Aligned Attraction

In this episode, I share 5 heart-throbbing, panty-dropping green flags to look for in dating… (If you want a long-term committed relationship) It’s not enough to just be aware of red flags (what you don’t want to experience in dating).  You MUST know what behaviors qualify as green flags (what you DO want to experience in dating).  Because where attention goes, energy flows.  So foc...

Ain’t nobody got time for red flags when it comes to dating, so why are some of them hard to spot and easy to ignore? In this episode, I talk about the 3 red flags you should NEVER ignore in dating, even if the guy looks perfect on paper, has a great job, is hotter than a steamy shower, has great potential, or is the first guy you’ve dated or liked in a while… I share: What the 3 red flags are &am...

Louisa went from believing that there were more ‘good guys’ in LA to attracting her now partner (within 1.5 months of joining Aligned Attraction)! Prior to joining our mentorship program, Louisa already had it all – a great career as a TV writer in LA, amazing friends, and a life she felt truly grateful for. The only thing that felt missing was a partner to ‘do’ this great life with. She shared wi...

This is a special guided meditation that helps you get clear on and connect to one desire you’d like to fulfill when it comes to dating & love in 2024.  I also guide you to get clear on and become intimate with whatever you think is standing in the way of you having that desire fulfilled.  At the end, I share a brief teaching on desire, so you can understand the nature of it + be abl...

In this episode, I reveal some of the things that men consider in the dating and relating process — and these are NOT superficial considerations.  I dive quite deep into the responsibility that many good men carry, as they strive to be great partners to the women in their lives.  And while we as women carry our own unique burdens and considerations in dating and love, this episode will g...

I’ve heard from so many women that dating fuels exhausting, and if they have a hard time meeting men on their level who are emotionally available, emotionally, intelligent, and ready for commitment. But what if dating could feel really fun and sexy? In this episode, I am going to reveal some valuable mindset shifts that will take dating from feeling exhausting and daunting to sexy and fun. And I’m...

Have you ever really wanted intimacy and closeness, but it felt scary and unsafe – all at the same time?    In this episode, we explore some of the most common fears when it comes to intimacy:   Feeling afraid to be vulnerable + open our hearts Fear of being seen (because if they really see us, what if they don’t like what they see and they leave)? Fear of losing ourselves, our free...

The episode is a live coaching session, where we coach Scarlett, a successful entrepreneur who is struggling to meet quality men that are truly ready for love. She wants to to meet a man who will make an incredible partner who's ready to start a family, so they can live their dream life together. Someone who feels like home to her, and whose healthy masculine will allow her healthy feminine to fee...

Have you ever... Gotten stuck in conversation with someone who won’t stop talking? Asked a ton of questions but never got one back? Wished for more silence in connection? Wanted everyone to stop talking and just get things done? If any of the above are true for you, you’ve probably thought “wow, people suck at communication.” But what if all this difference could actually be easy to navigate? What...

Marriage to another person is an age-old rite of passage that is celebrated (and even expected) by our society… But what about a self marriage? In this episode, I speak with my friend Meg about what inspired her to host an entire wedding ceremony to marry herself – cake, dress, vows, witnesses and all! She shares the beautiful details about: What self marriage is (and how it can help us cultivate...

In this episode, I share a story about a series of breakthroughs that will absolutely blow your mind, expand your heart, and activate a deep desire within you… Our existential yearning as women is to be penetrated... To be so deeply seen and known... That we can no longer hide... From our light and how brightly we shine... As well as from our shadows and how dark we can be... To be known in this w...

In this special episode, I’m on Instagram Live with Intimacy & Liberation Coach, Danielle Aubrey Smith.  In today’s episode, we cover:  Questioning the belief: “Love is hard” (but rather exploring how it can be EASY!) How to use ordinary, everyday moments to call in love (instead of waiting for the next ‘spiritual download’)  Danielle’s daily practice that helps prime and open h...

In this episode, I’m joined by Heather McClellan, an Executive Coach and EQ trainer for a beautifully heartfelt and powerful conversation about what allows relationships (and the people in them) to thrive. We discuss how to go from being emotionally closed to becoming deeply embodied in our emotions + precise in how we communicate them, so we can experience more closeness with our partners. In tod...

