A Sip and A Shot

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time! This week was a good week of “Please STOP!” With a sprinkle of “Bish Whet?!” We started with an “Alpha Male” (Dr. Evil fingers) and his advice on a loving, long lasting relationship then jumped to questioning if we need to advertise our sexual history on our weddi...

SHOOTER ALERT: Listen y’all. This is the last time we are discussing this lol. On the trip, the discussion of height preferences was initiated NOT BY VJ lol! This led to a longer conversation about being able to like who and what you want and y’all know we had to talk about it! We also were led to question why we as women can’t state our physical desires but men can? Hmm?? Cheers!

We’re Back from Miami & Jamie had a blast on her trip! She tells us everything about the trip! The highs, the lows, the wobbly knees! We were on boats and saw the beautiful Miami Skyline, we had tequila shots (that are enough to do anyone in), and it was the best way to bring 30 in! Cheers 🥂 The Sip & The Shot: WATER

SHOOTER ALERT: Can you tell everyone the truth? This question came from a conversation when some of our male friends said it’s hard being honest with women... or women don’t accept the truth so it’s best to keep it to themselves lol. You know we love a good “guys vs. girls” conversation!! The thing is VJ and Jame disagree a bit, which always makes for a fun conversation! Can you accept honesty jus...

Miami Here We Come!!! We leave for Miami in 2 days to celebrate Jame’s birthday!!So we had to talk about just how we’re feeling! There’s an excitement because who doesn’t like traveling with your friends to celebrate!! There’s anxiety because this is the first time we’ve each traveled in 17 months! But the excitement definitely outweighs the anxiety because we get to be hot girls and Jame has sooo...

SHOOTER ALERT: This shooter may have started messy but we turned it around we promise! We wanted to talk about strict relationships this week! What it means to be a strict gf/bf, why some choose to be strict, and how it makes folks feel! We also discuss TRUST and how that can absolve some of the ‘strictness’ some people have. This was a funny one y’all, and we hope we’re still invited OUTSIDE lol

First off, Happy Early Fathers Day!!! We didn’t expect to talk about dads as much this week but we realized we needed too! This week, we’re discussing how important our dads are to us, the growth in the relationship, and some fun memories!! We also had a question this week!!! Do we use our friends as safety nets to not look for or be open to relationships? We had different opinions which led to pe...

SHOOTER ALERT: Last weekend was a crazy weekend (you know with Outside being open) and the best Shooters come from random conversations VJ and Jame have! This week we’re questioning why our level of attraction changes when there’s a new relationship. Were they always this weird? Were they really even that cute to start with? Was the BDE blinding? Crazy questions that annoy Jame lol! We also talk a...

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time! We’ve never had a ALL THE ABOVE moment and this week we did! Jame found a thread that just deserved ALL OF THE ABOVE! We also discussed this whole situation with Bonnet-Gate aka policing black women and what we do! VJ did have some maybe not social media approved...

SHOOTER ALERT: So everyone talks about getting 'flewed out' but do we talk about the unspoken rules?! This week we talk about a few of them: what's happening, where we're going, and when we're leaving! Also, we discuss if we're flying folk out ... if you know us you know we had the same thoughts lol! Remember to take opportunities that are presented and for food almost anything can happen lol. Che...

This week we’re talking about everyone’s favorite topic of dating! But this week it has a little twist, interracial dating! We discuss whether each of us has dated outside our race, what we consider that to be (there’s a slight disagreement in that), and if we would date someone who is of a different race! We keep it light and fun with this one! Cheers The Sip: Melon Ball & The Shot: Pineapple Ups...

SHOOTER ALERT: This week we feature our guest Keyonia!!! We are discussing a few things! Mommy Friends and play dates! We’re Keyonia’s non mommy friends so we wanted to know how she meets new friends with children, how her relationships change with friends without children, etc. We also had to have a little social media fun with her: does the dad have to ask his wife/mom for permission to schedule...

This week on ✨A Sip and A Shot✨ we feature our friend Keyonia!! She is one of our first friends who became a mom to a beautiful baby girl! On this episode, we are discussing Keyonia’s journey into motherhood, how she chooses to parent, the joys and sometimes pains of parenthood! We also talk about how parenting as a Millennial is different from being parented by a Baby Boomer. We of course had t...

