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As 2025 draws to a close, we’re catching up with some of the people we’ve had on ‘Ask a Man’ over the last year! If you have any Ask a Man anonymous you think we should definitely catch up with, WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303, letting us know which anonymous you’d like to hear from. 

As 2025 draws to a close, we’re catching up with some of the people we’ve had on ‘Ask a Man’ over the last year! If you have any Ask a Man anonymous you think we should definitely catch up with, WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303, letting us know which anonymous you’d like to hear from. 

Anonymous has a problem with how her wife treats him and deals with conflict.  He says she doesn’t listen to him and doesn’t admit when she’s wrong. He adds that she also confronts and shouts at him in public spaces, and he feels like she doesn’t treat him like an equal partner in the relationship.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 15 years now and they a child together.  He moved to another city this year because of a better job offer and says he took this job because finances were a problem in their relationship.  He started to notice that she became emotionally distant when he’d call her and wasn’t giving him much attention….

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 21 years now and they have three children together.  Their marriage has had its challenges over the years, especially the fact that he doesn’t get along with her family.  He’s now confessed to anonymous that he’s been in a relationship with a lady that works in their business for 14 years now and he has 4 children with her.&...

Anonymous met a man about 6 months ago and says when they started dated he told her that he was in a complicated relationship with the mother of his children.  She says communication was fine in the beginning but it hasn’t been so great in recent weeks. When she questioned him about his change of behaviour, he told her that the mother of his child is giving him a hard time and that&rsqu...

Anonymous has been married to his partner for 9 years now and things were fine in their relationship until she lost her job. He feels like she blames him for losing her job, he has now also lost his job and feels frustrated by her expectations of him. 

Anonymous has been married to his high school sweetheart for 5 years now and they’ve known each other for 12 years.  The problem he has is the frequency of sex in their relationship. He’d like to do it more, however, she’s not keen to do it as often.  He adds that they’ve also lost two pregnancies and that’s affected his wife to the point that she’s su...

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been married for three years now. Their relationship is generally fine but the issue is in the bedroom.  They met during the Covid-19 pandemic and spent a lot of time together. While they had a hot sex life in the beginning, things died down just before they got married and they haven’t been the same ever since.  She’s not sure where...

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 13 years now and says the problems in their started when she realised he was cheating back in 2021. She says it was hard for her to deal with this, and what made it worse was that his family knew and condoned it.  She has tried to move on from this but he doesn’t seem remorseful and she’s not happy with how his family handled the whole...

Anonymous was in an on-and-off relationship with his now ex-partner for the last 7 years.  He experienced a lot of betrayal and toxicity in that relationship and it’s left him in a position where he’s struggling to move forward and trust another woman. He’s asking us to help him to be able to open up to a new relationship.

Anonymous has two children and they have different fathers.  She was with the father of her second child for about 12 years and says it took her 6 years to heal from this relationship after things ended between them. She met another guy who was getting a divorce when they met. He cheated on her multiple times, and abused physically and emotionally.  She’s struggling get over the pa...

Anonymous called us back in February and ended up breaking up with guy no.1 because  of the things he was doing in their relationship. Now, months later, she started building something with a man she met six years ago and things are going well, however, guy no.1 is back in her life and wants to make things work, and the prophet at her church told her that guy no.1 is the one for her. She feel...

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 7 years now.  She didn’t work when they met, however, in recent years she found a job, and lives in another province because of this job.  The problem between them is finances, she is fairly accomplished now and has bought herself a car and a house. Despite this, she expects him to support her financially by helping her with her house,...

Anonymous was previously in a long-term relationship and has a child from that relationship.  She feels like she was never really happy in that relationship but stayed in the relationship because her partner was very financially helpful of her and her family, which led to her family pushing her to stay in the relationship even though she wasn’t happy.  She eventually chose herself...

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 6 years now.  When he entered this relationship, he already had 4 children from his previous relationships, they initially agreed that they didn’t want to have more kids but they now have two children together.  His issue is her style of dealing with conflict in their relationship as she gets physically and verbally violent.&nb...

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 6 years now, they live together and have a child together.  He says they both work, however, she earns more than he does. He adds that he’s very supportive of her and also helps with a lot of the duties in the house, however, she's not very supportive of him, especially when it comes to finances. 

Anonymous and his current partner have been together since 2010.  Early in their relationship there was an incident where his partner saw him hug his ex while they were at a party and that turned into a conflict between them, they moved on but she never really got over that.  Their relationship became long distance when he moved to another province for work and at some point when he went...

Anonymous met a guy back in 2021 when she was doing her final year in varsity, she quickly realised that he was in a relationship while they were in the talking stage and decided not to move forward with a relationship with him.  Years later she reconnected with him but once again they didn’t get into a relationship as she felt like he was still recovering from a recent break-up. ...

Anonymous recently started dating guy and says things between them have moved very fast but she’s starting to pick up that his financial problems are worse than what she thought they were. She’s already in love with him and wants to help but this is all a bit too much for her as his financial problems are draining her pocket.

Anonymous says she’s in her mid thirties and has two children. She met a man earlier this year, they have a twenty-year age gap and things were going well. She had her suspicions about the man being married so she asked him if he was and he admitted that he is married but his wife has cancer, they haven’t been intimate and he is looking for someone to be intimate with.  They conti...

Anonymous has been with his partner for two years now, they have a child together, and he says the relationship has been great for the most part.  His problem is that she’s always going out with her friends and he feels like she’s neglecting him & their relationship. He says she also gets very drunk and isn’t a considerate human being when she gets like that.