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Anonymous set deal-breakers for her man when they met. The biggest was infidelity, she told him that if he cheats she's going to leave. Anonymous' man is cheating with 3 other women but she's still there, she says she's confused. Their relationship isn't the best, their sex life sucks, their love life sucks

Everytime anonymous has an argument with his woman her ex texts him that he's going to win her back. He feels that he doesn't want to compete with her ex because he has more money than him. What must he do now because he loves her?

Anonymous feels disrespected by her husband's side chick calling her to demand money. Anonymous has also intercepted messages from her hubby to his mistress promising her money and lying to her about a joint account which they do not have. is this how marriage is meant to be?

Anonymous has been chatting to a potential man for 6 months, They has agreed to meet in Jan but there has been no effort from his side. Why is he too busy for her? Could he be married? Is he just a scammer? He told her that she needs to be patient, the meeting will eventually happen. What are your thoughts?

Anonymous has issues in his long distance marriage, his wife is all about the good life and she can't lower her standards now that anonymous is experiencing financial difficulties after covid. She wants a break from the marriage but he's still in love with her

Anonymous has been single for two years. He can't get over the woman he used to date for four years before that. He took care of all her and her child's financial needs. She cut ties with him completely but will pop-up like a "Jack In The Box" once in a while when she needs to finesse him for more money. 

Anonymous thinks his fiance' is cheating on him since he lost his job. She has a strange new male bestie that just popped up. They met at a pub and have been meeting up in secret ever since

Anonymous is in a financially abusive relationship. When he was a stay at home partner cooking,cleaning, ironing etc there was never any boyfriend allowance. Anonymous has now been driving an e-hailing taxi for his partner and he hasn't seen a cent since. 

Anonymous is in a situationship. Her man recently got married and it's left her in a state of confusion. She wasn't even aware that he was in another relationship. She's still in-love with him and she says if he wanted a second wife she's putting her hands up for the position

Anonymous feels neglected by her man who just received custody of his child. He has just asked her to cancel birthday plans she made for him because he has full custody of his child and that's where his time will be spent. Does she fully understand the emotional rollercoaster that her man is on at the moment?

Anonymous has accepted that her man is a babymaking machine, not only in their marriage but outside as well. Her issue is that her husband keeps her in the dark when he builds these relationships with his other kids. She feels disrespected and isolated by this, could he be hiding other children?

Anonymous has been with her man for over 13 years. His addiction to drugs let to their separation. Their time apart let to anonymous ending up as a side chick to a high profile man. She hasn't broken it off with the high profile guy but feels her ex is getting better so she's considering on going back

Anonymous has been in a relationship for over a year. The first 6 months were beautiful, since then it's been downhill. She's been chasing him for attention,love, affection etc

This is an Ask A Man first. Anonymous says his wife is filthy and it's starting to frustrate him. The house stays messy, her hygiene also leaves much to be desired. He is scared to bring visitors home because he knows it's always in a horrendous state. How much longer will he stay in this relationship?

Anonymous feels that he's losing his woman because he's not romantic enough. He doesn't make effort as much she would love him to. They don't go out often, he doesn't pay her compliments often. Does he deserve to be alone?

Anonymous is worried that her sexually charged man is going to cheat on her once he moves to the USA in May.

Anonymous still wants to pay lobola for his girlfriend even though things aren't as rosey as he'd like them to be. She moved into his house uninvited, she's abusive and controlling. Find out why anonymous called into ASK A Man today. Listen here

Anonymous is in the pits. Her marriage certificate should be torn into a thousand pieces because her husband unrepentantly cheats. Imagine your partner coming home with a "hicky" week in week out. She has also slept with a minimum of 3 men just so that she can forget about her painful marriage. She still loves him but can this marriage be saved?

Anonymous is going through the most. She married a man and then later on found out that he not only has one child that she knew about there are four more from four different women. They were married in community of property so she became liable to pay child maintenance for all these children. 

Anonymous is in a relationship but he missed his ex. The ex is also in a relationship and she just gave birth to her new man's child. Anonymous is still positive that she is the one for him, she's the one that got away and he wants her back.

Anonymous moved in with his girl and her child after two months of dating. He made it a norm to give the girlfriend's mother money too. Now that he's unemployed things have changed. 

Anonymous broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years 6 months ago, he can't let go. He visited a prophet and was told that the girl is into dark magic. This news hasn't convinced him to let go. He still wants her back

Anonymous has been married for 17 years. She's tired of going through her husband's phone only to find videos and nudes from sex workers.  The neglect is killing her self esteem because they are no longer as intimate as she would like.