Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert

3AM Reset : Intimacy After Porn

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The 3AM Reset Podcast is your guide to permanently overcoming porn addiction. Hosted by Elisha Kolade, who fought this battle for over 13 years, this show fuses Christian wisdom, neuroscience, and coaching to reveal how your brain gets hijacked and how to reclaim control. Each episode delivers practical steps to break free from compulsive behaviors and rewire your mind for success in work, relationships, and life. With over 200 episodes, discover actionable strategies to become your best self. Join the journey to lasting recovery.

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Author

Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert

Category

Religion

Podcast website

unfilteredbedroom.com

Latest episode

May 18, 2025

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Episodes

172 - 7 Reasons Why Struggling To Eliminate Negative Thoughts 27.07.2024

Discover 7 practical, life-transforming tools to combat negative thinking. In this episode, I share personal strategies I've successfully implemented to overcome persistent negative thoughts. Learn why traditional methods often fall short and explore powerful techniques to rewire your mindset, boost resilience, and cultivate a more positive outlook on life.

171 - How I Won My Battle Against Pornography Addiction 25.07.2024

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about my own battle with pornography addiction and share the strategies that helped me break free. Drawing from my experiences, I discuss the challenges I faced, the turning points in my journey, and the practical steps I took to reclaim control over my life. I'll take you through my darkest moments and the wake-up calls that pushed me to seek change. You...

170 - How To Build Good Habits 21.07.2024

In this episode, I dive into the transformative power of good habits and share my personal journey of overhauling my daily routines. Drawing from my own struggles and successes, I'll guide you through the process of building habits that can revolutionize your life. Based on my experience of going from a chronic procrastinator to a productive early riser, I'll cover:Identifying key areas in your li...

169 - How To Clean Out Dirty Mind 19.07.2024

Decluttering Your MindIs your mind feeling cluttered with negative thoughts or inappropriate images? In this episode, I share my own journey of mental decluttering and provide practical tips to help you clean out a dirty mind. Drawing from my experiences overcoming intrusive thoughts and breaking free from a pornography habit, I'll discuss:Recognizing thought patterns that need cleaning upMindfuln...

168 - 5 Reasons Why I Stop Lusting Over Women 18.07.2024

In this raw and honest episode, I share my personal journey of overcoming lust and objectification. Drawing from real-life experiences, I reveal five key reasons that led me to change my perspective on women and relationships. This episode aims to empower listeners by offering practical insights and strategies for developing healthier attitudes towards love, , and human connections. Whether you're...

167 - Why You Must Learn To Forgive Yourself 17.07.2024

Struggling with guilt, shame, or regret? In this powerful episode, I share my personal journey of self-forgiveness and why it's crucial for your mental health and personal growth. Learn practical techniques to release self-blame, embrace imperfection, and move forward with compassion. Discover how forgiving yourself can transform your relationships, boost your confidence, and unlock new opportunit...

166 - How To Stop Negative Repetitive Thoughts 16.07.2024

Do you find yourself trapped in a cycle of negative thoughts, replaying the same worries and fears over and over? I've been there, and I know how paralyzing it can be. In this episode, I'll share the life-transforming tools that helped me break free from the grip of repetitive negative thinking. Drawing from my own journey of overcoming anxiety and self-doubt, I'll guide you through practical stra...

165 - How To Be Happy As A single Guy 12.07.2024

In this heartfelt and honest podcast, I bare my soul about my journey from a lonely, unfulfilled single guy to a man who's found genuine happiness and wholeness. Drawing from my own struggles, missteps, and eventual breakthroughs, I'll guide you through the often-challenging terrain of single life. Whether you're newly single or have been solo for years, this podcast is your companion in the quest...

164 - I Wasted My 20s and I Regretted It. Here Are 5 Steps To Recover Lost Time 11.07.2024

In this raw and honest podcast, I open up about how I squandered my 20s and the deep regret that followed. But this isn't just a tale of missed opportunities – it's a roadmap to redemption. Drawing from my own hard-learned lessons and the practical strategies I've developed, I'll guide you through 5 actionable steps to reclaim lost time and redirect your life's trajectory. Whether you're in your 2...

163 - Pornography Will Not Prepare You For Marriage 09.07.2024

In this raw and honest episode, I open up about my personal journey with pornography and its profound impact on my marriage. Drawing from my own experiences, I explore:My history with pornography and how it shaped my expectations of intimacyThe unexpected challenges I faced in my marriage due to these distorted perceptionsThe process of unlearning harmful ideas and rebuilding a healthy relationshi...

