With Whit

Hi it's me, alone in this lovely hotel room, recording on 4/20 in NYC with no real plan. I'm here for National Infertility Awareness Week with Progyny and I touch on the emotional layers of that. Plus travel chaos and how I got into a car with a stranger, the pure bliss of a nighttime facial, relationship thoughts when it comes to travel + being apart, and how the movie I watched on the plane made...

It's Date Night! We get into stuff. Stuff about marriage, stuff about summer and exciting plans and new houses and Justin Bieber at Coachella. Ok, here we go, tune in to hear about all the stuff!  This episode is brought to you by Alice + Olivia and Sam Edelman: Exclusively for With Whit listeners, Alice + Olivia is offering 15% off everything from new arrivals to best sellers. Visit aliceand...

Hi! We're fresh off Spring Break over here. I'm sitting down solo to recap the whole trip with the family - all the pretty places we went, the hours we drove, and the sweet nostalgia of The Cheesecake Factory. I'm feeling relieved to be home and sink back into a routine, and this is a good ol' honest check-in about where I'm at. Everything feels messy in the way that life does when you return from...

Hello! In this seriously helpful episode, I sit down with therapist Stevie Blum for a conversation that will feel deeply familiar to anyone who looks like they have it together on the outside, but feels completely overwhelmed on the inside. Stevie works with high-functioning women who are capable, successful, and seemingly calm - but internally are stuck in cycles of overthinking, self-doubt,...

Today, I have the pleasure of sitting down with Courtney Kelly, founder of Courting - a tennis-inspired brand rooted in nostalgia, community, and seriously good style. What started as an idea for a tennis themed coffee shop (and even a matchmaking app) evolved into a full collection that blends performance, functionality, and fashion in the coolest way. We talk about the real story behind Courting...

Today we are revisiting a powerful conversation from the With Whit archives with holistic psychiatrist Dr. Ellen Vora that still deeply resonates. In it, Dr. Vora unpacks the difference between "true" and "false" anxiety and how our bodies often hold the clues to what we're feeling. We get into how physical imbalances like sleep, hormones, and blood sugar can affect our mental health, and how lear...

Hello hello, we are here. We are swamped with things, crazed, and late on our episode, but we are here and doing the best we can. What's been going on with us? We get into all of it. Plus, our thoughts on what we've been watching - Love Story, more weekly Timothee Chalamet commentary, debating whether or not we want to go to the Elton John Oscars After Party, the goodness of French onion soup...

This week felt heavy, not catastrophic, not dramatic, just layered. I'm sharing about our recent surrogate embryo transfer and finding out it didn't take. Even when you know the statistics, hope quietly builds a future in the back of your mind, and each time that future dissolves, the grief is real. I talk about what it feels like to move through disappointment when your life is objectively f...

Hello hello, it's Date Night! We are in a limbo waiting period with our surrogate, taking things day by day and trying to stay grounded in this very lovely LA sunshine. Timmy is gearing up for a solo El Cap camping trip with Sonny and an entire grade's worth of kids and parents...so unpacking a little anxiety there. We talk about our mini credit card audit, spiraling about subscriptiong "scams", a...

In celebration of The High Confectionary's new chocolate bar launch (!!), I'm sitting down with Sarah Fennel, founder of Broma Bakery and the baker extraordinaire who helped bring our new chocolate bars to life! Sarah is behind some of the internet's most beloved dessert recipes, but this conversation goes way beyond baking. She opens up about her complicated relationship with food growing up, how...

This week is a little bit of everything. From family moments and Grammy's fashion to beauty treatments, big feelings, and a rapid-fire dive into everything that's been on my mind lately. I'm sharing a real check-in after an emotional day, how I let myself feel it without spiraling and letting it consume the whole week, and why giving yourself space to process matters more than pushing through...

After a loud, full, and surprisingly joyful work trip to New York, I'm unpacking what it actually means to feel aligned, even when calendars and to-do lists feel overwhelming. From building things I genuinely love, to unlearning rigid ideas about productivity, to navigating parenthood, partnership, creative work, and big to small life moments, this episode is a good ol' rambling check-in. A remind...

