Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert

3AM Reset : Intimacy After Porn

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The 3AM Reset Podcast is your guide to permanently overcoming porn addiction. Hosted by Elisha Kolade, who fought this battle for over 13 years, this show fuses Christian wisdom, neuroscience, and coaching to reveal how your brain gets hijacked and how to reclaim control. Each episode delivers practical steps to break free from compulsive behaviors and rewire your mind for success in work, relationships, and life. With over 200 episodes, discover actionable strategies to become your best self. Join the journey to lasting recovery.

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Author

Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert

Category

Religion

Podcast website

unfilteredbedroom.com

Latest episode

May 18, 2025

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Episodes

72 - Why Are You Bored With Life ? 16.04.2024

Are you feeling stuck in a rut, uninspired, or simply bored with life? Join us for a candid conversation on "Why Are You Bored With Life ?" where we explore the underlying reasons behind feeling disconnected and unfulfilled Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

71 - 5 Goals You Must Set For Yourself Before Embarking on Recovery 15.04.2024

Embarking on the journey of recovery from pornography addiction is a courageous step towards a healthier, more fulfilling life. But before you take that leap, it's crucial to set yourself up for success by establishing clear goals. Join us for a deep dive into the 5 most important objectives you must set for yourself before beginning your recovery journey Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for...

70 - Self Forgiveness 15.04.2024

Join us for an enlightening discussion. Where we delve into the transformative power of self-forgiveness in the journey towards recovery from pornography. In this episode, we explore how the inability to forgive oneself can hinder progress and perpetuate cycles of shame and guilt. Through heartfelt conversations, we shed light on the profound impact of self-compassion and acceptance in overcoming...

69 - The Dark Side of Recovery 14.04.2024

The Other Side of ," a pivotal episode that explores the often-overlooked consequences of over-conditioning the mind during recovery from pornography addiction. Join us as we delve into the delicate balance between pursuing sobriety and maintaining healthy sexual intimacy. In this candid conversation, we shine a light on the pitfalls of extremism in recovery efforts, drawing from personal experien...

68 - The Wandering Vs The Focused Mind 14.04.2024

In this episode, we unpack the dynamics of the wandering mind and its implications for men navigating the challenges of pornography addiction and beyond. We delve into the science behind cognitive control and discuss practical strategies for reclaiming agency over our thoughts and actions Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

67 - Taking advantage of Flatline During Your Recovery 13.04.2024

Whether you're experiencing flatline for the first time or seeking strategies to make the most of this phase, this podcast offers valuable insights and encouragement to help you navigate your journey with confidence and resilience Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

66 - The Journey Vs The Destination 13.04.2024

The Journey Vs The Destination, we explore the delicate balance between focusing on long-term goals and embracing the daily journey towards personal growth and success. In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the importance of prioritizing daily tasks and activities as the foundation for building strong skills and character Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

65 - Deprive The Urge , Feed Your Future 12.04.2024

we delve into the powerful strategy of depriving the body of explicit content to quell the insatiable urge for pornography. Join us as we explore the profound impact of consciously avoiding triggers and stimuli that fuels your body for . Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

64 - Indecision Is Stealing Your Recovery 12.04.2024

Indecision Is Stealing Your Recovery," a thought-provoking episode that delves deep into the barriers preventing your path to recovery and healing. Join me as we unravel the complexities of indecision and its detrimental impact on your journey towards recover Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

63 - Celebrate You 11.04.2024

In each episode, we delve into the intricacies of self-celebration and its profound impact on maintaining momentum and motivation during recovery. Through insightful conversations and practical tips, we uncover strategies to cultivate a culture of self-compassion, resilience, and growth. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

62 - The Reasons Why I quit Viewing Porn 11.04.2024

Embark on a deeply personal voyage with me in "My Journey: Breaking Free from Pornography." In this candid podcast series, I courageously unveil my struggles, triumphs, and revelations in overcoming the formidable grasp of pornography addiction Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

61 - How to Woo Your Wife Again After Quitting 10.04.2024

You've done the hard work of getting out of your life. But how do you revive the intimacy, romance and passionate connection with your wife? This practical episode provides a roadmap for winning back her heart. Learn steps for rebuilding trust through transparency and attunement. Rediscover shared love languages. Reignite the spark by injecting more fun, novelty and intentional gestures into your...

