Turn Off The Ringer

Welcome back - I'm back with another solo episode! This time, we're talking about how we've been consumed by comparison, envy and jealousy in a way that doesn't serve our generation. Being critical of ourselves is easy, especially with the access we have to the lives of others online. Join me this week as I unpack my own relationship with comparison, how it gets in the way of our growth, my experi...

Happy Monday and welcome back! Join Esha as she discusses her corporate life as a woman in STEM, and how her intersectionality has informed the way she navigates her career. In conventionally male-dominant industries, it can often be intimidating or anxiety-inducing to be in rooms that don’t seem as inviting or fit to support our ambitions as women of color. In this episode, Esha unpacks the best...

Welcome back to pt2 of my conversation with Yukta, where we talk about setting a high standard for the people in your life and actually cherishing being single. Being in a relationship has been put on an unfair, and almost unattainable pedestal, without crediting the fact that single life can set you up with such important foundations for yourself. In this episode, Yukta and I chatted about gratit...

HAPPY VALENTINE'S, especially to all my single listeners and welcome to my first DATING EPISODE! Excited because I never thought I'd post an episode like this, but In part 1 of this interview, with the coolest - Yukta Chand - we talk about everything from hookup culture and long-term relationships to swiping on Apps for the sake of it. Ultimately, we hope our conversation highlights a different pe...

Welcome back! This week, I'm coming to you with THE MOST (for real this time) exciting interview with my dear friend, and mentor Alisa Vasquez. Join us as we talk about everything from the complexities of our identities and our experiences living in environments where we were the minority, to confidence and battling insecurities. Alisa is an absolute POWERHOUSE of a woman; an entrepreneur, model,...

Happy Tuesday! In light of my last episode being all about fears, I thought this week we could unpack everything that goes into feeling self-conscious in public and how you can stop (hopefully) caring about what people think of you. The pressure to conform or change ourselves to make others more comfortable is exhausting. Join me this week as I walk you through 3 mindset shifts that have helped me...

Welcome back and Happy New Year! I thought the most relevant way to kickstart the new year was to talk about something, that I think, we all struggle with - being scared of doing things you really want to do. Whether it's imposter syndrome or the fear of social judgment, we're too self-critical of our interests and are scared to put ourselves out there. And while this is a limiting thinking patter...

Welcome back, to what's part 2. of me answering your questions about navigating life abroad as an international student! As I sat down to edit this episode, I realized that most of the questions I answered were things that might help, regardless of where you live. This week, I discuss anxiety, letting go of your worst fears, fitting in and more.  As always, let me know what you think and REAC...

Welcome back, and welcome to the first Q&A on the podcast! Last week, I asked you to ask me questions about what it's like to navigate life abroad as an international student. Join me as we sit down and chat about everything you need to know about being an international student, from the work visa and OPT to landing your first job out of college.  More questions you want me to answer? Sho...

Welcome back!  This week, join me as I reflect on growth, change, and adulting.  We often think of growth as exciting, without realizing that it's also scary, intimidating, and full of change - and that's OKAY. In this episode, I talk about the top 5 things that have helped me ease into adulting and look at growth with a new perspective. Join me as we walk through friendships, career cha...

Welcome back!  In my first month of moving to a brand new city and starting a new life, I can't help but think about change and all the ways in which it's scary, new, exciting and intimidating. But what no one talks about is how gratifying it is to take a moment and drive change around you. This week's episode is a deep dive on how you can be that driver and change systems that you're a part...

Welcome back friends! 2.5 weeks later, I'm back with an episode that I hold so dear to my heart. As I navigate graduating, relationships and adulting over the next phase of my life, here's some blurbs from my voice memos that have helped me process my experiences! I hope it helps and as always, would love to chat about these more with you :)  Timestamps for you to jump to thought dumps that y...

HELLO and welcome back :) This week's episode is another interview, with my best friend and musician: JESS HALL! In this episode, we talk about exploring our creativity, turning our emotions into art, and our journeys with self-critical internal dialogue. This episode is personal, raw, real, and just an overall rollercoaster, and I hope you love it as much as we loved having this conversation.&nbs...

This week's episode is a little different. A few weeks ago, I unexpectedly wrote a love letter to my home: Mumbai. The beauty of this process was that I never went into that writing session expecting to produce the words that I did. But reading it back, I could hear and see every part of this essay, and I wanted to create something that could embody what Mumbai sounds like.  So I reached out...

Welcome back and welcome to my first ever podcast interview! This week I'm joined by my roommate and best friend, Anjali, as we unpack all the pressures and nuances that come with growing up in a joint family, having family obligations, and navigating adulthood as a young desi.  As always, thank you so much for being here and listening in. Reach out to me, ask us questions, tell me what you w...

Thank you for listening in on this week's episode. Here's a breakdown of this episode to help you navigate it better, and re-listen to specific parts that are most insightful for you:  0-4:30: Introduction + important highlights from last week 4:30-8:20: What contributed to old projects not working out 8:20+: Fears, taking risks and battling with imposter syndrome I hope this week gave you so...

Welcome to Turn off the Ringer and thank you for listening in. I'd love to hear from you and answer any questions/comments. Let me know what you want to talk about, and let's get the conversation started. Instagram: _eshapathak Until then, turn off your ringer! :)