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Anonymous is a second time caller. She left her previous relationship and is now blessed with a man that wants to marry her after a month of dating. He also wants them to relocate to the US. That's right, no more load shedding.

Anonymous has dated a man for 20 years. This man has now made her his side chick. After their turbulent years together she's decided that she wants out but doesn't know how to tell him

Enough is enough, anonymous has chosen to keep her baby, she didn't terminate this one as she did with the previous one. Her ex now wants to be part of her son's life but on condition that they don't tell his family. He wants this child kept a secret.

After knowing his partner for over 15 years, married for 10 of them, anonymous's partner no longer engages with him intimately. She will sometimes touch herself in bed while he's sleeping right there next to her. What should he do?

Anonymous is dating a man that has decided to choose to "Pimp His Car" first before paying the remainder of her lobala as promised to her family. She thinks he might have cold feet or has found somebody else. If you feel a man no longer wants to make an honest woman of you should you force him into marriage?

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship. His girlfriend lives in a commune and is in a sexual situationship with a married man. He needs advice on how to handle the situation going forward.

Anonymous says he's polygamous the problem is that he only told his fiance a year and a half later when she fell pregnant with is child. He also has another girl on the side who he recently told that he's polygamous too. Can he make these relationships work or has he totally messed up?

Anonymous's family refuses to pay lobola for the woman that he loves, could the reason be that she was his side-chick while he was married?

There's a spiritual war in anonymous' household. Her husband could be conducting rituals on her without her permission. The final straw is when he brought a spiritual husband into the household. She wants to leave but doesn't have the financial backing

Anonymous hacked his woman's phone and found out that she's dating two other men. He still loves her because she completes him

Anonymous has been dating her man for 4 years. All was well until he started abusing drugs, is she able to assist him overcome his addicting?

Anonymous was planning on relocating with his wife overseas. The wife left first and once she settled she told him that it was over because she knew that he was cheating on hi, He's broken and wants his wife back

Anonymous is faced with a huge dilema on today's #AskAMan. She needs to choose between a man she's dating and a relationship with the father of her child.

Anonymous has been dating a married woman and he just can't let go. 

Anonymous claims to be in love with his pregnant fiance but he seems doubtful ever since finding chats on her phone where she communicates with her ex's and other men

Anonymous met his wife in the 90's, she recently filed for divorce because of his financial situation. Anonymous does miss his wife and wants her back

Another man down. Anonymous feels belittled by his wife, she occasionally tells him that he's not man enough

Anonymous is dating a serial cheater. She has seen things that a partner shouldn't see on his phone while he was sleeping. He's now back with the first woman she caught him cheating with. She says she still love him despite all his shenanigans. 

Anonymous has a 3 month old baby with a man she met on social media. They engaged in unprotected coitus the moment they met in person and conceived. the guy seems to be in and out of their relationship, he has paid damages to her family but that's it.

Anonymous knows that her man is seeing his ex behind her back but she simply can't let go because she's still in love with him

Today we deal with the World Cup of all relationships. Anonymous is a foreign national living in South Africa dating a man from Scotland and has a situationship with a man from Germany. She recently signed a contract to go work in the UK now she's confused on what to do going forward. Which man must she choose or should she just choose her career?

Anonymous has been dating her man for 8 months but hasn't ever been to his place. What could he possibly be hiding?

Anonymous is in a tricky situation, his woman of 3 months dumped him last night because she suspects that he's stalking her. Hear how it all went down

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 8 years. They have 2 beautiful children. The issues started recently when he impregnated another woman and wants to pay damages for that child when he hasn't paid lobola or damages for their 2 children

Anonymous has been a shoulder to cry on for her male friend for over 4 years. They tried to make it work as a relationship for the last 4 months but now he's ghosting her. He keeps blue ticking her messages and doesn't return her calls. What could this possibly mean