60 - Pornography Trap : How To Avoid It 09.04.2024

Dissect how the culture's normalization of undressing women with one's eyes catalyzes the desensitization and scoring mentality at the heart of addiction. Discover alternative masculinities and connection-based paradigms for finding true fulfilment.

59 - Setting Boundaries When Your Partner Is Struggling With 08.04.2024

Discovering your partner's struggle can shatter trust and intimacy. This episode guides you through establishing boundaries that honour your needs while supporting your loved one's recovery. Learn how to compassionately yet firmly define your boundaries around kept secrets, device use, and unacceptable behaviours. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

58 - The Stress Trap : Escaping False Promises 07.04.2024

Feeling overwhelmed and turning to for an escape? This episode exposes how that coping mechanism is a dead-end trap of false promises. Discover the vicious cycle of using pornography as a temporary salve for stress and anxiety, only to get stuck in shame that feeds more compulsive use. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

57 - My Wife Caught Me Watching 06.04.2024

Every addict's nightmare - getting caught by their spouse. This raw episode tackles that traumatic experience and how to navigate the devastation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

56 - Why You Should Eliminate Toxic People from Your Life 05.04.2024

Purge energy vampires, chronic complainers and unsupportive associates who undermine your confidence and values. Reset your circle to cultivate healthier connections that uplift you. Eliminate toxic forces and watch how your life's garden can finally thrive. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

55 - Should I Delete My Social Media Account ? 04.04.2024

Social media can be a toxic time-suck or a valuable connection tool. This thought-provoking episode examines both sides of deactivating your accounts. Unpack the potential benefits like reclaiming time, increasing focus and productivity, and avoiding triggers and unhealthy comparisons Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

54 - Unveiling the Mask of Intimacy : What Taught Me In 14 Years 03.04.2024

Join us on a deeply personal expedition as we delve into one man's eighteen-year recovery odyssey. Uncover the startling impact of pornography on the ability to forge true intimacy with your partner. In this raw and revealing episode, we'll explore how the industry's facade can mask the essence of genuine connection. Listen in to discover the telling lessons learned, and embark on a journey of sel...

53 - A Guide to Unstoppable Recovery 02.04.2024

Prepare to embark on a remarkable odyssey, an expedition into the realm of unwavering commitment. This episode serves as your ultimate companion for an unstoppable recovery journey. We'll unravel the mysteries of commitment and disclose its pivotal role in your advancement.   When motivation wanes, commitment becomes the unwavering force that keeps you on track. Join us to explore the mindset twea...

52 - How To Breaking Free From Victim Mindset 01.04.2024

Are you ready to challenge your mindset and take charge of your destiny? This episode uncovers the subtle yet powerful differences between owning your recovery and adopting a victim mindset. We'll guide you through the ownership paradigm, showing you how to break free from the traps of self-pity and external blame. Embrace the notion that true empowerment begins within. This transformative journey...

51 - Uncovering Your True Self in Recovery 31.03.2024

Are you ready to embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery? This podcast episode delves deep into the heart of your recovery from addiction. It's not just about kicking a habit; it's about finding your authentic self beyond the addiction. Join us to explore the layers that have been holding you back and discover the real you. We'll guide you through the process of uncovering your passio...

50 - Jesus Is Interested In Your Recovery Over Pornography ? 30.03.2024

In this profound episode, we explore the idea that Jesus Christ, the embodiment of love and compassion, has a deep interest in your recovery from addiction. We'll delve into biblical teachings and real-life accounts of individuals who found solace in their faith. Discover how a relationship with Jesus can provide the strength and purpose to overcome this challenge. Explore the concept of recovery...

49 -You Need A Plan For Recovery: Navigating Addiction’s Grip 29.03.2024

Have you found yourself struggling to break free from addiction? Many who embark on the journey to recovery quickly realize that it's not enough to simply want change. This episode is a stark reminder of the importance of a well-thought-out plan for your recovery. Join us as we delve into the lives of individuals who have successfully navigated the murky waters of addiction. Discover the significa...

48 - The Secret Erection Killer 28.03.2024

In this episode, we explore the dark underbelly of the adult entertainment industry, delving into its impact on our lives. We'll uncover the secrets behind pornography's role in erectile dysfunction and the paradoxical effects it has on our bodies, leading to delayed or premature ejaculation. This informative episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the unseen damage pornography can cause

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