Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert
3AM Reset : Intimacy After Porn
The 3AM Reset Podcast is your guide to permanently overcoming porn addiction. Hosted by Elisha Kolade, who fought this battle for over 13 years, this show fuses Christian wisdom, neuroscience, and coaching to reveal how your brain gets hijacked and how to reclaim control. Each episode delivers practical steps to break free from compulsive behaviors and rewire your mind for success in work, relationships, and life. With over 200 episodes, discover actionable strategies to become your best self. Join the journey to lasting recovery.
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Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert
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May 18, 2025
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Episodes
147 - No. 1 Way To Bounce Back From Slip Up 16.06.2024 11:29
We've all been there - a moment of weakness, a lapse in judgment, a slip up that leaves us feeling defeated. But the true test lies in how we bounce back. In this empowering episode, we delve into the ultimate strategy for turning setbacks into comebacks. From reframing your mindset to actionable steps, you'll learn the secrets to resilience and rediscovering your path to success. Get ready to con...
146 - Affirmations: The Secret Weapon for Reprogramming Your Life 15.06.2024 11:08
Unlock the transformative power of affirmations in this groundbreaking podcast. Discover how these simple yet potent statements can reprogram your mindset, rewire your beliefs, and propel you towards profound personal growth. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
145 - The Taboo Talk: Masturbation and the Creator’s Perspective 14.06.2024 12:57
Join us for an insightful and thought-provoking exploration into one of the most taboo topics in faith-based communities. In this episode, we delve into the often-avoided subject of masturbation through the lens of biblical teachings and divine design. Gain a deeper understanding of varying perspectives, challenge preconceived notions, and uncover profound truths about human sexuality and intimacy...
144 - Breaking Free with a Pen: The Transformative Role of Journaling in Your Pornography Recovery Journey 13.06.2024 10:19
Discover the healing power of putting pen to paper in this revealing episode. We delve into the transformative role that journaling can play in your journey to overcome pornography addiction. From processing emotions to reframing negative thought patterns, learn how this simple practice can become a potent tool for self-discovery, accountability, and lasting change. Gain insights into effective jo...
143 - Chaos, Be Gone: 5 Transformative Steps to Unleash Clarity and Embrace Recovery 12.06.2024 10:38
In this life-changing episode, we unlock the secrets to banishing chaos and embracing a life of clarity and recovery. Discover five powerful steps that will transform your mindset, empower you to take control, and unleash an unwavering sense of purpose. From cultivating self-awareness to implementing practical strategies, you'll gain the tools to conquer overwhelming circumstances and pave the way...
142 - Unleash Your Voice: 3 Powerful Reasons Why Speaking Up Matters 11.06.2024 11:57
In this empowering episode, we explore the transformative power of finding your voice and speaking up. Discover three compelling reasons why breaking the silence can revolutionize your life. From cultivating self-confidence to driving positive change, learn how unleashing your authentic voice can unlock new possibilities and create a lasting impact. Gain the courage to be heard and make your mark...
141 - Old Man Out: Resurrecting Your Best Self 10.06.2024 10:29
You're not the man you want to be - the old you is holding you back. It's time to resurrect your best self by burying the insecure, reactive 'old man' weighing you down. In this episode, I guide you through confronting your past conditioning to demolish fears, narratives and habits stunting your growth. We'll purge the self-limiting beliefs, ditch the self-sabotaging behaviors and reclaim your tru...
140 - Cracking the Code: The Step-by-Step Guide to Loving Yourself 09.06.2024 12:34
Learning to truly love yourself is one of the most important yet difficult journeys you can undertake as a man. For too long, we've been taught to neglect and reject the parts of ourselves that deserve compassion. In this episode, I break down the step-by-step process for developing unconditional self-love - no matter your past, upbringing or current struggles. Through raw vulnerability, I'll shar...
139 - When Dad Wasn’t There: Confronting the Abandoned Child Within 08.06.2024 12:36
I grew up craving my dad's love that never came. That void left me with an abandoned child inside, carrying wounds of rejection. This episode explores my journey of confronting that inner child, healing the father's wound, and becoming the man I needed. Through this process, I stopped seeking what I'd never get and found self-love instead. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more informatio...
138 - What I Wish I Knew In My 30s 07.06.2024 13:50
Every decision we make, every path we choose, has consequences that ripple through our lives. In this thought-provoking episode, I reflect on the lessons learned during my formative 20s and how those experiences have shaped my 30s. From navigating the highs and lows of early adulthood to grappling with the realities of personal growth and self-discovery, this episode offers a candid exploration of...
137 - How to Hack Your Brain: From Pessimist to Optimist 06.06.2024 10:50
In a world that often feels like a roller coaster of doom scrolling and bad news, is it possible to rewire your brain from "everything is awful" to "opportunity is everywhere"? Absolutely! Welcome to "How to Hack Your Brain," where we're not just talking about positive thinking—we're giving you the cheat codes to reset your mental operating system. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more i...
136 - Break Free: Using Repetition to Transform Your Recovery Journey 05.06.2024 12:02
Break Free: Using Repetition to Transform Your Recovery JourneyIn this episode, I dive into the transformative power of repetition in overcoming addiction. Join me as I share personal insights and practical tips on how to harness repetition to develop and cultivate the essential skills needed to stay free. We'll explore how consistent, intentional actions can pave the way to lasting recovery and h...
