Andy Wells

Final round of questions to ask yourself if you want to lead an epic, amazing life. Full article with all the questions written out: https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/ Do I deserve happiness? What does happiness mean to me? What do I want? What do I value? Do I deserve? Am I important? Are my needs more important than other people? Do I have the right to ask for what I want?...

Full article with all the questions written out: https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/ Even more questions to ask yourself: What are your goals ? Not what do you deserve, but what do you want? Dream big, even if you think it's stuff you'll never actually have. What are your main blockages ? What's holding you back?  Are you just asking me for permission to go all...

Full article with all the questions written out: https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself/ Questions to ask yourself: Why does Andy (and other successful players) deserve to get laid a lot, but not me ? Why am I special? Andy was a total loser at the start , so if he can get laid a lot, why can’t I? Am I just putting up bullshit excuses like these ones ? Why does Andy deserve to ov...

Hint: If you're getting shit-tested a tonne, it's because you look like absolute trash. No stress; just improve your appearance and keep working on your own self-improvement. SHOWNOTES: Shit Tests Article:  https://killyourinnerloser.com/shit-tests/ How to Improve Your Appearance: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/#chapter-2-improving-your-looks My Forums: https://killyourinner...

Why you should stop saying should. Or not. Do whatever you WANT, not what you think you "should" do. SHOWNOTES: Bathmate pump: https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM: Come be part of my life-changing coaching pro...

YOU are most likely the only thing standing in the way of your own success. So stop fucking it up. SHOWNOTES: You Get What You Subconsciously Believe: https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-get-what-you-subconsciously-believe/ If You Feel Hopeless and Helpless: https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/ Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching 🤝 The Abundance Collective (O...

Some easy ways to make approaching/daygame a little more fun, and a little less of a chore. SHOWNOTES: Bathmate: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate/ How to Develop a Sense of Humour: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/72/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:...

A retrospective look back at 2020, as well as my plans for my site and podcast going forward. Exciting things to come! SHOWNOTES: Work/Life Balance is Bullshit: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/6906074 Patreon (early access to all the episodes I record, usually weeks before everyone else gets them): https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloser Weekly Accountability Checkins: https://theinnerwinner...

Why it's imperative you take a little extra time before getting into a 3some, if you're in a longterm relationship with a committed partner. SHOWNOTES: Bathmate pump: http://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching How to Beat Performance Anxiety: https://killyourinnerloser.com/performance-anxiety/ Why newbies should NOT get into open rela...

Why sticking at a job you hate makes you a total piece of shit. SHOWNOTES: If you want coaching from me, I'll kick your ass into gear and force you to be successful. Coaching: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching Society is Lying to You About Everything: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/51/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/ab...

Andy answers one of his Patreon's questions about how to have a date while on a diet (no alcohol, caffeine or food). SHOWNOTES: Join my Patreon to ask me questions I'll answer for you on podcast episodes: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser Virgin Girl who didn't drink: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/122 What is Geocaching? https://www.geocaching.com/guide 🤝 The Abundance Collec...

Should you be really upfront and show girls you want something sexual, or hold back a bit? Want help with screening earlier, or anything else you're struggling with? If you're serious about improving your life, hit me up for one of my coaching packages and I'll kick your ass into gear: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching SHOWNOTES: Read the full article (including pictures) here...

One of the biggest predictors of success is whether or not you take yourself - and your self-improvement - seriously. And if you're ready to take yourself seriously and want a plan of action to actually get it done, advice on overcoming your mental hurdles and homework tasks and follow-up calls to keep you accountable, hit me up for coaching so I can fast-track your success and save you month...

Don't get too hung up on flaking - it's a normal part of the dating game. SHOWNOTES: Bathmate pump: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate The Solution to All Your Problems: Go Talk to More Girls: https://killyourinnerloser.com/go-talk-to-more-girls Hit me up for coaching and I'll kick your ass into gear and MAKE you achieve your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching 🤝 Th...

Why you don't have to be "Mr Social Butterfly" before you can go on dates and get laid. SHOWNOTES: Want coaching and for me to kick your ass into turbo gear? Here's the coaching packages I currently offer: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching Give Yourself Permission to Suck: https://killyourinnerloser.com/give-yourself-permission-to-suck/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our af...

Following on from yesterday's episode, Andy and Imogen see the virgin girl a second time for more shenanigans. SHOWNOTES: Magic Wand Vibrator: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand Want coaching and for me to kick your ass into turbo gear? Here's the coaching packages I currently offer: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching commu...

Andy and Immy meet a very hot, but very shy virgin girl - and wax lyrical about why "pushing through LMR" is a shitty idea. SHOWNOTES: Magic Wand Vibrator I recommend: https://killyourinnerloser.com/magic-wand 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM: Co...

Andy shares how completely un-selfaware and emotional he was before his self-improvement journey. SHOWNOTES: Radical's fashion/self-improvement blog: http://thehatfish.com Radical's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCASD1CjHj6-o_3uuOv9K5Ig Previous podcast with Radical: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/6810274 My Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums Coaching with me: h...

Is "simping" an effective strategy? Is there a better way? Radical joins Andy to shoot the shit once again. You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching SHOWNOTES: Radical's fashion/self-improvement blog: http://thehatfish.com/   Radical's YouTube: https://w...

Why you should be sceptical of pretty much everything you see online. You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching SHOWNOTES:  Proof article mentioned: https://killyourinnerloser.com/proof I am Always Full of Doubt: https://killyourinnerloser.com/doubt/ How to Have a 3some: htt...

Why counting you "lay ratios" or "date ratios" is doing more harm than good. You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP AC...

Been making these mistakes yourself? Don't worry, Andy offers a cure too. You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching SHOWNOTES: Podcast on why losing fat matters: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/108/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/mont...

Why some of you need to man the fuck up. You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM: Come be part o...

Andy gives his thoughts on why open serious relationships aren't recommended if you're not already VERY experienced - and why open CASUAL relationships are much better. You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching c...

Andy covers some of the purchases that have helped his readers/listeners. You need to get your life in order and stop fucking about. Hit me up for coaching and I'll FORCE you to crush your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching SHOWNOTES: Bathmate: https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate/ Slight Edge: https://kyil-extra.com/slight-edge/ You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative T...