Dani Sumner | Christian Life Coach, Spiritual Director, Spiritual Transformation Coach

A HOLY MESS | Nervous System, Somatic, Regret, Exhausted, Burnout, Boundaries, Emotional Healing, Christian Mindset, Recovery

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Do you ever feel stuck, emotionally drained, or like you’re constantly striving but never “enough”? You’re in the right place! Welcome to A HOLY MESS Podcast (ranked in the top 1% globally🎉), a podcast designed for you if you’re ready to break free and heal from self-doubt, burnout, and overgiving—so you can step into confidence, peace, God’s grace and purpose with clarity. Each week, I share biblical wisdom, mindset shifts, and real conversations to help you:✨ Overcome self-doubt and fear with faith-based confidence.✨ Let go of striving and perfectionism and embrace God’s grace.✨ Set heal...

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Dani Sumner | Christian Life Coach, Spiritual Director, Spiritual Transformation Coach

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Latest episode

Jul 11, 2026

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85. Hard Seasons Can Lead To Our Most Meaningful Transformations & Can Help Us Find Hope, Friendship, Peace & Purpose. Quotes by Brennan Manning & A Verse On Comfort 08.04.2023

Hi friend! True transformation in our life can come at a high price, but it's oh so worth it!  Happy Easter! I hope this short episode blesses you.  If you're interested in finding a deep, meaningful community and encountering more peace and breakthrough in your life, I'd love to have you join me for six weeks in the next round of The Feel Better Journey! Jump on the waitlist here:  https://www.da...

84. Divine Appointments. Caring For And Loving Yourself IS Encouraged, And Biblical 05.04.2023

Hi friend! We all know how difficult it is to care for ourselves at times. But it's such an important practice. And it's biblical. Yay for awesome biblical mandates! I share a quick story and some encouragement today that I found in an old card.  I hope this short episode blesses you. Here's a link to the book I mentioned A New Kind Of Normal by Carol Kent So much love, Dani   Want to hang out wee...

83. Sideswiped By Life. ’Do The Next Right Thing’ & Learning To Self Regulate Hard Or Difficult Emotions 28.03.2023

Hi friends! In today's episode, I talk about learning to "self-regulate" and learning to care for ourselves even when life hits us hard or our emotions seem to control us.  You're not alone if you are a sensitive person! Join the club! ;) I'm learning to find the gift of my emotions and how to care for myself even when they seem overwhelming.  The book I mentioned today: A New Kind Of Normal by Ca...

82. Struggling w/ Limiting Beliefs? Or A Harsh Voice Or Negative Self Talk? Need Help Figuring Out If Those Thoughts Are Even True Or How To Quiet Them A Bit? 3 Quick Tips To Help Find Clarity! 22.03.2023

Hi friends!  Do you struggle with 'limiting beliefs' or a harsh narrative in your head? Haha, I know, I know, who doesn't? But for soooo long in my life, I believed and took to heart every little and big thing I thought. And frankly, my inner critic was so fierce and hurtful towards me that I'd like to call her a bad word, but I won't. For the last several years, I've been working on having a bett...

81. Finding Grace For Our Lives And Learning To Live Well w/ Both The Joy & Sorrow Going On In Life. 15.03.2023

Hi friends!  I hope this short episode blesses you. No matter where you find yourself today and what parts of life are wearing you down—hang in there; you are not alone! Also, interested in jumping into the next round of The Feel Better Journey?! Are you longing to feel better and have a deeper grip on God's grace? Or do you need to make peace with yourself but don't know how?  If you're harder on...

80. Thoughts & Ideas To Help When Dealing With Intrusive Thoughts Or Memories That Burden You. 3 Easy Steps That Can Help Ease The Burden At Times 11.03.2023

Hi friends!  Do you ever struggle with intrusive thoughts? In today's episode, I share three easy steps that can help ease the load. It's not a magic button, but it really can help.  Remember, you are not alone!  Also, if this Podcast has been a blessing or helped you—Would you mind taking 2 minutes to leave a written review for the show? My amazing Podcast coach says that helps us so much with th...

79. Short Update! & Some Quick Encouragement 10.03.2023

Hi friends!  I just gave a quick update on the podcast and life in today's episode!  I'm so grateful for this community.🤗 I hope these episodes encourage you and bring some light into any darkness you may be wrestling through, and the Lord knows we all have our struggles.  We honestly can't fight our 'demons' alone, and I hope this podcast empowers and encourages you on your journey.  I mentioned...

