The Single Chronicles

This week I discuss some of the hypocrisies and traumas facing us women today, especially when choosing between being a modern woman and a traditional lady.

I'm not a femi-nazi. I don't hate men but y'all be tripping! What in the entire heck happened last week? I cannot be the only one who sat up here and peeped the f-tivity??

This week I discussed Jada's Red Table Talk and the topic of female sexuality as well as male fragility.

This week I talk about why I love myself and why it is not only selfless but a crucial to self recovery. The Love Yourself mantra actually helped me discover another internalized coping mechanism... Hyper busy syndrome also know as a hyped busy trauma response. Don't forget to shop my merch store and use promo code: SHIP4FREE at https://insomniacwritermerch.creator-spring.com/? and for my fitness...

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This week I had to go in on Mama's Boys! You know the guys who are so connected to their mothers that they are almost impossible to date.... Or are they???

Ever wonder why folks take their exes back? Ever wonder why they seem so appealing even though you swore them off for good? You are not alone!

Do you find yourself thinking about sex with a certain someone no matter how toxic they are? Have your friends/family tried to warn you? Yeah... you may be hypnotized by someone's sexual talents! This episode is for everyone... Not just hetero women... We can all be hypnotized by the P word no matter what gender it is.

This week's episode is inspired by a post by @wallo267 on Instagram after he & his now former girlfriend admitted that they would part ways amicably. It was a heartfelt moment that he shared with his followers but an example of how two people who have different paths choose to follow fate instead of forcing what's not meant to be. Why stay in a relationship to the point of hating each other when y...

TRIGGER WARNING: Are folks so determined to have someone that they will go to great lengths to get someone? Be it someone who is spoken for or simply uninterested altogether, folks lie to others and even worse themselves just to for the sake of companionship? This also includes appearances. And why I think it's not cool to alter such. Nothing wrong with cleaning up or getting fancy but completely...

There are some seriously butthurt people out here. You know the type of folks who are so ready to engage in a battle of fisticuffs, because they swear someone is disrespecting them. When in honesty, they refuse to see that they are actually triggered and projecting their own issues & insecurities. This week we chat a little about that. Btw, if you didn't know I'm having a sale in my merch store. V...

This week is such a special occasion that I needed to tell some fellas to stay in their place and know their role! No just kidding, I'm hyped about the fact that today's post is the 50th episode. But I still wanted to tell these Kevin Samuels flunkies who always want to flaunt their misogynistic views on women. You want women to be a certain way or be more submissive but aren't doing what they're...

This week I am asking the age-old question, why do folks play games? Either you know or don't know what you want? Nobody has time for that.

So you think you're ready to date?? This episode breaks down dating and why time being single is the worse reason to hop back on the saddle again

More shenanigans of being petty or shall I say putting me first. This week we're talking about employers and other people who expect us single folks to stop what we're doing and bend over backwards. Just because I'm single doesn't mean I have nothing going on and even if I do, I reserve the right to self-care.

So this week I got to thinking about some of the responses I've given others when I had my feet in the dating pool. But more importantly, why. Stick to the end for this one.

I had to get this off my chest. I was... No I get so exhausted of people who do too much to impress others. Especially those who normally don't have a snowball's chance in hell with someone so they either spend money they don't have, pester others or outright lie... Please guys... Just stop it

In order to heal and win in life, we have to acknowledge what or who is toxic in our lives so that we can face it, fix and be our best selves. But what if the toxic person is us?

I hear this question so much from my newly turned singles. It's actually funny because I've touched based on this so many times in the past. But my answer now is a little different than before because when I first started this podcast and this whole movement I was a little jaded individual. I'm a little wiser nowadays so there is a bit more understanding behind my answer and why it's not so cut cl...

This week I tried showing off my psychology chops by diving into the toxic parent-child dynamic of potential relationships. I wanted to talk about this because it seems that some of us aren't looking for potential partners, they're looking for providers. These kinds of folks have repressed childhood traumas brought on by absent or emotionally devoid parents so instead of facing them, they seek peo...

Do you know a person that constantly stirs trouble or makes a dramatic scene over nearly anything? These are just one of the many forms of narcissists. What this has to do with being single is that these attention-seekers usually find themselves either sabotaging possible relationships all the while playing victims of said sabotage.

This week I was was listening to yet another self-proclaimed, life coach who in my opinion had a little bit of a vanity issue. While everyone is entitled to their dating preferences, excluding the possibility and the potential of a great mate because they don't fit your mold of physical perfection is bottom line being vain. I too have been guilty of this.

This week I'm discussing my fellow single folks who are not only unequipped to move on into new relationships but are jaded from the previous ones.

This week I wanted to talk about people who never seem to want to ask for help. I know this because I was one of those people.

On this week episode: I had a question in my DM asking if setting boundaries was wrong or harsh. It's nothing wrong with a healthy boundary no more than there's nothing wrong with compromise. But you have to stick with them. To check out my merch store and save on shipping, visit: https://insomniacwritermerch.creator-spring.com/? and use promo code SHIP4FREE. To purchase sea moss and other wellnes...