American Sex

Asa Akira is one of the world's most popular porn stars. She tells us about her new book Asarotica, her award-winning butthole, the prospect of parenthood, the realities of reality TV, being a woman of color in porn, & how accidental double penetration changed her life. Sunny & Ken share their new year's resolutions, kick off the Crave Vesper 24k vibrating necklace giveaway & become the Kevin Baco...

Dominatrix Snow Mercy gives us treats for Christmas! She tells us how a PhD in Biochemistry lead her to the dungeon, the joys of clown play, why being dominant helped her combat sexism in the science world, how to use BDSM to as a motivator for adulting, plus we get a spanking mini-lesson. Snow also shares a hilarious story about a very dirty banana! Ken is Ebeneezer Scrooge & Sunny & Ken get disa...

Transgender porn sensation, Wendy Williams, opens up about past & present depression, challenges of aging in the porn industry, how her transition came as a surprise, breaking the mold at every step of her career, and cyberbullying in porn. She also discusses the pros & cons of transitioning at a young age and expresses strong opinions about infighting in the trans performer community. Sunny & Ken...

This week Ken & Sunny get cozy with Glamazon Tyomi Morgan. In just a few short years she's taken the world by storm. Her following is massive and with good reason. We talk about how Titty Tuesday is changing the world, how Tyomi's year of celibacy + exploring kink completely altered her life, how the glamazon discovered she was a little, accidentally shooting an award-winning film & more. Ken also...

CannaSexual, Ashley Manta, tells us everything we need to know to enhance our sex lives with cannabis: the best strains & dosages for sex, topicals like Foria & other weed lubes, making DIY products at home, how weed affects sexual consent, combining BDSM & pot, the time Sunny ate too many edibles,  & more.  We also talk about living with herpes: myth vs. fact, how it's transmitted, how to disclos...

Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101, Bad Dyke, & the Tales of the Pack series teaches us: how to fist, satisfying cunnilingus tips, mindblowing and useful info about the clitoris & other pussy pleasing techniques. This is the sex ed you WISH you had in school! We also talk about queer identity, "dyke drama", how to flirt, navigating relationships, emotional intelligence & more. Sunny & Ken also t...

Princess Kali is a former Pro Domme & current headmistress of the online sex ed platform, Kink Academy. Recently she's taken everything she's learned from years of being a dominatrix out of the dungeon & into the boardroom. She now teaches women's empowerment in the business/startup sector. Kali tells us how skills acquired roleplaying in the bedroom can help you get ahead in your career. Ken & Su...

Sex coach and host of the Sex Gets Real Podcast, Dawn Serra talks with Ken & Sunny about life as a sex coach -- What does a coach do? What are the challenges? What are the most outrageous things she's approached with? We touch on the ethics of unusual fetishes like breeding and splorching. We also dive into body politics, being sexy and fat, and her new free online summit, Explore More: Bodies Edi...

Samwell of "What What in the Butt" fame talks about that time he helped Sunny & Ken get married, how his lighthearted song became a viral sensation, the seriousness & underlying message behind it, growing up black & gay in the south, reconciling his don't-ask-don't-tell family arrangement with being out in every other aspect of this life, his new projects including a song about hypocritical politi...

This week on American Sex Podcast, Blowjob Empress, Auntie Angel! We discuss: Why she makes those unforgettable fellatio noises, Girls Trip movie & Tiffany Haddish claiming Angel stole the grapefruit technique from her, what it feels like to be an internet sensation, how to give a grapefruit blowjob safely (no burning sensation!), how she went from being terrified of oral sex to being known worldw...

Dr. Joycelyn Elders was the 2nd woman and 1st African American person appointed Surgeon General of the United States. She's also a sexual health revolutionary. In 1994 President Clinton forced Elders to resign after she advised masturbation be recommended in sex ed programs as an alternative to sex to curtail the spread of HIV. Ken & Sunny talk with Dr. Elders about sexual health, pleasure inclusi...