78. Finding Emotional & Spiritual Healing On The Journey. Quick Story From Luke 17 Encouraging & Empowering Us In Our Faith. 21.02.2023

Hi friends!  Enjoy this short encouraging episode from one of my favorite stories in the Bible from Luke 17. I hope it encourages you!  🎉 Also, last call for The Feel Better Journey program—doors close Wednesday, 2/22 at 10am (EST). I'd love for you to join us!  Sign up here:  https://www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney Have a great week, and talk soon! Much love, Dani  🎉 Last call for The F...

77. Thoughts On How To Experience More Grace. And Radical Acceptance. How Sadness Can Be The Doorway To Joy & Shame Can Be The Pathway To Experiencing Grace. Conversation w/ Jim Beebe 14.02.2023

Welcome back! This is part 2 of a 2-part episode—so if you didn't listen to episode 76 with Therapist Jim Beebe—please pause this episode jump onto episode 76 first, and THEN come back to this one.  "Maybe the shadow of sadness is joy, and the shadow of shame is grace."--Jim Beebe.  Today, Jim dives into concepts like radical acceptance and how to become more grace-based with ourselves. If you are...

76. Struggling w/ Negative Self-Talk Or Negative Thoughts? Or Are You Harsh Or Hard On Yourself Because It’s So Difficult To Change? Conversation w/ Therapist Jim Beebe - More On Acceptance & Grace. 13.02.2023

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hello, my friends! Today's episode is ONE of my favorites EVER! It's with Therapist Jim Beebe—and if you've been around the Podcast for a bit, you know Jim is one of our favorite guests and one of my favorite humans on the planet!  Jim has been a therapist for 40 year...

75. Don’t Repent For Being Human. Is Depression, Anxiety, Fear, Sadness, Or Anger Sin? Umm, No. My Rant On Toxic Beliefs In Some Christian Circles & The Harm It’s Causing All Of Us. 11.02.2023

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hello, my friend!  Have you been affected by toxic beliefs within some Christian circles? I know we all probably have at some point or another. I hope this episode encourages you.  This episode was prompted by a conversation I had with my son Zac. Someone mentioned to...

74. Want To Feel Less Alone & Find Confirmation YOU Are On The Right Path? Listen to This Honest & Real Conversation w/ Kim Luna & Carol Smithbeck, As They Share Their Journey. You Will Be Encouraged! 09.02.2023

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hello, my friend!  If you love honest and real humans, you will love today's episode and be encouraged so much by 2 of our very own! Carol Smithbeck and Kim Luna recently went through my new program, The Feel Better Journey. Today they share their experience, and I lo...

73. Powerful Conversation w/ Therapist Jim Beebe. We’re All In This Together! Feeling Discouraged & Ready To Feel Better? 3 Tips To Help Find More Peace & Spiritual Practices 04.02.2023

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hello, my friend!  *On the fence or have more questions about The Feel Better Journey ? Or want to know if it's the right season for you to jump into the program when it launches again at the end of February? Let's connect for a few mins on the phone to chat through i...

72. Feeling Stuck? Or Wrestling Through Not Feeling Good Enough, Even Though You’re Doing All The ‘Things’ To Connect w/ Christ. Listen To Dr. Erica Garcia Thomas’ Story! You Are Not Alone 01.02.2023

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 What's up, my friend?! Hello! Ok, I'm so excited to introduce you all to Dr. Erica Garcia Thomas today! She is truly a miracle—she's been through hell and back and has such a great perspective on life and her process—she's so refreshing. You will love her. AND she's o...

71. Encouragement To Keep Pursuing Wholeness & 1 Tip—How Not Receive Harsh Words From Others. Laughter Is Also The Best Medicine! 28.01.2023

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hi friend! I share a funny story in today's episode that I hope encourages you! And I share one tip that has enormously helped me over the years: how not to receive harsh words when said to you. I hope it helps you!  Song mentioned: "Damn It Feels Good To Be Me" by An...

70. Power Of Community & Real Friendship. It’s Difficult To Be Vulnerable In Relationships, Especially When You’re Lonely, Or You’ve Been Betrayed Or Hurt. Hang In There! Quote- Bob Goff & Hebrews 11 11.01.2023

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hello my friend! Holy moly, can a lack of deep relationships burden our hearts and minds, especially when we long for deep friendships.  In today's episode, I talk about the power of and our desire for deep relationships that we all long for. Yet, so many of us strugg...