This conversation felt like therapy, but better, and I'm so excited to share it! I'm joined by Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, for a deep, emotional conversation about attachment theory and how it affects all aspects of our lives, far beyond just romantic relationships.  Thais breaks down the four attachment styles, digs into how they're formed, a...

This week's episode is a chill, at-home catch-up - the kind where I'm processing life out loud and letting the conversation go where it wants to go. I share about my quick overnight trip to D.C. to join a lobbying mission, what it feels like to join these inspiring groups and go to the White House, and why asking ourselves "ok, what can I do?" has become a helpful antidote to all the overwhel...

Wellll hello hello, and welcome to a new year of dating. We are starting strong! Drive with us to and find out if our new year positivity can manifest an open table at the current hottest LA restaurant during the lunch rush. Ok, let's talk Ashley Tisdale mom group drama, adult women group dynamics in general, and our opinions on all of it. Also thoughts on transition glasses and Sonny ma...

In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Ramy Brook, founder of the fashion brand built on confidence, celebration, and feeling really good in what you wear. Ramy shares her incredible journey of starting her business at 42, turning a need for beautiful, wearable pieces into a globally recognized brand carried by Bergdorf's and Bloomingdale's. We get into the real behind-the-scenes of buildi...

We're ending 2025 on a high as we wrap up this year with a Best of Date Night! We pulled together some of our favorite Date Night - the ones we still reference and laugh about. Come ride around LA with us as we recount our brain farts, revisit the White Couch Debacle, and never stop bringing the conversation back around to sandwiches. Plus, some true nuggets of real perspective, love, and navigati...

This episode is a little all over the place, and honestly, that feels about right. In this solo, I'm looking back on 2025 without needing to wrap it up with a neat bow. I talk through the highs, the lows, and the emotional static that lived in the background: from moments that surprised me and filled me up to the exhaustion, uncertainty, and growth that didn't always have clear answers. I reflect...

Hello hello. Here we are, ready to slide through the holidays with ease and coziness. We are calmer this week after a bit of a panicky stretch and great news, our lives have been changed by an ice machine - not an an, just obsessed with pellet ice. We recap our mostly lovely and wonderful Thanksgiving trip to Montana that started with an airport fiasco where Whit forgot her ID and barely made the...

Today's episode is a really personal one for me. As some of you may know, my family has been moving through complicated changes brought on by some issues with my mother's health. It's been a heartbreaking chapter and one of the most confusing periods emotionally. Jill McNamara is the General Manager of Care.com, and has been a person who has supported me in a huge way over this last year...

Hey! I'm taking a small pause this week and revisiting some of my favorite conversations that have deeply stuck with me. This compilation brings together sweet, standout moments from episodes that felt and continue to feel truly transformative. You'll hear reflections on finding worth outside perfection, calming anxiety and how to actually meditate, navigating the identity shift of motherhood, cho...

Here yee here yee. It's 9:30am and date night is upon us. It has been a rather intense week where financial conversations, family stuff, health, and keeping everything running has us thinking:  does anyone actually feel like an adult?  We're talking about the idea of living from a place of abundance while also living in actual reality. Deep breaths, talking and laughing through...

Hi! Another solo from my cozy nook, and I get into a lot. First a little High/Low of the week and a little recap of our funny night celebrating our 10th anniversary. Then we go deeper. I'm answering questions that have really been sitting with me this month: What's taking up the most mental real estate lately? What emotions keep visiting? What's a story that I keep telling myself that isn't actual...

Hi! Today we have a little Solo Q&A and I'm answering the questions you were most curious about - the ones I didn't get to in my recent AMA. These mixed bag episodes are fun to do, so keep the questions coming! I get into everything from how tall I am and what my relationship to my height has been over the years, whether I still consider myself an influencer, to my rising and moon signs (...

Date Night! What's going onnnn? Join us for a date as we drive around LA vintage stores to find stuff for our halloween costumes. What's on our mind? This lake house we found on Redfin that we can't stop thinking about. Should we get it and film a new renovation series?? Other topics include debates about whether farting under the sheets can actually ruin them and how we'd feel about living i...