3AM Reset : Intimacy After Porn

Should I be dating during recovery?" Drawing from his personal recovery journey, Elisha reveals the intense challenges he faced – including persistent wet dreams featuring porn stars and severe cognitive impairment. He explains why recovery is an inherently "selfish" time focused on rediscovering identity and healing childhood trauma. Elisha ultimately advises against dating during...

In this Spirit-led conversation, Melinda Patrick shares her journey as a Christian parent whose daughter walked away from biblical teaching by embracing an LGBT identity. She offers scripture-based wisdom gained through her own painful mistakes and God's faithful guidance. Melinda delivers a biblical critique of popular pastor Andy Stanley's compromising stance, while emphasizing how parents can m...

In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Pastor Tunde Cole of The Transformers Church shares his journey from experiencing spiritual abuse in church leadership to founding his own ministry focused on truth and freedom. He discusses how to recognize toxic church environments, navigate spiritual abuse, and practical steps for leaving unhealthy church situations. Pastor Cole also opens up about perso...

In this powerful interview, fashion designer and ministry leader Bobbi Kumari shares her extraordinary journey from sexual brokenness to freedom. She discusses her background in Hinduism, childhood sexual abuse, and her descent into addiction and promiscuity before a supernatural encounter with a demonic entity changed everything. 00:00: Introduction to Bobbi Kumari00:56: Why the Passion for Sacre...

Struggling with pornography addiction often feels like fighting an invisible enemy. But what if one of your most powerful weapons is simply a pen and paper? In this eye-opening episode , I reveal WHY journaling is not just helpful but essential for breaking free from porn addiction. Discover how this simple daily practice targets the root causes of addictive behavior by: Bringing hidden triggers a...

o you know that many Christians silently battle with shame and guilt after watching porn? In this powerful episode, I share my personal journey of self-forgiveness and why it's crucial for your spiritual healing and relationship with God. Learn biblical principles and practical techniques to release self-blame, embrace God's forgiveness, and move forward without the weight of past mistakes...

In todays' episode I speak on why and how I struggled with lust and ways to beat it. So to all my brothers who are in that season or struggle like I was, Grab your pen and paper. Because this one has too many gems.

Are you struggling to break free from porn addiction as a Christian? You're not alone. Many believers face this battle daily, feeling trapped between their faith and persistent temptations. In this powerful episode, host Elisha Kolade shares his personal journey and the three essential parameters that can lead to lasting freedom. Drawing from his own experiences and biblical principles, Elisha rev...

Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle of procrastination, watching your potential slip away day after day? Many of us were never taught how to build sustainable habits, and as a result, we fall into patterns that limit our growth rather than nurture it. Establishing good habits isn't about perfection—it's about creating systems that work with your natural tendencies, not against them. Whether it's...

Struggling with porn addiction? This podcast reveals my 13-year battle and complete recovery plan. Learn effective strategies to overcome PIED, regain confidence, and rebuild intimacy. Discover practical NoFap techniques, addiction recovery tools, and brain rewiring methods that worked when nothing else did. Find hope, accountability, and step-by-step guidance for your own freedom journey from por...

Summary This conversation explores the profound impact of explicit content, particularly pornography, on sexual preferences and behaviors. Elisha discusses how exposure to such content during formative years can shape perceptions and relationships, often leading to behavioral changes that individuals may not consciously recognize. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these influences and...

Summary In this conversation, Elisha explores the multifaceted nature of sex, emphasizing its spiritual dimensions and the profound impact it has on individuals' lives. He discusses the importance of understanding the three dimensions of human existence—spiritual, soulish, and physical—and how these dimensions interact during sexual encounters. Kolade warns about the potential dangers of engaging...

In this conversation, Elisha discusses the relationship between pride and relapse, particularly in the context of addiction recovery. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and humility in maintaining recovery, sharing personal experiences and insights. The discussion highlights the subtle dangers of pride, the characteristics to watch for, and the need for a strong foundation in faith and...

