We’re Not The Ones

Do you ever feel like you are in the wrong place or like you don't belong? Well us too... sometimes. Join us today, as we talk about imposter syndrome, and how it has impacted our lives, work, and relationships. 

HELLO EVERYONEEE, and welcome back to episode 6! Are you an overthinker like us? Do you read into everyone's actions? YEAH, you're like us. Join us today as we talk about what it means to be an overthinker, how it might affect us, and what solutions can help with being an overthinker. 

Have you heard of education privilege and think you have fallen victim to it? Join us today as we discuss what we have learned about education privilege and how we deal with it... well, we are still learning how to deal with it. 

Did you hear?  Weaponized incompetence is coming for us ... well for ya'll. She is mean and takes advantages of us kind folk. Join us today, as we deep dive into our relationships and discuss how we have witnessed weaponized incompetence.

BOUNDARIES are a woman's best friend... well everyone's best friend. How do we set our boundaries and how have they impacted us overall? Join us today as we discuss how boundaries have changed our lives and the effects of setting your boundaries!  

Join us in today's episode as we discuss the realities of Daddy Issues and decide whether this is real or fake. Listen in to hear our final verdict on what we think and our experiences with "daddy issues."

WE ARE BACK, WELCOMING 2024 and nothing is getting in our way. We are welcoming 2024 with open arms and eyes wide open, prepared to take on anything that comes our way. Join us as we reflect on 2023 and on our new goals for this year. 

Hola familia!!! Here is part two of our live updates... we know, we know... it's been a minute but a lot has happened... just listen to this episode so we can update you :) Love ya!!

WE ARE BACK, BETTER THAN EVER!! Thank you to everyone who waited for us, but wait no more because we are back and putting ourselves out there (per usual). We have one question... how toxic are you OR were you?? (LOL) because we were super toxic (and kind of are sometimes, but we are working on it!). 

Welcome to this week's episode, where we dive into understanding what it means to be trauma bonded with someone or something. We share our experiences, opinions, and thoughts about trauma bonding and get personal. 

Welcome to Episode 20 where we talk about confessions.. not ours but others ... well maybe ours. Stayed tuned to the end of our episode to hear personal confessions!! 

HELLO EVERYONE!! Join us today as we learn new slang, talk about our ICKS, and throw it back to our favorite VINES!

In this episode, we give you all life updates .. jobs, life, feelings, and BEYONCE!!

Join us today fam to discuss how some of our work friends have become part of our family. Work friends can be a hit or miss and in our experience, we had both good and bad, and we want to share our experiences with our friends and not-so-friends. 

We are back with ANOTHA ONE, where we talk about MOTHERHOOD... and what we expect it to be like for us. We talk about being like our own mothers and growing from their experiences. If you are a mother or not, what expectations do you hold?

Hello everyone!! Welcome to the reality of finances! Today we bring to you our experiences with our finances.... can you all  relate??

Hey everyone! Join us today on a personal journey through what we consider cheating. Are breaking boundaries cheating? Is an emotional affair cheating? You might agree OR you might disagree, but nonetheless, you have an opinion we wanna hear! 

Hello PEOPLE! Welcome back to another episode of We're Not the Ones! We kind of have had a crazy month, BUT join us today on an unplanned but important episode where we share... our fears...! What are your fears? 

Welcome back to hear us talk about BURNOUTTTT! This topic is so relatable, but what we have to say about it might have you questioning all your life decisions... but on a lighter note, it might keep you motivated to change things in your life. Give episode twelve a listen and let us know what you think! 

Good morning Not the Ones Fam! Today, we talk about a heavy subject in our hearts, school shootings. We are deeply saddened and hurt to know that we read about the horrific incidents with our children, and we just wanted to bring some light to the realities we face in America. Our heart goes out to all the families and schools who have experienced gun violence. 

Welcome goblins and ghouls to episode 10. Because we left ya’ll hanging last week, we wanted to ease in with  something fun and spooky! Today we share our experience with spirits and ghosts so join us and share your stories with us! 

Welcome to episode 9, where we discuss the chaos of being a woman. In honor of Women's History Month, we are talking about the greatness of women and all the things we must go through. Join us on this hectic journey, where we talk about statistics, violence, and our stories on women. 

Hello beautiful listeners! Welcome back to episode 8!  Join us as we share our experiences with toxic friends and sad losses.  We wanted to share what we have learned throughout our years and how we choose our friends. Have you experienced anything like this? 

Welcome back, everyone, to episode 7! We have made it this far and appreciate you all on this journey. Join us today as we talk about our fears and wonders of marriage as someone who is already married and another on the way. Let us know your experience: Do you relate or not? Is your story similar, or are we way off base? 

Welcome back, everyone, to episode 6, where we begin our cultural series. In today's episode, we meet with Matios and Alysha in which they explain to us what it means to be black and how that alone has impacted their thoughts, words, actions, and experiences. We dig deep into language, childhood experiences, and TRAUMA. Join us today and let us know if you can relate.