Ever feel scared to really CLAIM your desires, especially when it comes to defining what you want in a dream partner/relationship?  For most of us, we never fully uncover our deepest desires because we want to avoid the potential feeling of disappointment or pain if that desire goes unfulfilled.  In this episode, we talk about why it can often feel dangerous to claim our desires + how to...

While commitment can’t be forced, it can be INSPIRED. In this episode, my partner Ani and I talk about how to inspire the commitment of a high value man.  We define who a ‘high value man’ is and what feminine qualities cause this kind of man to want to commit. We dive deep into:  What qualities does a ‘high value man’ embody? The 6 traits that attract high value men The 6 traits that rep...

Do you consistently date guys who are “not on your level,” who feel like “projects” and who need “fixing?” You feel done with playing the role of mom, teacher, or guide to your man… And are ready to start attracting men who are doing their ‘inner work,’ living their purpose, and who contribute to the relationship as much as you do?  In this episode, I share:  The hidden reasons why you’r...

Do you attract men who: Are never ready to commit (and always have a bunch of excuses why) Want to keep dating/sleeping around (or only see you when s*x is involved) Behave in emotionally immature ways Won’t introduce you to his friends or family  Won’t open up or share his emotions (and doesn’t ask about yours) Avoid deep or challenging conversations  If so, then you’re a magnet for emo...

If you’ve dated or been in relationships with men where: Your emotions get invalidated (and you’re made to feel like you’re “too much,” “too emotional” or “too needy”) You feel inferior or less than (and he seems ‘superior,’ ‘better than’ or like the ‘authority’) You share your pains, but then he makes it about him (and plays ‘victim’) He blames and points the finger at you (and everyone else) and...

You’re dating a man (or men)... Who seem great on paper, but there’s no ‘chemistry’ Who’s a ‘nice guy,’ but there’s no spark or depth You don’t vibe with sexually or emotionally  Who are kinda ‘meh’ (and you’re definitely not TURNED ON) In this episode, I share:  The hidden reasons why you’re attracting this kind of man (and what your ego has to do with it) What this man provides you tha...

You’re a successful, independent woman who has created a great life for herself…  You’re a powerful boss babe at work and just as badass at home… You have great friendships and epic hobbies… To put it simply: You’re a real fkn catch!  Yet…you attract men who are needy, clingy, desperate, and insecure.  It doesn’t make any sense!  Where is your powerful, masculine, committed man...

No matter how hard you try, you find yourself attracting anything but the kind of man you’d be willing to call “The One.”  Maybe you attract the man who’s not ready to commit and wants to keep ‘playing the field…’  Or you attract the man with whom you see a lot of potential, but he’s just not showing up in alignment with that potential.  Maybe you attract the man who you have wrappe...

Ep. 52: Why Successful Women Struggle to Find Love and Attract Good Men You’re slayin’ it everywhere else in your life – great job, amazing friends, world travel…so where the hell is your guy?! And why is love the one thing you haven’t felt successful at?  In this episode, I share: Why many high-achieving women have a hard time being successful when it comes to love The 4 patterns many high-a...

Welcome back! You may have noticed that I paused recording for a while. I was off giving birth to the greatest love experience that exists…aka the most powerful love program out there (if you’re a successful single woman who’s ready to start attracting committed masculine men ;)  In this episode, I share: Why I changed the podcast name from “The Way of The High Priestess” to “Aligned Attracti...

“I love getting my period…” – said no woman ever. But what if you could actually say that? And, what if your partner helped you celebrate the time of the month when you bleed? (Or you could be the kind of partner that helps her celebrate her period). How freakin’ amazing would that be?!  In this episode, I’m going to debunk the bullsh*t myths we have around menstruation, provide new and empow...

Sometimes it feels like we ARE the anger, sadness, and frustration that we feel (with ourselves and with others)... But what if you could cultivate the ability to see what’s happening, without becoming “the thing” itself? In this meditation, I guide you through a process that helps you see many aspects of yourself and your loved ones with a sense of relaxed objectivity. Wouldn’t it be so nice if t...