In this powerful episode, Elisha addresses the struggles of contemplating life and the search for purpose. He emphasizes the importance of understanding that the battle against suicidal thoughts is fought in the mind and is a spiritual warfare. Drawing from his personal experiences with addiction and despair, he provides insights on reclaiming control over one's thoughts and life. Elisha intro...

Summary In this conversation, Elisha Kolade discusses two distinct mindsets that influence recovery from pornography addiction: the Grasshopper mindset and the Lion mindset. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these mindsets and choosing to adopt the Lion mindset, which embodies strength, empowerment, and the ability to overcome challenges. Through personal anecdotes and biblical reference...

In this episode, Elisha Kolade explores the profound impact of imagination on personal experiences, particularly in relation to early exposure to pornography and masturbation. He shares his own journey, detailing how these experiences shaped his identity and behavior. Elisha emphasizes the importance of making a conscious decision to change, providing practical steps to reconfigure one's imagi...

In this episode, Elisha Kolade addresses the struggles many face during the night season, particularly regarding sleep and the temptation to consume pornography. He shares his personal experiences and emphasizes the importance of transforming the night into a productive time for personal development and spiritual growth. Elisha discusses the significance of preparation and self-awareness in overco...

Summary In this conversation, Elisha Kolade discusses the three forces that contribute to porn addiction: the environment, the body, and the brain. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in overcoming these forces and breaking the cycle of addiction. Elisha encourages listeners to reflect on their habits and triggers, and to cultivate self-awareness as a crucial skill for personal growth a...

Breaking free from pornography addiction can feel like an endless cycle of trying and relapsing. In this powerful episode, the host shares insights gained from 15 years of recovery, introducing the " Triple Threat Point" (TTP) - the crucial intersection of body, mind, and environment that drives addictive behavior. Through clear examples and practical guidance, you'll discover how understanding th...

Are you hiding your porn addiction from your wife? Living with the constant fear of being discovered? In this crucial episode, we provide a proven blueprint for men who are ready to take the courageous step of disclosing their porn struggle to their partner. Research shows that 80% of marriages can be rebuilt when porn addiction is disclosed voluntarily rather than discovered accidentally. We'll w...

Standing at rock bottom on New Year's Eve 2005, your host made a choice that changed everything. Now, as 2024 ends, he reveals the raw truth about breaking free from addiction and shares the exact roadmap for your own transformation in 2025. No more empty resolutions – discover the proven four-valley protocol that turns desire for change into lasting freedom. If you're ready to break the chains, t...

🔴 MUST WATCH: The Biblical secret that's helping men break free from shame - without years of therapy Tired of hiding? Ashamed of your struggles? This episode reveals the forgotten truth from Romans 8:1 that's setting men free from shame's prison. No more self-condemnation. No more hiding. No more shame. You'll discover: Why shame keeps you trapped in the cycle The identity shift that changes eve...

If you're fighting porn with willpower, you're fighting with the wrong weapon. Here's what 99% of Christians miss about Romans 8:13. TRUTH BOMB: You're not a human trying to be spiritual. You're a SPIRIT BEING having a human experience. This one shift transformed my decade-long battle

🚨 Age 9. That's when it starts now - not 13, not 16. By high school, 35% of young men are already trapped in a hidden epidemic that's destroying their ability to connect, perform, and build real relationships. In this raw, data-driven episode, we expose the accelerating crisis decimating Gen-Z: earlier exposure, faster addiction, younger victims. Learn: Why exposure age dropped from 13 to 9 in ju...

Create In Me A Clean Heart Jesus - In this powerful episode, we examine King David's darkest moment - his affair with Bathsheba and the murder of her husband Uriah. After being confronted by the prophet Nathan, David's heartfelt plea in Psalm 51 reveals a broken man seeking divine cleansing. Join us as we explore how even the greatest biblical heroes faced moral failures, and discover timeless les...