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Lily is joined by her little sister, Lexie for a very special conversation reminiscing on their time working at an iconic downtown Annapolis spot. The girls chat about the good, the bad, and the ugly of working in the hospitality industry, share tips for new servers, and laugh about all the memories they made together through the years. Connect with 80/20 on Instagram https://instagram.com/8020pod...

Your body is a temple, fearfully and wonderfully made. But sometimes, it’s hard to believe that. What happens when your main focus becomes all the things you wish you could change about yourself? In this episode, Lily dives into the concept of "your insecurities are not your identity", and explains how to shift the focus, initiate healing, and cultivate a self-love mindset.  Connect with 80/20 on...

nothing good ever comes rushed, and your fall morning routine is no exception to this rule. in today’s episode, Lily discusses the importance of having both “autopilot” and “slow” morning routines, and when to use both. starting the day slow is super important, because there is great value in stillness.  Connect with 80/20 on Instagram https://instagram.com/8020pod Connect with Lily https://instag...

happiness for breakfast, lunch, and dinner babyyyy! in this episode, Lily explains the "dopamine menu" trend and why creating one is actually a good idea (especially for busy people)! by streamlining your favorite tasks, you can make happiness more easily accessible. Lily also discusses the true source of joy, and how to keep your mood from swinging in response to the menu. Connect with 80/20 on I...

is it okay to change your mind? in this episode, Lily discusses a few reasons why it's normal to change your mind (specifically as a twentysomething), and how to respond to outside voices or bad advice that target your decision making. Connect with 80/20 on Instagram https://instagram.com/8020pod Connect with Lily https://instagram.com/lilyrakow For Press & Advertisement Inquires Contact: hell...

challenging relationships are oftentimes mislabeled as "toxic" simply because they are tough to deal with. in this episode, Lily evaluates the differences between difficult versus toxic relationships, and shares insight on when to stay involved and when to leave the situation. Listen to the sermon mentioned about toxic relationships Connect with 80/20 on Instagram For Press & Advertisement Inq...

Lily is back on the mic after taking an impromptu break for the month of August. In this episode, she shares where her head is at, why she deactivated her instagram account, and the future direction of the podcast. Connect with 80/20 Submit to the 80/20  Advice Column For Press & Advertisement Inquires Contact: hello@lilyrakow.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

advice i'd give my younger self (part 2)! listen to last week's epi here Connect with 80/20 on Instagram Connect with Lily Submit to the Advice Column here For Press & Advertisement Inquires Contact: hello@lilyrakow.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

a few things I'd tell my younger self. Connect with 80/20 on Instagram Connect with Lily Submit to the Advice Column https://forms.gle/L486EGDeX34CEVqX8 Visit Lily’s Website Visit 80/20 Website For Press & Advertisement Inquires Contact: hello@lilyrakow.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is it okay for your goals to change? Is it okay to NOT have a goal at all? Connect with 80/20 on Instagram Connect with Lily on Instagram Submit to the 80/20 Advice Column https://forms.gle/L486EGDeX34CEVqX8 Visit Lily’s Website Visit 80/20 Website For Press & Advertisement Inquires Contact: hello@lilyrakow.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What's the real story behind the photo? Was it the moment more fun in real life? In this episode, Lily reflects on some of her most (and a few of the least) fun memories, and introduces the idea that fun side effect of kindness, joy, and gratitude. Connect with 80/20 on Instagram Connect with Lily Visit Lily’s Website Visit 80/20 Website Submit To 80/20  Advice Column https://forms.gle/L486EGDeX34...

What does it really mean to actually choose joy? How does this practice impact my daily life? Connect with 80/20 on Instagram Connect with Lily Submit To the  Advice Column Visit Lily’s Website Visit 80/20 Website For Press & Advertisement Inquires Contact: hello@lilyrakow.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When you're little, it's easy to dream big. Let's get back into that mindset, okay? Connect with 80/20 on Instagram Submit To 80/20  Advice Column https://forms.gle/L486EGDeX34CEVqX8 Visit Lily’s Website Visit 80/20 Website For Press & Advertisement Inquires Contact: hello@lilyrakow.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did you know that the average mind has about 60,000 thoughts per day? How could anyone possibly differentiate between where those ideas come from? In this episode, Lily discusses how intrusive thoughts can alter our perspective on life, and how to listen for God's voice instead of intrusive, negative thoughts. Listen to Allow Me To Introduce Myself Connect with 80/20 Connect with Lily Visit Lily’s...

