A Sip and A Shot

SHOOTER ALERT: Some ladies have a love-love, some have a love-hate, but VJ has a HATE-HATE with the gaming systems. This week we dive a bit into why she does and Jame tries to convince her "maybe they're not that bad." Jame gives the 'stress reliever,' 'better than in the streets' reasoning to no avail - VJ still ain't having it, she didn't want to be logic's friend this week lol. Tell us whose si...

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time! This week we kicked off our Spooky Season with a good balance of all 3 categories! We started out with Cardi B - she killed Fashion Week and we had to talk about the encouragement she was giving while slaying! Being petty is an art form but one situation had us sa...

SHOOTER ALERT: we’re testing home training this week! If you brought a bottle to a function/kickback/get-together, and it was never opened, are you taking it back with you or leaving it there? Now, we all thought there was going to be one answer… there wasn’t! Well more like exemptions lol! Tell us what you’re doing!

This week we finally had JAMIE’S BOYS!!!! Since the beginning of ASAAS, they have supported us and given us a lot of topics! We’ve wanted them on for so long and they finally agreed! Thanks to a few cocktails lol. We discuss more guy talk! When it’s time to introduce significant others to family and friends, the 90% success rate for women approaching men, body image for men and women. Y’all we had...

SHOOTER ALERT: The best shooters are ones that we find within our episode and this is no different! Jame said “some folk are looking for love while in relationships” which reminded VJ of a TikTok about how some men don’t marry their true love, they marry their available love. Now we just had to discuss whether this is true, is this considered settling, men’s bio clock, and working with what you go...

Cuffing Season is upon us AGAIN & that bish snuck up AGAIN! So you know we had to discuss it! We’re talking schedule, rules, and our predictions! How many are allowed on the team, how are you choosing your MVP, what day is the Cuffing Season Super Bowl: NYE or Valentine’s Day?? We also found the 2021 Dating Trends. Have you heard of being Elsa’d? We’re giving you all of them! Cheers! The Sip: Snea...

SHOOTER ALERT: When you think of friend-zones, you always think of women putting men in them. So, we had to ask our guest Reggie if men put women in the friend zone too! We talked about how you can find yourself in the zone, how to possibly get out of one, and the risks of trying to get out the zone! Let’s just say: communication is key and don’t be leading folk on! VJ had to admit she was wrong o...

This episode was a first for us and you know we love FIRST! We have our first Male Guest featured this week!! We told him we are asking him everything ladies want to know from men which he immediately tells us he can't speak on behalf of men only him lol. We discuss sliding in DMs and the success rate, how opportunity and independence effects relationships, and who's paying! We also dived in a lit...

SHOOTER ALERT: With it being social media week, Jame saw the perfect opportunity to play our first game! We’ve been talking about how we may be too old and this tweet didn’t help with that thought lol! The tweet included some text Abbreviations we had to guess lol! So Jame found some other abbreviations that we had to guess! See if y’all get them before we do! Cheers idkmbffj!

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time! This week was a good week of “Truueee!” With a sprinkle of “Bish Whet?!” We started with Some love and hip hop advice to set reminders! Listen sometimes you do need a reminder to make sure you remain YOU! Then we had to jump over to WWYD scenario: what happens if...

SHOOTER ALERT: You want a twist on blind dating? How about actually Blind? This week we found a group that is hosting a blind and speed dating event in the dark, kinda a “Love is Blind” vibe. We talked about the age range of participants, if we could take it seriously, and what questions we would even ask! Also, has anyone ever done speed dating at strip club before? One of us has! Cheers!

No new friends? Are you sure? Are we the only people who’ve noticed it’s kinda difficult to make friends as real adults. Meaning after school lol. This week we’re talking about what a friend is (why everyone isn’t called a friend lol), how work relationships are some of the weirdest and coolest things ever! We’re also discussing how to actually meet and make new friends! Sort of a how to guide… Th...

SHOOTER ALERT: We saw something this week about Using college as a place to find a spouse instead of Hot girl/boy ish, or better working on yourself and creating a life for you! We discussed how different cultures have different priorities, not right or wrong, just different. Should you marry “up”, who gets to marry “up”..... we should’ve talked about how to marry “up” lol. The convo somehow turne...