SHOOTER ALERT: Last week, we missed a BIG Social Media moment: Porsha Williams!! So you know we had to get it this week! We have different opinions SHOCKINGLY, but we give you all of them this week!! We also had to chit chat about the 7 month lady on her knee.... Gotta love it! Cheers! Featured Sip: Pegu Club Cocktail 🍹 A Sip and A Shot Shooter: VJ & Jame’s ‘hot take’ on some ish! We’re giving ou...

It’s another Health and Wellness Series episode and this week we’re talking about Fad Diets!! Everyone knows we live in a diet culture. Everyone’s either trying to lose weight or gain weight or tone and we’re trying to do it FAST! That’s where Fad diets come in! This includes but not aren’t limited to: Master Cleanse, ACV Shots, Green Bean Pills, Ballerina Tea, etc. We discuss whether we’ve tried...

“I ain’t saying she a gold digger but she ain’t messin with no broke broke” (edited version we grew up on lol) ! It’s Social Media Week so of course we found a hot topic for y’all! There was a tweet made asking “What’s Makes a Girl a gold digger? Is it her fault men with money like her?” Which is an excellent question! Jame gives her definition of a gold digger and VJ of course plays devils advoca...

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time. With the world reopening, there weren’t too many crazy things on Social Media this week! (Well up until Porsha .... we’ll discuss that next week y’all) BUT we still found some interesting things to say the least! The first thing we want to do is say hi to all of o...

SHOOTER ALERT! This week Jame came with a shooter and as always it made us think! This is our Health and Wellness series and she asked our thoughts on plastic surgery. Well more specifically, hiding plastic surgery while being a fitness guru. We discuss whether we think it’s fair and what degree of honesty one should expect. You know us, so we traveled down the road of whether we would go under th...

We wanted to discuss something we haven’t really talked about before on here. Health and Wellness. It’s something that we talk about and think about often so we figured why not on the podcast! We’re discussing what being healthy means to us, where we are in our journey and where we want to be... one of us wants to be able to survive a zombie apocalypse lol. Along with these conversations, we will...

Shooter alert: This week is like a part 1.5 to this weeks episode! LOL We feature our guest Geva and we’re discussing her blog, Every Single Heart. We call it a 1.5 because this is something she developed when she moved away and grew while she was in Texas! Every Single Heart is what every woman needs to read. It’s about how although heartbreak and rejection can often be a  stumbling block to your...

This week on ✨A Sip and A Shot✨ we feature our friend Geva! A few years ago, she took the plunge and moved away from home! She moved from Maryland to the great state of Texas!! This episode she will tell us what it’s like to move out of state, the highs, the lows, and all that’s in between! You’ll also get some good memories from all of our visits there! Also, we’ll tell you if we would move out...

These last couple of weeks there has been a lot of discussions about Kevin Samuels. In fact, he’s been getting a lot of criticism from women. His opinions on attraction, his scale of beauty, and “deservance” of high value men. Through all of the negativity, we had to question: is he wrong? In this weeks Shooter, we discuss if he has a point or not. You may be surprised to our reaction! Cheers! A S...

We’re back with a PART 2!!! We had to finish this thing up!! Like we said before, Cheating has been a hot topic these last weeks. Between it happening in marriages/relationships and being the catalyst of ending some, cheating is something we had to discuss eventually. On this episode we dive into it more, we discuss the effects, and when to mind the business that pays YOU. Also, we dive into a lit...

Should your man pay for your friends? That was the question posed on this weeks shooter! This was also a question posed on social media we just had to comment on. There have always been opinions on what is required from significant others when it comes to friends: what’s too much, what’s allowed, what’s going to far, whether it’s money or not. Well we think it will always come down to is respect a...

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time. There’s been a lot of funny things on Social Media this week! With everyone getting ready for the summer, we had to discuss Hot Girl Summer and what it means to us! We also heard about the White Boy Summer and .......... just take a listen and you tell us! Jame fo...