A Sip and A Shot

Happy Valentine's Day! ASAAS Monday actually fell on Valentine's Day this year so if you thought you didn't have a date, YOU THOUGHT WRONG lol! We wanted this episode to be fun one so why not play "Truth or Drink - the Card Game" and use the 'Extra Dirty' deck! It is Valentine's day after all. This included questions like: "have you ever feared for your life while drinking?" (One of the fears incl...

Happy Black History Month! To celebrate, we wanted to talk about some unsung heros in our history and we had to do it the 'ASAAS' way which means we Sip while we share! First up, we talked about Lusia "Lucy" Harris, who is the 1st woman drafted into the NBA. Next up, we discussed Dr. Helen Jackson, a true unknown hero who chose to give up an astronaut candidacy to homeschool her children and help...

Let us start by saying: we pre-gamed for this episode. Take that into consideration. 'Circling the Block' we just learned, has many meanings, but for this episode we are discussing coming back to a person you were FORMALLY in a relationship, situation-ship, sneaky link, etc with. This conversation started with the question why do men, specifically, spin the block but we made sure to question the l...

January is Mental Wellness Awareness Month and we thought what better way to acknowledge AND bring awareness is by having our friend Jensy, who is a therapist, join us! Jensy, our Millennial Therapist, explained what exactly Mental Wellness is and how to not confuse it with Mental Health Awareness. Therapy, and/or getting professional help has been taboo in our community but is not only being disc...

Our first guest of the year was James Glendinning and he was the PERFECT start to a fantastic season! James is a beverage marketing representative in the DMV area that Jamie met and invited to the show! First, we had to talk about what that actually means and how he began his career in the industry. We also discussed how he launches different brands, what goes into the evaluation process and How m...

Episode 1: We’re Back Baby! The Sip: pumped up peach Bellini Sip 2: secret Santa Shot: fortune cookie 🥠 Season 3 is here! We are so excited to start this new year and season with you! To open the season, we had to start with what we've been up to during the 'by-week' (for all of our sports fans lol). This holiday season was very quiet and we discuss how this is most different we have celebrated a...

This is virtual episode well because COVID IS STILL HERE!!! We wanted to be safe but we also wanted to close out 2021 with you guys! What better way to do that with social media week! Before we jumped into our social media topics, we had to catch up on everything from Covid testing, to prep for today’s show, to Christmas movies that will be our respective New Years celebration. Let’s say VJ just m...

This is the last Christmasy episode of the year yall! So we had to pose this question: when do you bring your significant other around friends and family? Is it an either or? Is the holiday better or a summer cookout? How long do you have to be dating? Everyone has a different opinion, meaning there is no right answer. As Jame says: “you do what works for you” she said that also because we started...

This episode was destined to go off the rails but here we go lol. We start off with the art of sliding into ones DMs: have we done it, would we do it, the pros and cons and how to do it. The ‘how to’ brought us to pick up lines, what would work for men and women and what wouldn’t. We love having a male producer who gives the other side lol. Listen to some of our favorite pickup lines and some that...

It's our first LIVE show with Plugged In Radio Network so we had to give y'all a fun topic. No Face, No Case was as fun as it sounds! We discussed a few things: how no face no case started for us - from college parties and photographers LOL, what a man's version of NFNC is and how distinguishing marks play a big part (shout out to our producer!), and why do we want to hide the faces. Then we asked...

SHOOTER ALERT: if you want to hear 2 boujie black girls discuss whether or not they could be Prison baes, then this is the shooter for you lol. We saw a text message thread between a person going to jail tomorrow wanting to date some sweet woman on the outside and of course we had QUESTIONS! The first being which is worse: attempted offing or just plain offing? Well we went back and forth with tha...

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time! This week Social Media gave us a good balance of ALL 3 yall! We had to start with someone comparing America’s Next Top Model to Squid Games…. And you know what that got? A “Truuueee” lol! Then VJ takes us down a path of the bad boys love lol and some of the troubl...

