Jane McFadden
ADHD Mums
Being a mum is hard enough. Being a mum with ADHD — or raising neurodivergent kids is a whole different level. ADHD Mums is the unfiltered, science-meets-reality podcast hosted by Jane McFadden, educational neuroscientist, advocate, and mother of three. This isn’t another polished parenting show with 'ten easy tips.' It’s real stories, confessions we’re not supposed to say out loud, and the research that explains why so many of us are running on empty. Every week you’ll hear:🎙️ Confessions — raw, anonymous truths from mums navigating rage, burnout, and survival.🧠 Expert insights — from neuros...
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Episodes
59. Trauma, EMDR, and ADHD: Jess's Story of Recovery 29.01.2025 26:43
Feeling like you’re carrying the weight of the world? Whether it’s the invisible scars of trauma, the daily juggle of ADHD, or the pressure to hold it all together, this episode dives into what happens when life gets overwhelming - and how to start healing. Jess shares her deeply personal journey from life in the ADF to facing PTSD, navigating ADHD, and rebuilding her life with the help of EMDR th...
58. Struggling to Understand ADHD? Here’s What Your Partner Needs You to Know [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 27.01.2025 37:45
For many ADHD mums, explaining ADHD to loved ones can feel like speaking another language. Partners and family members might try their best but don’t always grasp the full picture - or might even feel overwhelmed or unsure how to help. This episode is for both ADHD mums and their loved ones - those who want to help but feel unsure about ADHD, feeling overwhelmed by what it means, or just want to p...
57. The NDIS Shake-Up and National Autism Strategy: What Jane Really Thinks [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 22.01.2025 32:29
Important Context: Some of the changes I discuss in this episode aren’t officially announced or reflected on the NDIS website. However, feedback from a large number of parents who completed my survey suggests these changes are happening as the NDIS plans are reviewed or when new applications go in. There is a huge amount of inconsistency within the NDIS with unclear definitions and varying levels...
56. Setting Your ADHD Family Up for a Smoother School Year [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 20.01.2025 46:50
Whether it’s the start of a new school year or a mid-term reset, managing routines and transitions as an ADHD family can feel overwhelming. From chaotic mornings to emotional regulation challenges, this episode is packed with practical strategies to support your family anytime you're looking to create a smoother school experience. This episode is here to help you: Reflect on what’s working and wha...
55. ADHD Mum: What You Need to Know After Your Diagnosis [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 15.01.2025 17:39
Being diagnosed with ADHD can bring a mix of emotions - grief, relief, confusion, and a whole lot of questions. It’s a lot to process, and you’re doing the best you can. In this episode: Grief, overwhelm, and imposter syndrome. Practical strategies designed for ADHD brains. Unmasking, managing the mental load, and finding what works for you. Most importantly, you’re not failing - you’re learning h...
54. How to Talk to Your Child About ADHD: Empowering Conversations That Change Everything (Part 2) [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 13.01.2025 30:25
Are you unsure about how to talk to your child about ADHD? Feeling overwhelmed, second-guessing yourself, or worried you’ll get it “wrong”? Whether you’re just starting this conversation or fine-tuning your approach, this episode has the answers you’ve been searching for ( plus the validation you didn’t know you needed ). Download the free guide : “Explaining ADHD to Your Child: The Why and How” h...
53. Explaining ADHD to Your Child: Why It Matters (Part 1) [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 08.01.2025 25:34
As mums, we want to protect our kids, but when it comes to ADHD or other neurodivergent diagnoses, silence can sometimes send the wrong message. This episode dives into the why behind having this big conversation with your child - why it’s important, how it can shape their self-confidence, and what happens when they don’t have the right information. If you’ve ever felt unsure abo...
ADHD & Sensory Overwhelm: Identifying Triggers and Finding Relief with Rebecca Torpie [re-release] 06.01.2025 46:56
Life in a neurodivergent household is full of noise, touch, and constant interruptions. Add the guilt of “not doing enough,” and it’s no wonder so many of us feel burnt out. This episode gives you the tools and validation you need to take care of yourself - because when you’re regulated, everything else gets a little easier. In this episode, I'm joined by Occupational Therapist and fellow ADHD Mum...
