Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert

3AM Reset : Intimacy After Porn

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The 3AM Reset Podcast is your guide to permanently overcoming porn addiction. Hosted by Elisha Kolade, who fought this battle for over 13 years, this show fuses Christian wisdom, neuroscience, and coaching to reveal how your brain gets hijacked and how to reclaim control. Each episode delivers practical steps to break free from compulsive behaviors and rewire your mind for success in work, relationships, and life. With over 200 episodes, discover actionable strategies to become your best self. Join the journey to lasting recovery.

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Author

Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert

Category

Religion

Podcast website

unfilteredbedroom.com

Latest episode

May 18, 2025

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Episodes

197 - What I learnt In 18 years of Quitting Masturbating To Porn 23.11.2024

You don't have to make the same mistake I made. I am not proud of my past, but at the same time I thank God I can use my past to equip the next generation of men.

196 - Do I Need Deliverance From Porn (Series 2) 16.11.2024

Many Christians believe they need a special deliverance service or the laying on of hands to break free from pornography. But is this really what Scripture teaches? In this eye-opening episode, we challenge this common misconception and explore how God has already given us everything we need for victory through His Word and the power of the Holy Spirit. We'll discuss why waiting for someone to 'ca...

195 - Do I Need Deliverance From Watching Porn (Series 1) ? 09.11.2024

Many Christians believe they need a special deliverance service or the laying on of hands to break free from pornography. But is this really what Scripture teaches? In this eye-opening episode, we challenge this common misconception and explore how God has already given us everything we need for victory through His Word and the power of the Holy Spirit. We'll discuss why waiting for someone to 'ca...

194 - NoFap (FAQ) Frequently Asked Question : Should I Abstain From Sex During NoFap 29.10.2024

In this episode, I'm tackling the most common questions I've received about NoFap throughout my recovery journey. As someone who battled a 14-year porn addiction, I've been where you are, asking these same questions and searching for answers. We'll dive into queries like "How long does it take to see benefits?", "What about wet dreams?", and "Is it normal to feel worse before feeling better?". I'l...

193 - NoFap Flatline: How To Maximize This Crucial Phase Of Recovery 21.10.2024

In this episode, we're tackling a topic that might be hitting close to home for you right now: the NoFap flatline. I remember how confused and worried I was when I first experienced this phase during my own recovery journey. Drawing from my personal battle with a 14-year porn addiction, I'll walk you through what the flatline is and why it's actually a crucial part of your healing process. We'll e...

192 - 5 Benefits of Developing Self Awareness 15.10.2024

In this episode, I'm diving into the 5 key benefits of developing self-awareness, a skill that's been crucial in my own recovery journey. You'll hear how becoming more self-aware has transformed my life, from helping me understand my triggers to improving my relationships. I'll share personal stories of how each benefit played out in my own struggle with porn addiction and recovery. Whether you're...

191 - Can I Masturbate Without Watching Porn ? 09.10.2024

In this episode, I tackle the controversial question you might be asking yourself: Can I Masturbate Without Watching Porn? Drawing from my personal experience, including my 14-year struggle with porn addiction, I'll explore this sensitive topic with you, no judgment attached. I'll share the challenges I faced and the insights I gained when separating masturbation from porn use during my recovery j...

190 - How To Prevent Relapse Post Porn Addiction 02.10.2024

In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of preventing relapse after overcoming a porn addiction. Breaking free from pornography is a significant achievement, but maintaining that freedom requires ongoing effort and vigilance. We'll explore practical tips to identify triggers, build a strong support network, and develop healthy coping mechanisms. This episode offers valuable insights for t...

189 - 5 Myths About Masturbation Debunked 26.09.2024

Join us for an eye-opening episode that tackles one of the most taboo yet universal human experiences. In "5 Myths About Masturbation Debunked," we're breaking down barriers and busting misconceptions about self-pleasure.  Whether you're curious, concerned, or just looking to expand your knowledge, this episode promises to challenge your preconceptions and foster a more open dialogue about sexual...

188 - How To Cure Delayed Ejaculation 18.09.2024

This eye-opening episode tackles the hush-hush topic of delayed ejaculation, breaking down why some guys struggle to cross the finish line in the bedroom. Whether you're dealing with this first hand or just curious, tune in for a frank, funny, and super useful guide to getting your mojo back on track.

187 - Porn Sex Vs Real Sex ! Are There Any Differences 10.09.2024

In this episode, I share how unrealistic portrayals in adult content affected my expectations and behavior in real relationships, particularly after getting married. This episode explores themes of personal growth, the importance of genuine intimacy, and the process of building healthy relationships free from the influence of idealized media depictions."

186 - 7 steps I took To Quit Masturbating To Pornography 03.09.2024

In this candid episode, I share the practical steps I implemented to break free from habitual pornography use and masturbation. I discuss the challenges I faced and the effective tactics that helped me overcome this addictive behaviour.