Creating boundaries in your life is hard period, whether it’s family, friend, or ex. This week we’re discussing how to create those boundaries without ending a relationship completely. For the record, this is reserved for the exes that caused Hurt but not devastation. You all Broke up on decent terms and so they can stay a part of your life lol. We’re talking about what’s are some good boundaries...

SHOOTER ALERT: Kells is back y’all and she bought us a shooter again! The question is: are we sugar babies? That was not the initial question but you’ve been following this long so you know how we get! What starts out with the story of one of us having a suitor court us somehow turned into if we can really accept true courtship. We also discuss how our answer changes the older we get! Let’s just s...

It’s our ANNIVERSARY!!!! 1 Year of ✨A Sip and A Shot✨This episode we switched it up and had one of our Day 1 Supporters and GoodT Friend actually come back for Pt 2!! Kellie came prepared once again y’all! We were able to clear up one our Halloween experiences, our opinion on today’s fashion and if we’re as old as we feel lol, and also our dreams for✨A Sip and A Shot✨! Again, Thank you ALL for...

SHOOTER ALERT: One of Netflix’s newest blind dating show, Sexy Beast has an exciting new twist. In a world where looks come first, Sexy Beast has made it all about personality because the contestants are covered from head to toe in an elaborate costume. This week we discuss the takeaways from this show, our feelings on blind dates, and accepting or “creating” challenges. Would you prefer to meet s...

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time! This week was a good week of “Please STOP!” With a sprinkle of “Bish Whet?!” We had to discuss the round of finalized divorces that have happened in the last couple weeks. Mainly Dr. Dre's and Kelly Clarksons... We're wondering why there were different reactions f...

SHOOTER ALERT: We talked about women’s hair so now we had to discuss the men. Sometimes it seems like men don’t have as many hair options as women but we discovered they have some of the same things we have: wigs, weaves, and faux ..... things lol. We talk about locs and the extensions, our fav hairstyles on men, how we feel about them whipping hair, and of course: the beards. 2 questions: What do...

Hair - Something that seems so minute but plays a big part in our lives. We all have a hair journey, especially being black women! This week we discuss our hair journeys, from perms to afros, braids to press and curls, colors and cuts, we talk about it all. We also discuss how hair affects how we feel at work and how we handle that. We also give yall some styles we definitely want to try! What's y...

HOOTER ALERT: To preface this: we had Irish Trashcans. Y’all know some of the best shooters are ones Jame has been sitting on for weeks! This week we’re debating free bread lol! Do you judge people on how quickly they eat the FREE bread at a restaurant? On a scale of 1-10 how cray cray is that? If you ever feel judged remember get that bread and h*** then leave! Cheers!

This weeks episode was inspired by a dear friend of ours after he saw some screenshots of messages that don’t show the best side of the ladies. We realized we’ve never discussed some of the foolish things women can say and/or do! We talk about women trying to trick men, looking out for a free EXPENSIVE meal, not remembering the flewed out rules etc. With cocktails we had, this was a roller coaster...

SHOOTER ALERT: We still have Kells here and she came prepared with a shooter!!! She brought her top 3 favorite moments from season 2 with her!! We give our initial reactions to rehearing ourselves, what we were thinking, and if stand by what we said! Our crazy doesn’t change MOST of the time! We also have to make sure we have that candle ready for Part 2!

It’s our ANNIVERSARY!!!! 1 Year of ✨A Sip and A Shot✨This episode we switched it up and had one of our Day 1 Supporters and GoodT Friend actually interview us!!! Kellie came prepared y’all! She asked us Why we started ✨A Sip and A Shot✨, how we started, how we choose the sips and shots, what some of our favorite episodes are, the difference between season 1 and 2, and so much more! We’ve alrea...

SHOOTER ALERT: This week Jame found a tweet that basically asked if women would choose peace in their relationship over being right. Now, y’all have been here with us a while now and you know we had to ask questions and give some conditions for peace. Let’s just say one of us said being right gives her peace lol.... Ladies what are you choosing? Cheers!