135 - From ’I Do’ to ’Oh My!’: Surprises Every Newlywed Faces 04.06.2024 10:40
Forget the fairy tales—this raw, unfiltered episode yanks back the bedroom curtains on real newlywed life. As a couple with our own sexual histories, we thought we had it all figured out. Boy, were we wrong? From mismatched libidos to performance pressures, from resurfacing past traumas to awkward toy discussions, our honeymoon phase had more "um...what?" moments than "oh yes!" Hosted on Acast. Se...
134 - From Pixels to Progress: Celebrating Each -Free Step 03.06.2024 11:50
In the fight against , it's easy to fixate on a distant end goal—that moment you'll finally declare total victory. But here's a revolutionary idea: what if the real triumph isn't just at the finish line, but in every single step along the way? In this perspective-shifting episode, we're zooming in on the power of celebrating your daily wins over .Did you scroll past a triggering image this morning...
133 - How to Keep Your Recovery on Rails: Avoiding ’s Traps 02.06.2024 11:22
Embarking on the journey to overcome addiction is a courageous step, but the path isn't always smooth. Like a train navigating through challenging terrain, your recovery can face unexpected turns, steep grades, and hidden dangers that threaten to derail your progress. In this essential episode, we equip you with the tools and insights needed to keep your recovery firmly on track Hosted on Acast. S...
132 - The Long Haul: Understanding the Real Path to Recovery 01.06.2024 13:00
Discover why quick fixes don't work in the journey to overcome addiction. In this episode, we delve into the realities of recovery, emphasizing the need for patience, persistence, and the importance of embracing the long-term process for genuine healing Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
131 - My and Me: Navigating Masturbation’s Impact - A Personal Journey 31.05.2024 13:42
In this revealing and thought-provoking episode, I embark on a deeply personal journey to explore the often misunderstood and rarely discussed topic of masturbation and its effects on the . Join me, Elisha, as I share my own experiences and the lessons I've learned along the way in My and Me: Navigating Masturbation's Impact - A Personal Journey. I'll delve into the physical and emotional dimensio...
130 - Things I Wish I knew In My 20s 30.05.2024 13:58
In this episode, I'm opening up about the five biggest lessons I learned in my twenties—a decade where I seemed to make all the wrong choices and spent my thirties fixing those mistakes. It's a journey filled with missteps, but also with growth and redemption. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
129 - Your Voice: Your Greatest Asset During Recovery 29.05.2024 11:56
In this powerful discussion, we explore the incredible impact of discovering and harnessing your voice as a vital tool in your journey to overcome pornography addiction. Join us as we delve into the importance of self-expression and affirmation in your recovery process. Through inspiring stories and expert insights, we highlight how finding and using your voice can help you navigate the challenges...
128 - Breaking Free: The Power of Self-Love and Christ’s Unconditional Love in Recovery 28.05.2024 10:34
In this episode, we tackle the crippling effects of shame and condemnation on your journey to overcoming pornography addiction and emphasize why self-love and Christ’s unconditional love are fundamental for true recovery. Join us as we uncover how negative self-perception can sabotage your efforts and keep you stuck in a destructive cycle. Through heartfelt stories and spiritual wisdom, we explore...
127 - The Unexpected Dangers of Dating During Recovery 27.05.2024 10:27
While a romantic relationship may seem like the ideal motivator to finally overcome pornography addiction, that well-intentioned pursuit could actually be camouflaging treacherous relapse landmines. This candid episode pulls back the curtain on the unexpected dangers of dating during active recovery. Whether you're already dating and feeling consumed by 's resurgent grip, or curious if pursuing ro...
126-From Shame to Celebration: 3 Revelations Fuelling PornFree Triumph 26.05.2024 12:37
For years, your relationship with pornography has been mired in endless shame cycles - self-loathing after relapse, vicious mental beratement, and avoidance of any sexuality under the flawed notion that repression is the path to recovery. But what if that painfully common approach has actually been sabotaging your ability to build lasting victory over 's grip? In this radical paradigm-shifting epi...
125 - The Relapse Insight Goldmine: How to Leverage Your Journal 25.05.2024 10:18
For many in pornographic addiction recovery, a relapse is viewed as an utter disappointment - a catastrophic failure. But what if those same self-destructive stumbles could become invaluable insight goldmines for fueling lasting progress? This radical paradigm-shifting episode will forever change how you relate to journaling after a pornography relapse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for mo...
124 - The Struggle: Staying PornFree When Your Pregnant Wife Says No 24.05.2024 10:51
As a husband, nothing can prepare you for the jarring intimacy decline when your wife becomes pregnant. The natural libido changes, physical awkwardness, and bodily discomforts mean physical touch often goes out the window. Yet your sexual appetite rages on...creating a perfect storm for relapse demons to start whispering in your ear. This courageously honest episode gives men a space to feel seen...
123 - Childhood Wounds That Never Heal (Until You Apply This Approach) 23.05.2024 12:19
The devastating impacts of childhood trauma often persist across entire lifetimes - shaping beliefs, and behaviors, and perpetuating suffering like emotional fractures that never set properly. If you've tried conventional therapy and still feel crippling residual pain from your past, this episode explores a radical, unconventional approach to finally experience profound healing Hosted on Acast. Se...
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