162 - How To Eliminate Sexual Performance Anxiety 08.07.2024

In this raw and honest podcast, I share the real-world tools and techniques that helped me overcome my own sexual performance anxiety. No clinical jargon or textbook theories here - just straightforward, practical advice from someone who's been there. I'll walk you through the strategies that actually worked for me, helping you build confidence and enjoy more fulfilling intimate experiences

161 - Is Today’s Culture Training Young Men To To Pornography 06.07.2024

Is Today's Culture Training Young Men To To Pornography?

160 - Clearing the Fog: Overcoming Brain Fog on Your Journey Away from Pornography 05.07.2024

Explore strategies to combat brain fog while breaking free from pornography addiction. Learn about the neurological impacts, lifestyle changes, and mental exercises that can help restore cognitive clarity. Discover how to regain focus and mental sharpness on your path to recovery

159 - Escape the Trap: Mastering the Proactive Mindset for Recovery 04.07.2024

Discover the game-changing mindset that can accelerate your recovery from pornography addiction. Learn why being reactive or passive holds you back, and how embracing a proactive state of mind is your key to lasting freedom. Tune in to transform your recovery journey today

158 - How to Break Free of Negative Thoughts 27.06.2024

Drawing from personal struggle, I've found effective ways to break free from the rumination trap. Learn practical techniques to quiet your inner critic, redirect your thoughts, and rediscover joy. I'll share real-world strategies that helped me move from constant worry to active living.

157 - I used to be insecure about myself. Here is my advice 26.06.2024

In this raw and revealing episode, I open up about my personal struggle with insecurity and self-doubt. From constantly second-guessing myself to seeking approval from others, I share the challenges I faced and the turning points that led to my transformation. I'll walk you through the key insights and practical strategies that helped me build genuine self-confidence. You'll learn:How to identify...

156 - Habits Exposed: Are You Sabotaging Your Love Life? 25.06.2024

In today's digital age, pornography is more accessible than ever before. But does indulging in adult content spell doom for your love life? This controversial topic has sparked heated debates among relationship experts, therapists, and couples worldwide. Our latest episode dives deep into the complex world of consumption and its potential impact on dating and relationships

155 - How to Stop The Urge of Watching 24.06.2024

Uncover a simple yet powerful 3-second method to derail cravings instantly. Learn from real-world experience how to hijack your urges and regain control. This episode shares practical, easy-to-implement tactics to interrupt addictive patterns and strengthen your resolve on the path to recovery Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

154 - What Masturbating Did to My Erection 23.06.2024

In this candid episode, we explore the often-overlooked impact of frequent masturbation on sexual health. Hear a raw, personal account of how excessive self-pleasure affected erectile function. Learn about the physical and psychological connections, and discover steps towards recovery and improved sexual wellness

153 - How To Become The Best Version of Yourself 22.06.2024

Unlock your full potential in this inspiring episode about personal growth and perseverance. Discover the power of relentless self-improvement and unwavering determination. Learn practical tips to push past obstacles, embrace continuous growth, and transform into the best version of yourself. It's time to refuse mediocrity and strive for excellence. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more...

152 - 4 Critical Actions to Conquer Pornography Addiction 21.06.2024

Discover four crucial steps to accelerate your recovery from addiction. This episode outlines specific, actionable measures you can take immediately to break free from dependency. Learn how to implement these critical changes, reshape your mindset, and fast-track your journey to a -free life

151 - How Watching Slowly Kills My Erection 20.06.2024

I thought watching was harmless fun until the unthinkable happened - I couldn't get it up with a real partner. In this brutally honest episode, I recount the night my stopped working and my shame spiraled into an obsession to regain my manhood. Little did I know, my addiction had been slowly rewiring my brain's arousal patterns. What I thought was just visual stimulation was actually killing my se...

150 - 3 Toxic Mindset That Keeps You Trapped In Viewing Pornography 19.06.2024

I thought I could quit anytime, that it was just a harmless outlet. I told myself "Just one more video" countless times. That toxic rationalizing kept me hooked for years. The more insidious mindset was feeling so ashamed that I isolated myself, making recovery nearly impossible alone. And the victim mentality - blaming my addiction on others instead of taking responsibility. In this episode, I co...

149 - How Watching Porn Ruined My Brain 18.06.2024

hijacked my brain's reward system, but its true devastation was to my prefrontal cortex - the control centre for executive function. Slowly, my ability to think critically, plan, reason, and make rational decisions crumbled under 's influence. I'd lose hours consumed by endless browsing and video binges. My impulse control was shot. I struggled at work, in relationships. It was like a fog clouding...

148 - Ruined My Life: This Is My Personal Story 17.06.2024

Ruined My Life: This Is My Personal StoryI was hooked from a young age. What started as curiosity quickly became an obsession that controlled my life. distorted my view of intimacy and relationships. It fed unrealistic expectations that no partner could match. My grades slipped, I lost friends, jobs. I hit rock bottom, alone and ashamed. This is my brutally honest journey of how 's grip nearly des...

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