Andy Wells

Having goals you're working towards is the antidote to depression and misery. SHOWNOTES: The Meaning Of Life & How to Be Happy: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/38/ Sick of feeling like a loser? I'll kick your ass into gear: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆...

Andy and Imogen have a deep and meaningful about life, religion, men and women, and how to get over your anger phase towards girls. Check out my Patreon for early access to all episodes, ask me questions I'll answer on podcasts for you, and even a free monthly coaching call at the higher tiers! https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser   🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching commu...

Why it's important you do what you said you were going to do, even when you really don't feel like it. SHOWNOTES: Support me on Patreon + get a tonne of bonus goodies: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM: Come...

Why you shouldn't bottle up resentment or other negative feelings - and how to express them in a healthy, helpful manner. SHOWNOTES: Coaching with me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching You and Me: https://killyourinnerloser.com/you-and-me/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY...

Carrying on from yesterday's exercise , we're going to list our top 5 strengths. SHOWNOTES: Previous podcast (My Top 5 Flaws): https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/7044313 My patreon (early access to episodes, ask me questions I'll answer on podcasts, even a monthly coaching call!): https://www.patreon.com/killyourinnerloser 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching communi...

Do you need to "build comfort" with girls before having sex with them? (Hint: no, but not for the reason you think). Ed's question was: Why is “building comfort” considered such an important part of mainstream PUA philosophy, but it’s hardly discussed at all within KYILor GLL According to mainstream advice, women need to have spent time and connect emotionally with a man before they...

I'm a bit of a fuckup, like we all are. Here's my top 5 flaws. SHOWNOTES: Radical's Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3iQ8nhCBh8 Bathmate: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate Discipline and Willpower Don't Fucking Matter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/discipline-willpower-dont-matter Weekly Accountability Check-ins: http://theinnerwinnershow.com/40 My Forums: https:/...

My top 3 techniques for making sure you - and she - absolutely crush your goals without distracting each other when you live together. SHOWNOTES: Bathmate (free shipping with my link, plus you directly support me - cheers): https://killyourinnerloser.com/bathmate Sleep is Paramount: https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/ Blue-light-blocking Glasses: https://kyil-extra.com/sleep-is-paramount/#b...

Do you have to be perfect in order to have True Love™ ? Is The Red Pill correct that every woman will eventually leave you? Can women find happy monogamy in an age of casual sex? SHOWNOTES: Previous podcast answering a woman's questions: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/100 Why You are NOT Meant to Live My Lifestyle Forever: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/11 Eventually You'll End Up Settli...

Turn off my podcast, get off my website, turn off your computer and go outside. SHOWNOTES: Radical's YouTube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7gTjIJ7V7kQ Bathmate (use my link for free shipping + you're supporting my work): https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate My Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums Talk about what you HAVE done, not what you WILL do: https://theinnerwi...

Andy answers the age-old question, as to when you should raise or lower your standards when it comes to girls. SHOWNOTES: Bathmate: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate You're Not Obligated to Have Sex with Someone: https://killyourinnerloser.com/not-obligated Always Keep an Open Mind: https://killyourinnerloser.com/always-keep-an-open-mind 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coach...

How sharing a little bit of encouragement helps you retain girls, build an awesome life for yourself and make the world a better place. SHOWNOTES: Coaching I Offer (I guarantee I'll absolutely change your damn life): https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching Why I Write for This Site: https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-i-write-for-this-site My Forums: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums 🤝 Th...

How do you differentiate between taking the lead/being masculine... vs being too controlling? SHOWNOTES: Bathmate: How I Use the Bathmate (Guide) No More Mr Nice Guy: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#no-more-mr-nice-guy When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: https://kyil-extra.com/recommendations/#when-i-say-no-i-feel-guilty 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month)...

Are STDs something to freak out over - or are the risks overblown? SHOWNOTES: Bathmate: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate Honest Guide to STDs (by Mark Manson): https://markmanson.net/std-guide Everybody is Lying to You, All The Time: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/51/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 D...

Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 3] Want to check out Counter Strike but have no idea where to start? These two are a good starting place: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLecFQCsHi8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e46rLEW5KUI SHOWNOTES: My Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser Thorin's Thoughts - s1m...

Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 2] Want to check out Counter Strike but have no idea where to start? These two are a good starting place: https://youtu.be/fNqY5KGAcU4?t=497 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e46rLEW5KUI SHOWNOTES: My Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser Demystifying Your Successes: https://...

Why I love the video game Counter Strike, and the life lessons I've learned from the people who play it. [Part 1] Want to check out Counter Strike but have no idea where to start? These two are a good starting place: https://youtu.be/fNqY5KGAcU4?t=497 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e46rLEW5KUI SHOWNOTES: My Patreon: https://patreon.com/killyourinnerloser 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affo...

My final summary on how to have fun with your approaches. SHOWNOTES: Ask for a number when you run out of things to say: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/6980455 Smile During Approaches: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/6908693 Cold Approach/Daygame Should be FUN: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1279346/5446105 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyi...

Write ideas down so you can let them go and remain focused on your main mission. SHOWNOTES: Bathmate pump (use my link to support the show): https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate/ Online Notebook I use (Evernote): https://evernote.com/ 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective 🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE CO...

Don't fall into the trap of mindlessly doing what everybody else is doing - go your own way. SHOWNOTES: Article version of this podcast (includes pictures + more): https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-be-average/ Questions to Ask Yourself: https://killyourinnerloser.com/questions-to-ask-yourself Bathmate pump: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate Society is Lying to You About Everything: ht...

When you hate where you are or the people around you, do something to fix it. SHOWNOTES: Radical's Original Video/YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USNQAh6mhok Bathmate Pump (you'll also be supporting the show - thanks!) https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate My story of my depression and abusive relationships: https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-transformation/ Work/Life B...

Want ongoing weekly accountability, direct access to me for advice/motivation/questions, and a community of like-minded guys on the path to kicking ass? Let's fucking go. Entry requirements: Contact me here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/contact and put "I want to be in The Winner's Club!" as the subject line. Reply with how long you can commit to the group (eg how many months...

Should you focus on getting laid in person, or via online dating? SHOWNOTES: Bathmate Pump: https://theinnerwinnershow.com/bathmate/ How to Get Laid on Tinder (My Guide): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide/ How I Beat My Approach Anxiety (Fear of Hitting on Girls): https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/ There is No Such Thing as "Alpha": https://killyouri...

If you find yourself starting to hate a lot of the conversations you're having during your cold approaches, I have the antidote. Want coaching with me? I'll absolutely kick your ass into gear and FORCE you to build a successful like like I have: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching 🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abun...

Yep, you should be asking 100% of the girls you hit on for their phone number; even if the conversation goes horribly. SHOWNOTES: How I Beat My Approach Anxiety: https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/ Good Looking Loser Approach Anxiety Program: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/anxiety/program-index/approach-anxiety-program-week-1-1 1 Approach a Day: https://killyourinnerlo...