After facing years of body image issues and working out for the wrong reasons, Lily reimagined the foundational components of her fitness routine from a faith-based perspective. In this episode, Lily explains a step-by-step formula for a embarking on a healthy and sustainable fitness journey. The conversation opens with an important reflection on spiritual fitness, how to equip yourself with God's...

It's not goodbye... in this episode, Lily discusses what it means to feel bittersweet during a season of change, and how you can support yourself (and your friends) during the post-grad blues. Connect with 80/20 on Instagram Visit 80/20 Website https://8020pod.com Submit To 80/20  Advice Column The Best Dating Advice I’ve Ever Received One Thing I Wish I Knew In My Twenties For Press & Adverti...

It's not really about the food. In today's episode, Lily discusses the real reason why disordered eating habits begin and how she overcame her food obsessed. She covers topics like body image struggles, anxiety, extreme stress, and more. She also announces an exciting fitness + faith event she is hosting, and shares a few life updates. This episode is brought to you by Funk It Wellness. Start your...

It's time to stop feeling numb. In this episode, Lily discusses the signs and symptoms of emotional numbness, and how to add little moments of feeling and joy back into your life. Per usual, she drops tangible advice and a few journal prompts to help you work through feeling numb and release emotional blockage. Lily also spends time recapping her 24th birthday, as well as processing through a bit...

Cake and candles! In this episode, Lily shares 24 things she learned before turning 24. This list ranges from funny hot takes to big life lessons, and everything in between. Listen to the That Girl to This Woman series Try a sample class at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition or use code LILIANRAKOW20 for $$$ off your program investment. Connect with Lily Follow 80/20 on TikTok Follow 80/20 on...

We're long overdue for a chatty life update! In this vulnerable episode, Lily sits down to share a few major changes in her life, including what her newest focus is, if she is dating anyone, why she is taking a social media break, and so much more! This episode is brought to you by Funk It Wellness . Start your hormone healing journey and get 15% off Funk It Wellness with code 8020. Connect with L...

The more you know, the less you know. In this episode, Lily chats about the importance of being coachable, and walks you through a few simple ways to fine tune this skill as a twenty-something. In this final episode of the "THAT GIRL to THIS WOMAN" series, Lily stresses the importance of receiving feedback gracefully, active listening, and how to check your ego at the door. Lily also spends time i...

Self awareness means deeply understanding your beliefs, values, strength, weaknesses, and motivations. You become more grounded, confident, and honest with yourself. Much like a muscle, it strengthens the more you use it. In this episode, Lily walks you through three key components of self awareness and shares a few ways to practice it everyday.  This episode is brought to you by Funk It Wellness....

"The less I focus on ME, the healthier I become". Spring is all about new beginnings and transformations, which means it's the perfect time to re-evaluate your goals and do things differently. Lily outlines a few key areas to focus on as the season change, including how to shift a goal-oriented mindset to a purpose-driven mindset, micro-changes to make around the house, and her "Ins and Outs" for...

Do you find it hard to say no? Would you consider yourself a people pleaser? Does confrontation stress you out? We’ve all been there. Having a firm commitment to your values and sticking up for yourself is a learned skill. In this episode, Lily chats with her little sister, Lexie, about why having a backbone is important and how to strengthen yours. The gals discuss how set and uphold your boundar...

"Let me go to the gym because I CAN... it was a mindset shift of doing things FOR my body, not TO my body" - Olivia Eve, host of For You From Eve, joins Lily on the mic for a conversation about THIS WOMAN self acceptance habits, the truth behind hosting your own podcast, faith in your 20's (and what it’s really like to share about it online), creating workouts that actually work for your body, and...