Mollena Lee Williams-Haas ep 11  Mollena discusses her contractual Master/slave relationship with famous modern composer husband Georg Friedrich Haas , the unlikely way they met, and how his upbringing in post-Nazi Austria influenced his later work that highlights racism & injustice.  We discuss her struggle with alcoholism, how a very real but not real hyena accompanied her in her early days of s...

Sex positive mental health professionals are hard to find. Enter marriage & family therapist, Kate Loree. In this episode she tells us: how to deal with family  you have opposing political views with, finding a kink-friendly therapist, what corrective experiences are & why you should seek them out, how to tell a partner you're kinky, what to do if you & your partner have mismatched libido, why we...

Davecat's wife, Sidore, is a doll-- meaning, she's not just a sweetie, she's actually synthetic! Happily coupled for 17 years, they also live with their mistress Elena and her partner Miss Winter. Davecat considers himself an iDollator because all three women in his life are dolls. You may have seen him on My Strange Addiction, the BBC Documentary Guys and Dolls, or other shows. Davecat sat down w...

Cooper S. Beckett sat down with us to talk all things swinging. What's the difference between swinging and polyamory? Why don't the sexual subcommunities always play nicely together? What's the deal with bisexuality in the swing lifestyle? When is the right (and wrong) time for couples to explore non-monogamy? What the heck does the 2008 financial collapse have to do with non-monogamy today? We al...

Lenora Claire has spent years living in terror. Her stalker contacts her every single day, violating the restraining order she has in place, often with violent threats. He made a name for himself stalking the first daughter, Ivanka Trump. Despite his long, well-documented history of terrorizing and threatening women, Lenora's stalking continues. Ivanka has the secret service to protect her. Lenora...

To some, the term "social justice" is a dirty word. But to others, it means "basic human decency" and should be everyone's default setting. When it comes to dating, relationships, sex, or navigating sexual sub-communities it's important. It can make or break your dating and sex life. But how and why do things like race, gender, ability, size, etc, affect getting laid? Sex is just sex, right? Not n...

In 2015 Mark Shrayber & his fiance Allen traveled to Morehead, KY to get married-- the same town where county clerk Kim Davis refused to issue marriage licenses to same sex couples citing religious beliefs. Davis was held in contempt of court and jailed for 6 days. Mark & Allen arrived in Morehead just in time for her release. As a journalist, Mark was chasing a story. As a couple, they were reali...

  Dick Wound is a 36-year-old BDSM enthusiast. He's a sadomasochist specializing in knife play as a top, CBT (cock & ball torture) as a bottom, and is an armpit fetishist. At 30 Dick suffered a heart attack and now depends on an internal defibrillator to stay alive. This experience prompted him to fantasize and role play about his own death to conquer his fears and depression. Dick recently became...

About our guests: Casey Calvert is an adult performer, sex educator, and custom porn video mogul. Her husband, Bryn Pryor, has been in the porn industry since before Casey was born, doing every job around except performing. Together, they have a family full of dogs, cats, and comic-book collectibles, and have recently finished their first mainstream feature film,  Diminuendo . Recap: Ken & Sunny g...

American Sex, Episode 2: Relationships & Cock-ups Recap:  Ken &  Sunny revisit the love languages, duke it out & make a bet. Ken reveals the secret to penile multiple orgasms. The pair discuss monogamy vs. open relationships & creative uses for 55-gallon drums of lube. A spider makes an unexpected guest appearance.  Episode 2 Topics: Compersion, ethical non-monogamy, polyamorous elitism, swinging,...

Oh, you lucky duckies! We launched this podcast with almost no fanfare, didn't we? One day the American Sex podcast didn't exist and the next day it's like someone quietly slipped it under your pillow. Like a surprise gift  . . . from a secret admirer . . . or the NSFW tooth fairy! Don't worry though, we won't steal your teeth.   Ken and I have been working on American Sex for a while. A few episo...