69. QUICK ENCOURAGEMENT. The Power Of Visualization. And Finding Hope. 05.01.2023

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hello, my friend! Quick encouragement episodes are back, and I hope they encourage you! In today's episode, I share a quick story and walk you through a quick visualization meditation as well. I hope it helps you!  Quotes of the week:  “The meaning of our lives emerge...

68. Encouragement For Your New Year. Embracing Grace & Acceptance For 2023, Together! Finding Peace w/ Your Word Of The Year, Intention Or Resolution. Blessing & Prayer, Ephesians 3:16-21 01.01.2023

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Happy New Year, friend! I'm praying for you and your 2023. Good things ahead!  I hope today’s episode blesses and encourages you!  Verses mentioned: Ephesians 3:16-21 Song mentioned:  “Keeping Your Head Up” by Birdy. // iTunes // Spotify // YouTube (Fyi, the YouTube l...

67. Helpful Healing Strategies From Trauma, Difficult Situations & Hard Moments Of Grief Or Loss. And A Short Meditation Practice & Powerful Conversation w/ Therapist Ron Huxley 22.12.2022

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hi friends!  I'm so grateful that Therapist Ron Huxley is back on the show with us today! If you missed Episode 52 with him, check it out!  Ron’s an amazing human dedicated to helping people—he’s been a Therapist for over 30 years and a follower of Jesus. I am so grat...

66. Part 2. Finding Grace For Ourselves & Others. A Few Practical Helpful Tips. Also, The Gift Of Loneliness. Yes, It Sounds Odd! Spiritual Growth & Faith. Conversation w/ Therapist Jim Beebe 24.11.2022

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hi friend, Happy Thanksgiving! I am so THANKFUL to each of YOU!  Today is part 2 of my conversation with Therapist Jim Beebe. He has over 40 years of wisdom and experience working with people and is full of compassion and grace.   We touched on so many subjects. Subje...

65. Part 1. Holiday Triggers // Managing Expectations & Emotions w/ Difficult Relationships & Having The Right Mindset For Family Time. Conversation w/ Therapist Jim Beebe 24.11.2022

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hi friend, Happy Thanksgiving! I'm thankful for YOU! I want to reach through this episode and hug you!  Therapist Jim Beebe is back today—I'm so grateful for the fantastic insight and wisdom he freely shares with us!  In today's episode, we talk briefly about the lone...

64. 1 Tip To Managing Stress Leading Up To The Holidays 21.11.2022

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hi friend! This episode initially was "3 Tips To Managing Stress Leading Up To The Holidays". However, after meeting with some friends a few days ago and hearing them deal with the 'Holiday funk,' I decided to keep it simple and change it to one tip! It's too importan...

63. 12 Years Sober! Hope & Encouragement For Anyone Struggling Through A Difficult Season. A Bit About My Sobriety Journey, And So Much Gratitude For Christian Recovery 13.11.2022

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hi friend,  In today’s episode, I share my gratitude and heart for my 12-year sobriety journey. I’m so grateful for you all, and I love being on this journey with you! Mentions: In AA, there’s a phrase that I love— “Don’t quit before the miracle happens,” — so, whatev...

62. How To Feel Empowered w/ Hard Things Going On. Topics: Acceptance // Finding Grace & Learning Boundaries // Finding Peace w/ The Struggle Of Anxiety Or People Pleasing. GUEST: Therapist Jim Beebe 22.10.2022

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hi friend! Today's episode is a conversation with my Therapist Jim Beebe! He is back today, sharing more about acceptance and finding Grace for ourselves to live our life. Finding Grace for ourselves and our life is such a process. But a process worth pursuing!  Menti...

61. Conversation w/ Therapist Jim Beebe - Ever Ask Yourself, ”Do I Need Therapy?” // How To Find A Good Therapist, What To Expect In Therapy, & What To Be Aware Of. You Know More Than You Think 19.10.2022

☎️ Holy Shift! Ready for one?! Book a call with Dani to explore if one-on-one coaching is right for you! Click here to schedule! 📆 Hi friend! I'm so excited for today's episode--it's with my AMAZING Therapist Jim Beebe. If you've ever asked yourself, "Do I need therapy?" -- I hope this episode encourages you and helps you figure your next steps out with Therapy, AND/OR gives you much peace you're...

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