#AskAMan

Anonymous says he’s back on the market after 12 years in a relationship and says he’s just made his return into the dating game and he says he’s not understanding dating these days, he feels like the game has changed.  Anonymous says he’s an indoors kind of person but feels like the people he keeps meeting are just all over the place, always going out, something he doesn’t get. Anonymous needs hel...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner since high school, however, in their matric year he impregnated another girl, she also fell pregnant around the same time and they continued with their relationship.  Anonymous says they’ve been together for 24 years now but he did have an affair with another woman for about 2 years 10 years ago, but they’ve since moved on from that. Anonymous says they h...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner since November last year and says the relationship was fine until her partner introduced her to his family.  Anonymous says her partner lives with his family and says the mother of his child is always there with his family. Anonymous says she brought up that she’s not comfortable with how often his ex visits but that only ended up causing a rift between h...

Anonymous says she’s been dating her partner for 10 months and he is a radio presenter. Anonymous says she’s noticed a pattern in their relationship, she says overtime they have a relationship quarrel he takes it to air on his show, even tough he refuses to discuss those things with her when she brings them up.  Anonymous says another issue is that he is not earning much and says she’s tried to mo...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 12 years and says she was a side chick for the first two years of their relationship. Anonymous says while in the relationship she had a one night stand and fell pregnant.  Anonymous says her partner found out that the child wasn’t his, something he wasn’t happy about but decided to remain in a relationship with anonymous because he loved her. Anonymo...

Anonymous says she dated her ex for 5 years and he cheated on her multiple times. Anonymous says she eventually broke up with him because of his cheating ways. Anonymous says before she broke things off with him, he revealed that he was HIV positive.  Anonymous says she moved on and dated someone else but ended that relationship because the guy was a bit dodgy. Anonymous says her ex now wants her...

Anonymous says she met a guy last year while she was in a relationship and that guy was also in a relationship. Anonymous says they wanted to break up with their partners but she made him delay his break as his partner at the time was pregnant and she advised that he wait until she gives birth.  Anonymous says they kept their relationship a secret until his parents caught her with him. Anonymous s...

Anonymous says she met guy on a dating app three years ago and they ended up meeting up. Anonymous says she wasn’t attracted to some of his physical attributes when they first met and therefore didn’t continue anything with him.  Anonymous says now, 3 years later, he reached out to her asking her to assist him in planning his mother’s birthday party, anonymous says they met up and even ended up ha...

Anonymous says her and her partner have been together for the last few years but she says last year he started changing his behaviour towards her and anonymous says he eventually told her that he was uncomfortable living with her as his family were not happy with that and they were scared he might impregnate her which would mean he would have 4 children with 4 different women out of wedlock.    An...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for about a year and a half now and things have been good, however they got into a serious fight in the last few months and things became really sour but they resolved the issue.  Anonymous says since then she’s noticed that his behaviour is on and off and she never knows which version of him she’s going to get.  Anonymous says she wonders if she can carr...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for about 8 years now and they moved in together a year into their relationship. Anonymous says they couldn’t agree on buying property but she eventually bought a place in 2021 and they live together there.  Anonymous says she gave birth to their child this year and they are now married but she feels like she’s carrying all the weight in the relationship...

Anonymous  has a child and has been with her partner for about 3 years now and things have been good. The problem is that the guy wants to have a child with anonymous but anonymous says she’s not ready to have another child, especially out of wedlock.  Anonymous says he then tried to hire a surrogate for them but which persuaded her to try and have a baby with him, however they were not able to co...

Anonymous says she broke with her ex after finding out that he had been cheating on her with multiple women. Anonymous says she realised months after they broke up that she was pregnant, however she miscarried but never told him about this. Anonymous is wondering if she should tell him about this.  Anonymous says another situation is that she’s in a relationship with a married man. Anonymous says...

Anonymous says he’s been dating his partner since the beginning of this year and things have become weird since her birthday.  Anonymous says when it was his birthday she didn’t do much for him but on her birthday she expected him to take her out but he couldn’t because of his finances, which led to her going out with friends and not communicating with him while she’s out and about.  Anonymous say...

Anonymous says he met his current partner, lady no.2, in 2021 while he was dating lady no.1 whom he had impregnated but their relationship was tanking because he felt disrespected by lady no.1 who eventually started dating someone else.  Anonymous says problems started happening in his relationship with lady no.2 because she had STIs and it was left unexplained where they were coming from. Anonymo...

Anonymous says she met an older guy a while back and she fell deep in love with him. Anonymous says last year she found him with another lady at his place, however she forgave him for this and they continued dating.  Anonymous says she moved closer to him to be with him and he even got her a job, however, Anonymous says things have faded between them and he doesn’t really talk to her anymore.  Ano...

Anonymous says she met her current partner last October and they have a 9 year age gap. Anonymous says he now wants to marry her and she’s keen but her partner’s mother is not giving them her blessing.  Anonymous says her partner’s mom thinks her son still needs to grow and have fun with his age mates, however, anonymous says her partner’s father approves.  Anonymous says she did find things from...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 12 years and says their relationship has been good. Anonymous says they had to move to separate provinces because of their jobs and says things have now gone pear-shaped. Anonymous says the guy started ghosting her earlier this year and just ignored her out of nowhere.  Anonymous says he reached out to her only her birthday just over month ago, and wh...

Anonymous says she’s been dating her current partner for just under two years now. She says everything was cool in the beginning of the relationship however as things went by he became verbally abusive and they would get into a lot of fights. Anonymous says after a recent fight she confronted him about his behaviour he defended his behaviour and said that anonymous is over sensitive and if she can...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner since the second half of last year and says while they were on vacation last year with a group of friends she accidentally found saw a message from a girl who had sent anonymous’ partner images of herself in a bikini.  Anonymous says she eventually told him about the picture messages she saw and he explained to her that he wasn’t interested in that other...

Anonymous says he’s in his mid-twenties and he is currently a student. Anonymous says they’ve been together for four years with his partner and finances have become an issue in their relationship. Anonymous says after he didn’t buy her anything for her birthday, she complained and said anonymous doesn’t do anything for her and doesn’t buy her things, something anonymous disputes. Anonymous says he...

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 7 years and they have two children together.  Anonymous says they took their kids to the clinic this morning and while there she asked her partner to fix their child’s pants and he didn’t like this  saying that he didn’t like that she asked him in front of another man as this made him feel small.  Anonymous says he added that she’s always making him f...

Anonymous says she’s been dating her partner for the last 6 years and says she came into the relationship with one child and they have one child together.  Anonymous says finances are an issue in their relationship as she does everything in the house despite him earning much more than her.   Anonymous says she also feels lonely in her relationship because he’s distant and sometimes doesn’t even sl...

Anonymous says he met a lady in April 2021 and they started dating even though she already had a boyfriend. Anonymous says a month after their relationship started, the lady requested that anonymous impregnate her. Anonymous says two months after the request was made she fell pregnant, but anonymous says he didn’t take this seriously.  Anonymous says they then started fighting a lot and he asked h...

Anonymous says after 3 years of being with her partner she ended up cheating on him because of his lack of communication, he even disappeared for about 3 months. Anonymous says they ended up breaking up because she cheated on him, however, they’ve now gotten back together years later but anonymous says they seem to be struggling to build their new relationship because he’s struggling to trust her...