You Ain't Crazy Podcast, A Narcissist Has Two Faces!

A narcissist will never accept accountability. They will always have an excuse for mistreating you. They will tell you that it's your fault. "You made me do it." Everything that's going wrong, is because of you. They want to brainwash you to believe their lies. Don't fall for it! You'll never win the battle until you take your power back and keep it. Move on to higher heights in your life and let...

After a break-up, your average person will feel or show some kind of compassion towards the other person. Not a narcissist. They will act cold as ice, unless they still want or need some supply from you that the new supply isn't giving or can't give. Count your losses and keep it moving to save yourself from any additional heartache. If you go back, you're going to look weak and they're going to t...

Plan to be tortured for eternity if you stick around. It will never be a win for you, until you take your power back. Set boundaries and stick to them. A narcissist doesn't want you if you're weak and don't want to keep you if you're strong, even though they chased you to lock you down. It doesn't matter. They only wanted you to start the abuse process. That is why you're experiencing the hurt now...

Happy New Year! Wow, I can't believe 2022 is over. Welcome 2023! This episode consists of some New Year's Resolution ideas to start healing from Narc abuse and avoiding it at all cost when you can. Of course, always put safety first.

A Narcissist can show fake affection. It's not genuine. It's only for their own gain. Don't fall for it. Be respectful and learn to love from a distance, if you don't want to get hurt again. They can't help themselves. Unless they're in therapy multiple times per week for NPD, there's just no hope for them. Do you really want to live the rest of your life this way? That's the million dollar questi...

If you think you need someone to make you whole, that's when you need to love on yourself more! Spoil yourself! Don't let the narcissist convince you to think or do otherwise. Don't allow them to overstep your boundaries and cause drama between you and your loved ones. That's their mission. Stop engaging and defending yourself. The narcissist knows exactly what they're doing to you. Step away and...

Children learn what they live. It is the parent or guardian's responsibility to provide a safe and stabled emotional environment for them to grow up and develop in. Stop giving attention to people and situations you can't change. Stop the generational curse that has haunted so many people in today's society. Change starts today with you!

A Narcissist expects you to be emotional and angry when they're torturing you. If you can, get away from them all together. If you can't because of children, business or other extenuating circumstances, definitely go grey rock. Have very little engagement with them. Say little to nothing. Remember, they're waiting to edit your narrative to work in their favor, always! Keep your power by staying tr...

Dealing with a #narcissist can be very draining if you allow yourself to engage. Give that time back to yourself. Do something constructive and productive. Do something that moves you forward and will enhance your life. Otherwise, you will find yourself wasting time with the hours God has granted to you.

A Narcissist can make you feel good temporarily or for a moment. At the end of the day, they are human beings. However, you must remember they have a personality disorder. So, there will always be a motive or an agenda behind their actions, good or bad, that's only in their favor. It has nothing to do with you. Don't let your guards down. Keep gaining knowledge to protect your mind, heart, soul an...

Keep your guards up by gaining as much knowledge as you can about NPD. Knowledge is power. It will help you set boundaries and keep them in place at all times. Narcissists are master manipulators who love to see you sweat, be confused and sad. They love to be the cause of your tears and then act as if they're clueless and don't know why you're hurting. Don't be fooled any longer by their games. Ta...

A Narcissist has no clue as to what he or she is looking for in a spouse or partner. Never believe them or try to live up to any of their expectations. It's 100% a waste of time! Put that time into people who genuinely love and respect you. Those who reciprocate what you give to them. You'll never get anything real from a narcissist. They will always have a manipulating agenda. Don't ever trust on...

The #Narcissist is invested in trying to make your life miserable. Don't fall for it. This episode gives you some tips on how to resist the manipulation from the master manipulator aka Narcissist! Focus on you and your child or children. Light and darkness can't be around each other at the same time. It's like oil and water.. They don't mix. Don't feed the dark Vibes any energy. Keep positive vibe...

Make loving yourself a priority. Spoil yourself for 30 days. It will then turn into a good habit. When you learn to really love and respect yourself, it becomes very hard for others to violate you! Now you understand your value and worth. It's a beautiful thing! It helps you to set boundaries and not allow others to cross them. You will began to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Start to rea...

We're entering into the holidays of Thanksgiving, Christmas, Qwanza, Hanukkah and many other holiday celebrations. It's a time when society makes you feel like being alone and loving yourself and enjoying self time is weird and wrong. Don't fall for it.. It's a beautiful thing, when you choose yourself and your peace, over chaos, drama and confusion. You might be tempted or persuaded to compromise...

Try the spirit by the spirit! Read the energy a person gives. Not only to you, but to others as well. Raise your discernment. A narcissist doesn't discriminate. Whatever they do to someone else, it's just a matter of time before they're going to do the same to you, without any guilt or empathy. They are very empty evil souls.

Narcissists have very fragile egos. It doesn't take much to cause a narcissistic injury. They never take accountability. It's always the other person's fault. When you finally choose yourself over them, leave or discard them, they feel highly insulted and injured, regardless of all of the pain they inflicted upon you! Set boundaries and stick to them and Knowledge Up!!

You can count on a narcissist revealing their true colors. It's only matter of time before the mask will slip. The question is, will you believe the mask or believe the character behind it?

A Narcissist feels like the world owes them something. That means you and everyone else. They take no accountability nor do they genuinely reciprocate what you do for them. Trust and believe, there's always a twist to their fake good deeds. They can't help themselves. Do yourself a favor and never get comfortable with them. Their good deed is just an investment to control your mind, body and soul....

If you have to ask yourself that question, I believe you already know the answer. Trust your gut. Watch what a person does and not just what they say. Their action will give you your answer.

It's time to have some self-awareness. Are you addicted to the pain and drama from your abuser. What's keeping you stuck in a situation that's hurting you and not moving you forward? What's causing you to keep making excuses for your abuser and giving unlimited passes? You might just have a trauma bond or Stockholm Syndrome.

Narcissists feel empty inside and they lack confidence, despite how they look and what they might have. They have loads of insecurities and project them onto their victims. Stop giving up your power by not engaging when they come for you. Go no contact if you can. If you can't, go gray rock. Give the simplest response. No matter what you say, they only hear themselves. You're just an object to the...

Very often society rewards and embraces narcissistic behavior. The narcissists appear to be very charming and persuasive to those they are not involved with on a regular basis. Anyone who stays around one long enough, will definitely see their true colors. However, if you're dealing with one, gain as much knowledge as you can about the disorder. Once you have a clear understanding, you'll be bette...

A Narcissist is one with a personality disorder. The likelihood of them changing, is the same likelihood of you winning the mega million, slim to never. Nobody is perfect. However, a narcissist will never take blame unless it makes them look good in front of other people. Otherwise, anything that goes wrong, will always be your fault. Take your power back and stop falling for their manipulative ta...

Narcissists knows everything they're doing to you. It's intentional because they are unhappy, empty creatures who wants you to feel the same. They don't discriminate. No one is exempt from their abuse, if you allow them to abuse you. Your power is your knowledge. Your peace is you moving in silence with action. You're not alone. There's nothing you're going through that someone else has not made i...