Addiction Unlimited Podcast

You’ve said it before: “I don’t want to do AA,” or “I’ll figure this out on my own.” But if you’re stuck in the cycle—making promises, breaking them, and wondering why nothing sticks—this episode is your wake-up call. In this powerful conversation we break down the real reasons your past attempts to quit drinking haven’t worked… and what it actually takes to get and stay sober— with a program or w...

You quit drinking. People congratulated you. Maybe you posted your day count, joined a group, downloaded a tracker, even started journaling… But deep down, it still feels like you’re just barely holding it together. This is white-knuckling —where you’re sober, but not free. Surviving… not thriving. And what no one tells you is: that’s not recovery. That’s emotional burnout. You’ve heard me say thi...

If you’ve relapsed recently or had a drink after a solid streak of sobriety, I want you to take a deep breath and hear this: ✨ You are not broken. ✨ You have not failed. ✨ And you are absolutely not alone. Whether it’s a one-time slip or a full-on spiral, relapse doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It’s feedback. And it’s fixable. If you’re feeling stuck in guilt, shame, or that voice in your hea...

People often ask me, “How do you stay sober when life gets stressful?” And my answer is always the same: I don’t just work on staying sober—I work on managing stress and anxiety every single day . Because here’s the truth: Your brain doesn’t actually want alcohol—it wants relief . When you’re overwhelmed, exhausted, or anxious, your first instinct is to reach for something that changes how you fee...

Your sobriety isn’t determined by one big decision—it’s shaped by the small, daily choices you make. If you’re wondering why staying sober feels so hard or why you keep falling into the same patterns, it’s time to take a closer look at your daily decisions for sobriety. In this episode, we’re diving into the subtle habits that either strengthen or sabotage your recovery. Are you prioritizing your...

Have you ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of overeating, promising this time will be different , only to break that promise again? The guilt, the frustration, the feeling that you just can’t trust yourself—it’s exhausting. If you’ve ever wondered why food feels like it has power over you, this episode is for you. Today, I’m sitting down with Tim, who spent decades battling compulsive overeat...

Have you ever tried to control your drinking with rules like, o nly on weekends, only two drinks, only on special occasions… only to find yourself breaking them? Have you ever told yourself, “I’m not really an alcoholic,” just to justify drinking? Or maybe you’ve struggled with the fear of labeling yourself but still felt deep down that alcohol had too much control in your...

Why do people flake? Why do they lie in their profiles? Why does it feel like no one is actually looking for a real connection? Dating apps promise endless possibilities, yet so many of us find ourselves endlessly frustrated. You swipe and swipe, hoping for a spark, only to be ghosted, breadcrumbed, or hit with yet another “Hey” that leads nowhere. It’s exhausting, discouraging, and so...

You have more power in your dating life than you think. The way we think about dating—our expectations, assumptions, and mindset—shapes our experience before we even meet someone. When we go in with pressure, self-doubt, or fear of rejection, dating feels hard, like a lost cause, and discouraging. But with a few small mindset shifts, dating can become lighter, more fun, and way less stressful. In...

That rush of excitement when you meet or match with someone new—the butterflies, the spark, the hope that maybe this time it’s real. And then… it fizzles. They ghost. 🚫 They’re not who they said they were. 🎭 Their pictures were old or heavily filtered, and you don’t even recognize them in real life. 🤦‍♀️ Or worse—they seem amazing, but they don’t feel the same way about you. And just like that,...

Ever feel like you’re stuck in a cycle of attracting the wrong people? You keep finding yourself in confusing, frustrating, or downright toxic relationships and you’re left wondering: What is wrong with me? Why do I always attract liars, cheaters, or emotionally unavailable people? Are there even any good ones out there?! If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. And in this episode, we’re breaki...

Everyone has compulsions or addictions, and needs relief from the discomforts of life. Whether you’re in a treatment center getting treatment for substance abuse, or the soccer mom who struggles with overeating that doesn’t resonate with typical alcoholic or addict, but can’t stop using food to feel better – to the people-pleaser that is causing major discomfort in their own life, and the lives of...