52. Why Most Planners Fail ADHD Mums (and How to Finally Make One Work) [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 01.01.2025 7:56
Feeling like traditional planners just don’t work for your ADHD brain? You’re not alone. This episode dives into why typical systems fail us and how value-aligned planning can help you ditch the guilt, reduce overwhelm, and focus on what really matters. 👉 Grab the ADHD Mums Planner – designed to work with your brain, not against it. It’s packed with tools for task management, guilt-fr...
Neurotypical Mum vs ADHD Mum: Is It ADHD or Mum Life? [re-release] 30.12.2024 46:18
Do you ever catch yourself wondering, “Is this just the chaos of mum life, or could it be something more?” Amanda (ADHD mum) and Sarah (neurotypical mum) share what life really looks like behind the scenes - messy mornings, endless to-dos, and those moments where it all feels too much. It’s an honest, funny, and eye-opening conversation about the differences and similarities between ADHD and...
Camouflaging ADHD + Autistic Traits in Girls with Millie Carr [re-release] 25.12.2024 46:39
If you’ve ever wondered why your daughter seems to struggle quietly while excelling on the surface - or if you’re reflecting on your own experiences as a neurodivergent mum - this episode is for you. I’m joined by Millie Carr, a passionate educator, author, and mum of three, to unpack the subtle and often misunderstood ways ADHD and autism show up in girls. With lived experience as part of a neuro...
ADHD and Autistic Traits in Mums with Dr. Jacinta Thomson [re-release] 23.12.2024 46:02
Wondering if there’s more to your neurodivergence beyond ADHD? In this episode, Clinical Psychologist Dr. Jacinta Thomson breaks down the overlap between ADHD and autistic traits in mums. Learn how masking works, why it’s so hard to tease them apart, and how to explore your identity with curiosity and self-compassion. This is the episode for you if you’ve ever thought, “Could I be autistic too?” T...
51. How to Handle Family Criticism About ADHD: Boundaries and Keeping Your Sanity [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 19.12.2024 27:35
Worried about family comments on your child’s ADHD? The judgmental questions, the unsolicited advice, the pressure to explain your choices - it’s a lot. Get the guide : A Mum’s Guide to Support and Helping Others Get It is available on the website, filled with practical tips for advocating for your child while protecting your peace. This episode is here to help you: Respond calml...
50. Stop People-Pleasing: The ADHD Mum’s Guide to Boundaries, Balance, and Breaking Free [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 18.12.2024 24:58
Sick of saying yes when you really want to say no? People-pleasing feels like keeping the peace, but it leaves you exhausted, resentful, and avoiding people you care about. If you’re ready to stop the cycle, protect your energy, and show your kids healthy boundaries - this episode is for you. Join our supportive FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/777102743903210/ Connect wi...
49. Christmas Chaos: Hacks for Surviving Family Drama, Sensory Overload, and Picky Eaters! [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 16.12.2024 21:17
Christmas - it’s the season of joy, right? Well, not always. Between the family drama, overwhelming sensory triggers, and the constant pressure to create magical moments, the holidays can feel more like chaos than cheer. For neurodivergent mums, it’s even trickier to juggle routines, expectations, and everything in between. Timestamps (approx): 1 min: Why family tensions skyrocket at Christmas - a...
48. Running Out of Time: Why ADHD Mums Feel Overwhelmed at Christmas (and How to Fix It!) [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 11.12.2024 17:22
The holiday season is supposed to be magical, but for many ADHD mums, it can feel like a chaotic, relentless sprint. Between managing school events, last-minute gift shopping, and endless holiday prep, it's easy to become overwhelmed and exhausted. In this episode, I go beyond the usual holiday tips and dive into proven strategies tailored for neurodivergent mums to help you reclaim your sanity an...