“Don’t you know that ya toxic!?” We got another who’s the toxic one question for y’all! A guy finds out that the person he’s dating is moving across the country - tomorrow, and turns down good bye goodies …. So naturally he takes their ID lol. (You gotta love TikTok lol) Now of course we have questions, like what’s the reason he’s leaving, should he have shared sooner, but the main one is who’s ta...

SHOOTER ALERT: This question has been floating around Beyoncé’s internet so we had to ask: would you cheat on your spouse for $1 Billion?? Now, you would think there was an easy answer but of course there would be some questions lol. Would you tell your spouse about it? Will it mess up your marriage? Is it an equal opportunity? Does it have to be mutual decision? Is it cheating if your spouse know...

We were not gonna let this week go by without discussing to foolishness that occurred in the wee hours of Monday morning! We didn’t plan on it so figured out how to integrate it with some drunk history. We went up one side and down the other on da child who shall not be named but we also had to talk about some of mixed feelings that come with supporting a women who has not been easy to support. No...

SHOOTER ALERT: First off, as we know, being an asshole is true art form… especially a good one! This week we are questioning who is the asshole? A man asked a woman on a date to the movies, then fell asleep during the movie… and she left him there. Now of course we had questions – well Jame had questions, VJ created her own narrative haha. He asked who’s the asshole, him for falling asleep or her...

A Double standard is “a rule or principle which is unfairly applied in different ways to different people or groups.” This week we looked at some of the double standards between men and women… and we had some help lol. It started with physical preferences…. VJ is contemplating her height preference now because “there’s no bbl for knees” lol. Then we looked at the double standards financially (whic...

SHOOTER ALERT: We played a game of "Would You Rather?" and who doesn't like that right?! We had 2 questions - the first was "would you rather your camera roll leaked or the text messages?" and the second was "do you keep the winning lottery ticket of a deceased friend?". Now seems simple right? Well one us changed their mind at the end! What's yours? Cheers!

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time! Let’s start by saying we recorded this episode at 1am on a Tuesday/Wednesday night/morning… so govern yourselves accordingly lol! We started the episode with a “Bish Whet”and it went downhill from there! Trying to figure out reasons why you tossed something out of...

SHOOTER ALERT: How much compromise is too much compromise? This week we saw a tweet saying "A person would be willing to give u social media for a happy & healthy relationship." Which made us questions: is your relationship really that healthy and happy if you have to give up something like social media? With age, we know compromise can be one of two things, one of them being control. At 30...that...

SHOOTER ALERT: Raise your hand if you like massages? Good massages… not the 15 min for $15 massages you can get at the mall, but the spa ones that take relaxation to another level. Now, couple that with the hidden benefit of improving your self-confidence – sounds like a win-win! In conversing with some male friends, we discussed a professional massage therapist they discovered on IG and how his ‘...

SHOOTER ALERT: Raise your hand if you like massages? Good massages… not the 15 min for $15 massages you can get at the mall, but the spa ones that take relaxation to another level. Now, couple that with the hidden benefit of improving your self-confidence – sounds like a win-win! In conversing with some male friends, we discussed a professional massage therapist they discovered on IG and how his ‘...

Oxford Dictionary defines a 'red flag' as a symbol or actual flag used as a warning of danger... little things that need to be noticed because they can turn into big things. These last couple of weeks, we have seen so many posts regarding red flags, whether it's within a romantic relationship, professional relationship, familial relationships, friendship, and/or personal growth for self. Now we ha...

SHOOTER ALERT: There's one question we never thought we would contemplate when it coming to bringing a new life into the world! That question is: Is the woman birthing the baby a requirement at a baby shower? This week we saw a Facebook post of a motherless baby shower. The fathers mother, or soon-to-be-grandmother, hosted a baby shower only for her son...sans the mother. One of us chose a narrati...

The was a rendition of a social media week because we found some wild stories on Beyoncé’s internet this week! Between some interesting AITA, IRL, WWYD stories, and some IRL spooky stories - it was kinda fun lol! Jame found haunted stories that happened right in our backyard. Like insane asylum and the Goatman story that happened around the corner … so we thought! VJ found some Reddit stories like...