185 - Is Your Husband Watching Porn ? 30.08.2024

In this eye-opening episode, we dive into the often taboo subject of pornography consumption in marriages. We explore the signs that might indicate your husband is secretly viewing adult content, the potential impacts on your relationship, and expert insights on how to approach this sensitive topic. Whether you're suspicious, concerned, or simply curious, this discussion offers valuable perspectiv...

184 - What Is NoFap Flatline 27.08.2024

In this eye-opening episode, we dive into a phenomenon that's gaining attention in the NoFap community: NoFap flatline. If you've ever wondered why some people experience a sudden drop in libido or mood during their NoFap journey, this episode is for you. We'll break down the concept of NoFap flatline in simple terms, making it accessible to anyone curious about this aspect of abstinence from porn...

183 - How to Build a Winning Mindset 22.08.2024

In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the essential components of developing a winning mindset. Drawing from personal experiences, success stories, and psychological research, we explore the key tactical steps that can transform your thinking and propel you towards your goals. We'll provide practical exercises and real-world examples to help you implement these strategies in your daily life....

182 - 5 Keys Skills Required To Reprogramme Porn Wired Brain 18.08.2024

In this powerful episode, I share the 5 key skills I've identified as crucial for reprogramming a porn-wired brain. Drawing from my own transformation and the experiences of thousands of men I've worked with, I break down the essential tools and techniques that have proven effective in overcoming porn addiction.  By mastering these skills, listeners can begin the journey of rewiring their brains a...

181 - 7 Pitfalls Of NoFap You Must Be On The Look Out For 16.08.2024

In this eye-opening episode, I dive into the often-overlooked challenges of the NoFap journey. While many tout the benefits of this practice, there are potential pitfalls that participants should be aware of. Drawing from research and community experiences, I explore 7 critical issues that NoFap practitioners might encounter: Unrealistic expectations Withdrawal symptoms Flatline periods Obsessive...

180 - 7 Signs Of Excessive Masturbating You Need To Watch Out For 14.08.2024

In this candid episode, I share my journey with masturbation and how a normal habit gradually became excessive. Drawing from my experiences, I discuss 7 key signs that may indicate masturbation has become problematic. These include impacts on daily life, relationships, physical health, and mental well-being. By exploring these warning signs, I aim to help others recognize potential issues and cons...

179 - How Long Does It Take For Your Brain To Conquer Pornography ? 13.08.2024

In this informative episode, I delve into the challenging journey of overcoming pornography addiction, drawing from my own experiences. I explore the neurological aspects of porn addiction and discuss the varying timelines for recovery.

178 - Porn Addiction Recovery 18 Years Free and Counting 08.08.2024

In this candid and insightful episode, I share my personal story of porn addiction recovery and the tools that have kept me free for the last 18 years. Listeners will hear about: My journey to recovery and the moment I decided to break free from porn addiction The specific strategies and tools I've used to maintain my freedom for nearly two decades Challenges I've faced during my post-recovery yea...

How To Observe Your Thoughts. Epi 177 06.08.2024

Discover the transformative power of thought observation in this enlightening podcast episode. As your host, I'll share my personal journey and the life-changing techniques I've developed to master the art of observing thoughts. In this episode, you'll learn:My unique approach to thought observation and how it has impacted my lifePractical techniques to become aware of your thought patternsHow to...

176 - Erectile Dysfunction from Porn: 3 Key Warning Signs 05.08.2024

In this crucial episode, I dive deep into the often-overlooked connection between pornography use and erectile dysfunction. Drawing from personal experience and extensive research, I'll reveal the three key warning signs that could indicate you're developing porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED). In this episode, you'll discover: The three critical indicators that your porn habits may be affect...

175 - How To Keep Your Freedom Post Porn Addiction 03.08.2024

In this powerful episode, I share my personal journey of maintaining freedom from addiction for over 18 years. I reveal the essential tools and strategies that have not only helped me stay clean but have also assisted numerous other men in safeguarding their hard-won freedom. Learn practical techniques to build a sustainable, addiction-free life and reinforce your commitment to long-term recovery.

174 - 5 Steps To Stop Lusting Over Women 03.08.2024

In this revealing episode, I share my personal struggle with lustful thoughts and behaviours towards women. I outline five practical steps that helped me overcome this habit and transform my mindset. These powerful tools have not only changed my life but have also positively impacted many other men facing similar challenges. Learn how to develop healthier attitudes and relationships by implementin...

173 - How to Stop Relapsing: 4 Hidden Habits Keeping You Addicted To Pornography 30.07.2024

Struggling to break free from pornography? You're not alone. In this raw and honest episode, we dive into the hidden habits that keep many men trapped in a cycle of relapse. Drawing from personal battles and years of coaching experience, we uncover four sneaky behaviors you might not even realize are sabotaging your recovery. From the late-night scroll that turns into temptation, to the stress-rel...

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