47. What happens if you take ADHD medication without ADHD? [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 09.12.2024 13:57
Ever wondered what happens when someone without ADHD takes ADHD medication? You’ve probably heard the rumours - instant focus, super-productivity, maybe even a “magic pill” for getting things done. But what’s the truth? A Guide to ADHD Medication : Find practical advice, answers to FAQs, and tips for tracking progress with ADHD medication. In this episode, we explore the surprising science behind...
46. ‘Tis the Season to Overspend: ADHD Mum vs. Impulse Shopping [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 04.12.2024 13:06
The holidays are here, and if your spending habits feel like they’ve gone rogue, you’re not alone. Whether you’re a serial online shopper or someone who’s mastered the art of hiding packages from loved ones, this season has a way of making impulse buying feel unavoidable. As someone who hates the chaos of shopping centres and has a delivery driver who might know me by name,...
45. Do neurodivergent women attract narcissists? [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden 02.12.2024 29:45
Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where your needs always seem to come second? Or maybe you’ve wondered why some women, especially neurodivergent ones, end up in toxic relationships time and time again. Whether it’s a romantic partner, a colleague, or even a family member, understanding how narcissists operate can help you protect yourself and reclaim your sense of self-worth. T...
MINI SERIES (Episode 9): How Workplaces Can Support Employees Affected by Family and Domestic Violence with Laurie Arrowsmith 27.11.2024 20:18
Family and domestic violence doesn't stop at home - it has a significant impact on workplaces too. That’s why I’m so grateful to have Laurie Arrowsmith from White Ribbon Australia back on the podcast. Laurie shares practical insights on how workplaces can foster safety, support, and equality for all employees. As a Senior Workplace Programme Specialist, Laurie has spent over a decade working with...
MINI SERIES (Episode 8): Why don't women just leave? 26.11.2024 12:09
**This audio has been replaced with a solo key take away messaging from Jane due to issues with audio quality** - Please email admin@adhdmums.com.au if you would like a copy of the original audio - it is scratchy which for those with noise sensitivity was difficult to listen to** Domestic Violence is one of those topics that’s so much more complicated than it seems from the outside. This week, I s...
44. Supporting Neurodivergent Kids with Friendships and Boundaries with Bec Sparrow 25.11.2024 47:40
Friendships can be tricky, especially when navigating neurodivergence. As parents, we often wonder how to help our kids make meaningful connections, set healthy boundaries, and deal with social challenges. That’s why I brought in the one and only Bec Sparrow A.K.A. Australia’s Friendship Whisperer . With two decades of experience as a writer, speaker, and advocate for connection, Bec has helped co...
MINI SERIES (Episode 7): Ensuring Safety When Leaving a DV Relationship with Laurie Arrowsmith 20.11.2024 22:04
Today, we're diving into an important yet often difficult topic - what women need to consider for safety and support when thinking about leaving an abusive relationship. Laurie from White Ribbon Australia is a leading voice in domestic violence prevention and intervention. At White Ribbon Australia, she manages the Workplace Accreditation Program, fostering safer spaces for women and families. Lau...
43. ADHD and Teens: A Conversation with Maggie Dent 18.11.2024 43:55
Commonly known as the ‘queen of common sense,’ Maggie Dent is one of Australia’s most beloved parenting authors, educators, and podcasters. And I finally had the chance to catch up with Maggie! More resources can be found here: https://adhdmums.com.au/resources Maggie’s down-to-earth stories and no-nonsense advice will leave you feeling ready to take on the rollercoaster ride of parenting teens. F...
42. Evidence-Based ADHD Strategies: Effective and Reliable Methods with Claire Britton 11.11.2024 36:32
In today’s episode, I welcome back Claire Britton, a neurodivergent OT with a wealth of experience supporting ADHD and neurodivergent families. Claire brings a unique, practical perspective on managing ADHD - think habit-stacking, body doubling, and dopamine menus! She shares insights on evidence-backed strategies that have helped her clients and breaks down why some popular approaches might not b...
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