Have you heard the term dry drunk and wondered, “Is that me?” Can you be sober and be a dry drunk? Or you may think,  what’s the difference between dry drunk vs. sober or in recovery. Today, I’m going to break down the ins and outs of dry drunk. From what does it mean and is it me all the way to how to avoid it and/or change it. This is a jam-packed episode and perfect for the newbie, just getting...

Have you ever felt stuck in the shadow of your past, unable to move forward but unsure of how to start healing? In this transformative episode, we dive deep into the power of healing trauma and how it can unlock a life of clarity, confidence, and emotional freedom. Whether you’ve experienced a single event or the ongoing stress of circumstances like the recent California wildfires, or maybe you do...

Happy New Year, my friend! I hope you are waking up today ready to tackle this thing HEAD ON. If this is your day 1… I’m glad you are ready to kick some a** and make big changes starting  today. There’s no way around it. Holiday season is ex-haust-ing. I’m right there with you. 🙌 If your head is a little fuzzy today, I want you to start with nourishing your body. Drink lot...

From the outside, it might look like everything is smooth sailing, but the truth is, even those of us thriving in sobriety encounter challenges. As we wrap up 2024, I’m pulling back the curtain to share some personal struggles I’ve faced this year. In this episode, I open up about what’s been going on behind the scenes, how I’ve coped, and the lessons I’ve learned about resilience and self-compass...

Have you been trying to stay sober but find yourself back at square one? You’re not alone, and it’s not about lacking willpower. In this episode, we uncover the hidden roadblocks that could be sabotaging your sobriety. These challenges often fly under the radar, making it difficult to maintain progress. I’ll share five of the most common roadblocks and offer practical strategies to overcome...

True transformation happens when you fully embrace your identity as a non-drinking person and create a recovery lifestyle. It’s not just about quitting alcohol, it’s about stepping into a new lifestyle, taking responsibility, living with purpose, and feeling totally empowered by it all. When you want long-term sobriety, to feel confident in your recovery, and be happier… building a recovery lifest...

Did you know that many people don’t realize they’re on the path to relapse until it’s too late? The truth is, relapse doesn’t happen in a single moment—it’s a slow buildup of emotions, stressors, and unchecked behaviors that compromise your decision-making over time. In this episode, we’re breaking down the early warning signs of relapse so you can recognize them before they get the best of you. F...

The holiday season is magical—a time for sparkling lights, heartfelt traditions, and moments of togetherness. But for many of us in recovery, this time of year can feel like navigating a minefield of stress, temptation, and overwhelming expectations. The pressure to be everything for everyone, the endless to-do lists, and the ever-present cultural norm of celebrating with alcohol can make it feel...

  All right, my friend. Don’t even try to deny it—you know the feeling I’m talking about. You start out with the best intentions, maybe after a particularly rough night or an emotional moment of clarity, and you tell yourself, This is it. I’m going to stop drinking, and everything will fall into place. But then, reality sets in. The road feels harder than you imagined. You’re not seeing the c...

I wholeheartedly believe that learning to enjoy social situations without alcohol is one of the most empowering gifts you can give yourself. It’s a skill that brings freedom and joy, allowing you to show up as your authentic self—without a drink in hand. But as you probably already know, it’s not always easy. Whether it’s handling those awkward questions, navigating a wedding or happy hour, or sim...

Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed by the journey to quit drinking, like there are a million things to figure out all at once? Or maybe you’ve wondered why it feels like a game of Whac-a-Mole with new habits popping up to replace old ones. If so, you’re not alone, and you’re definitely in the right place. In this episode, I’m breaking down three surprising traps that no one talks about when...

  Recovery isn’t a one-size-fits-all journey—it’s deeply personal, especially when you’re working to find what truly clicks for you. On this episode, I’m sitting down with Jason Wahler to dig into the power of a solid recovery plan, the strength it takes to get sober in the public eye, and the importance of finding your unique way to stay on track for the long term. Here’s what we’re diving i...

How are you feeling about your next social event? Calm, confident, and ready to connect? (Or did that question just stir up a wave of anxiety and second-guessing?) And what about your body? Tense, tight shoulders? Racing heartbeat? (If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone.) The reality is that social anxiety can be incredibly overwhelming, especially when you’re newly sober. The situations...