnant, they agreed to terminate the pregnancy and went their separate ways. He blocked her after this but unblocked her months later only to realise that she kept the pregnanc...

Anonymous says she got married very young, her husband is generally a good guy and her family & friends love him but she’s says something has always been missing in their relationship.  She feels as though her loved ones never really listened to her when she would try to express this. She has now moved out from their home as a result of how she feels in this marriage.

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Anonymous moved to a new province for work purposes, she met a guy at the office, they hit it off and started dating.  She soon realised that this guy has a partner and she is a side to him. She gave him an ultimatum to decide whether he moves forward with her or his partner.  She started engaging with another guy while he was still deciding on them. The guy found out that anonymous was...

Anonymous’ fiancé got arrested 8 years ago and has been in prison since then.  This situation put a strain on their finances and has affected their relationship. He also got into a seemingly transactional relationship with another woman that he met on social media. He said this is to help them financially but she feels like she’s not benefitting from this.  She feels d...

Anonymous has been with the father of her two children for about 17 years now.  He’s cheated on her multiple times over this period and she’s forgiven him each time. She found out about two years ago that he’s been married this whole time, and still struggles to let go of him.  Despite all of this, she says she loves him a lot and can’t imagine herself dating anyo...

Anonymous has been with her current partner for over a year now and says they had a child together after being together for about a month.  At the beginning of their relationship her partner told her that he had just broken up with the mother of his child. About a month ago she realised that he has actually continued his relationship with the mother of his other child despite being in a relat...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 9 years now and in the last two months she’s found herself in a relationship with a woman.  She says he’s been cheating on her but she let all of that go. She feels like she’s discovering herself and her sexuality right now. She’s cheated on him before with other women but this particular relationship is more intense &...

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about six years now and says their relationship has been going well and he’s the man she prayed for.  Her problem is that he never pays attention to his phone when he’s out with family and friends and doesn’t give her any attention when she tries to reach him.  They’ve recently had a fight about this and as usual, h...

Anonymous has been with his wife for about two years now and they are in a long-distance relationship. They recently had a fight because he found out, for the first time, that she’s in communication with the father of her child. While their chats were mostly about their child, there are also texts where he refers to anonymous’ wife as “my love”, however, she doesn’t r...

Anonymous and his partner have together for a while and they live together.  They often go out together and recently, while they were at a party, his girlfriend joined her friend, who was with some other guys.  He spotted her flirting with one of the other guys and at some point it looked as if she wanted to leave the party with the other guy. This angered anonymous, he confronted her, a...

Anonymous and her partner were together from the time they were in varsity and they have a child together.  She got a job first and made more strides in her career, while he struggled and was doing well financially which affected their relationship. She ended up breaking up with him because of his financial problems. She then met a woman, who she fell in love with, things were going well in t...

Anonymous has been dating a guy for about a year and a half now and he’s a great partner for the most part but the thing that annoys her about him is that he seems to be a bit of a pathological liar, especially when it comes to his finances….

Anonymous says there’s lots of drama in her mother-in-law’s life. Not only is she hiding her relationships with younger men, she’s also in fraudulent dealings that have affected her son, who’s anonymous’ partner…. Her mother-in-law seems to always go out of her way to derail her partner from getting work or making things work for himself.  She doesn’...

Anonymous has been married to her partner for four years now and says they resolved some of the issues they had before they got married but those seem to be coming back into their relationship.  She feels like her partner is too relaxed about how other women behave around him, he downplays it when they get touchy with him, with some of it happening in front of her.  There’s also me...

Anonymous rekindled things with her ex about a year ago. He broke up with her the first time they dated because he felt like he couldn’t provide for her “as a man” should. After getting back together they spoke about expectations they have of each other but she now feels like he’s expecting too much from her, especially in terms of house chores.  They don’t live...

Anonymous got back together with her ex recently after they broke up back in 2018 after he said to her that he didn’t feel like he was emotionally available.  Things initially went well after they rekindled their relationship but then he started pulling away from her. She thinks he’s feeling pressure and emasculated by her because she’s doing better than him financially and...

Anonymous feels like she’s not satisfying her partner sexually, and thinks the reason is because his previous partner had stretched her labia.  She’s now thinking of stretching hers as well so she can satisfy him, but she’s not sure.   She also thinks this is the reason why he’s cheating on her.

Anonymous has known his friend and colleague for about three years now and says when they initially met they were both in relationships.  Their friendship has grown a lot over the last couple of years and he has realised in recent months that he has romantic feelings for her.  They are now both single and he adds that she is struggling to let go of her abusive ex, and she’s also cu...