#AskAMan

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall.  She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner.  Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve t...

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall.  She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner.  Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve t...

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now after knowing each other at work for about 3 years as friends, as she was in a relationship at the time. They started dating well after she broke up with the father of her child. They agreed to have a child together from the beginning of their relationship, but they’ve struggled to conceive.  He cheated on her with another lady s...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now, after coming out of a 13-year relationship that produced two children.  This weekend, when she happened to be using his phone, she found voice notes from some other lady that were suspicious, she got angry and hit her partner.  She comes from a toxic and violent background which she thinks has led to her aggressive behaviour to...

Anonymous has been with her husband for 6 years now and they have two children together.  Her partner started acting off towards her about 3 years ago and then at some point he even stopped sleeping in their room without much of an explanation.  He eventually opened up to anonymous and revealed that he wasn’t comfortable around her as he felt like she has bad energies and those ene...

Anonymous and her partner have been together for seven years now and they have two children together.  She found out that he was cheating on her last year but she forgave him after he made an effort to win her back, and they are now engaged.  Things have now gotten weird in their relationship and he has become sexually avoidant. She’s not sure what to read into this.

Anonymous has been with her partner since the beginning of last year and they have one child together.  They moved in together, six months into their relationship, and her partner’s brother also moved in with them.  Her partner has other two other children that live else where, however, her partner has now suggested that one of his children move in with them but she’s worried...

Anonymous has a large package and it’s causing trouble in his love life.  The women he likes never want to continue being in a relationship with him because of their sexual experience with him. However, the women he meets at bars for fun enjoy his larger size but he’s not interested in a lot of them.  Anonymous wants to know how to deal with this. 

Anonymous met a guy back in 2016 and after two years of dating they decided to have a baby, and they ended up having twins.  Her partner questioned the paternity of the twins, they got a paternity test done and it was confirmed that they are his children. Anonymous felt disrespected by him and ended their relationship, after months of tension in their relationship as a result of the questions...

Anonymous is ten years younger than his partner, she has three children and he has one daughter.  He would like to have more children of his own, however, she can’t physically bare more children and he would like to have a male child of his own who will carry his legacy.  He loves his partner and appreciates her contribution to his personal & professional development, however,...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 3 years now and they moved in together about a year ago.  Her partner has been struggling financially for a while now and has accused anonymous of not supporting him financially and not spending on their household.  She has now found out that he’s been cheating on her with another lady who he says supports him financially. Anonymous won...