The Husband Factory Podcast

Send us Fan Mail Marriage is fun, exciting and really enjoyable. But the first few years of marriage can be challenging for many people. It takes skill, maturity and a whole lot of JESUS. The better prepared you are, the better chance you have of experiencing Heaven on Earth in my marriage. Kettelye shares the secrets that helped her own marriage thrive in it's first year and beyond.  follow...

Send us Fan Mail The God of the universe is a BIG God, that does BIG things and loves you in a BIG way.  Never doubt that.  But when  you think about the utterly powerful things that He does, like creating galaxies, there may be a part of you that is stumped as to why you aren’t married yet.  There is not a one -size-fits-all answer to this question but I give you 3 things to think about in this e...

Send us Fan Mail There's nothing like a man that  loves Jesus. They just love different. Maybe because they've been touched by the author of love Himself. The genuine care, the respect, the way they push you towards your goals ............. If you meet a man that is crazy about Jesus, you have hit the jackpot ,my dear. Even if they don't know the right thing to do, because they are...

Send us Fan Mail I wanted to interview a newly married man today like I said in my last episode but we couldn't get our schedules synched. Hope to interview him soon. If you've ever asked yourself why men do some of the confusing things they do then you are going to love this episode. I hope it helps you decipher some of the things they do and more importantly helps you to make decisions...

Send us Fan Mail The decisions you've made in relationships so far is what has gotten you where you currently are in your relationships today. Purity has to be intentional. This episode will show you one decision I made to change my relationships that led me to my dream guy. Register to the Powerful Purity conference 

Send us Fan Mail When you sleep with a man you aren't married to, your anointing leaks out. That glory of God that is resting on your life to take you to unspeakable heights slowly begins to waste away. You lose your virtue. You lose your confidence and inner dignity. You lose clarity and vision. You stop dreaming impossible dreams. You are a queen that should be occupying your throne not a s...

Send us Fan Mail Don't let anyone lie to you, All sex outside of marriage is bad. A man the commits fornication with you is an adulterer in training. Harsh words? Well, think about it. If he can't control himself while he's single, will he "magically" learn to control himself when he gets married? God's rules and boundaries are for your protection. Every time. You des...

Send us Fan Mail How  Soul Ties are Formed 1. By spending  a lot of time with someone 2. By making vows, commitments & promises 3. By sexual intercourse (the first 2  explain how it’s possible to have a godly soul tie with a friend for e.g. David & Jonathan in the Bible ) And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of...

Send us Fan Mail There are women who have had sex for the first time & ended up with HIV.  There are women who casually slept with a man only to notice later that they started having uncontrollable lust & other attitudes & feelings they never had before.  There are women who have been intimate with a man that was obviously just using them but they can’t seem to get over him.  Sex is no...

Send us Fan Mail Ciara is a rare gem. She is hard working, caring, loyal, and always striving for more. She’s one of those people that if she’s in your corner- you’re  blessed. She is constantly sharing the Husband Factory podcast on her page & telling me how much she loves it that I had to have her on. She lives in Atlanta where most single women are having an awful experience.  Ciara, on the...

Send us Fan Mail Meet Kemi, a listener that sent me a voicemail using Speakpipe. You can send me one as well using this link: https://www.speakpipe.com/husbandfactory She needed some advice about her relationship. There’s so much all of us can learn from her story. Listen in. I have a workshop coming up. I would love  for you to join me. Register for it here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-power...

Send us Fan Mail To be more exact: open your heart to these five TYPE of men. I started this podcast because I made A LOT of mistakes as a single woman. One of them was that I thought I had time. I let men waste my time & I wasted my own time because I still felt & looked youngish. ( the picture on my podcast cover art was taken when I was 40) As a result, I didn’t get married until I was...

Send us Fan Mail Tyler Perry produced a movie called “Why did I get married?” In it, several couples face difficulties in their marriages that force them to come to terms with the real foundations their marriages were buit on.  In this episode, I tell you about Debra a young woman who got married for the wrong reason & ended up with someone that nearly killed her. Why do you want to get marrie...

Send us Fan Mail So, you love how he takes charge of every situation. You admire his decisiveness and independence. His confidence and the way he carries himself is intoxicating. (screeeeeeech) Put on the brakes for a minute girlfriend and make sure that he's not a runaway train. Don't misunderstand me, even men that are not so sure of themselves can be runaway trains. So why should you...

Send us Fan Mail The "M" word is not Methuselah 😂😂 There's a word you never, ever want to mention to a man when you are single. It can prove to be detrimental, to say the least, and can definitely affect your chances of getting that big ring sooner than later. Have no fear, Aunty Makeda is here to help you know how to work it. Get my weekly newsletter  

Send us Fan Mail So, we know the relationship you have with Jesus is the most important relationship you will ever have.... So what's the second most important one? Hint: This relationship will determine your level of happiness, your quality of life, and how successful your marriage is. Think you know? Listen to the episode to find out Get my weekly newsletter

Send us Fan Mail Imagine having a relationship that brings out the best in you. That adds value to your life without any negative emotions. Most times those kind of relationships only happen when we are prepared for them. In this episode I talk about a sign that you might not be ready for one. If you’re not, it’s ok. It’s better to take the time to be ready than to enter into something that you mi...

Send us Fan Mail If you’ve never been married, by the time you hit 30 you start asking yourself & God some questions. You become more aware of your body changing , your responsibilities increasing & your future calling. It’s an amazing time & it should be enjoyed to the the fullest! Don’t worry about getting  ‘too old’ for  Mr. Right. Kourtney tells you how to make the best of this tim...

Send us Fan Mail Many women are afraid of getting married. It’s easy to see why: 1. In the US more people get divorced than stay married. 2. The media paints a picture that marriage is a casual thing that is easy to go in and out of & that divorce has no painful consequences 3. Many people don’t have role models  of happy, thriving marriages. You don’t have to be afraid to get married. You don...

Send us Fan Mail Does God choose your husband for you? Do you have a soul mate? One perfect person out there that’s the ying to your yang.... That’s the coffee to your tea... That is the only person you should or can marry...?? The answer might surprise you ! Be a Husband Factory Insider

Send us Fan Mail Men love independent women. They respect women that take care of themselves & their lives. Don’t ever put yourself in a position where a man feels like you’re indebted to him. It will backfire. After you are married, you can let him take care of you but not before! Find out why in today’s episode. Be a Husband Factory Insider 

Send us Fan Mail If someone wants to leave you, the best thing you can do is help them to leave even faster. I give you 3 reasons in today’s episode Email me at thehusbandfactory@gmail.com I’d love to hear from you! Be a Husband Factory Insider

Send us Fan Mail Branding can have serious consequences on your ability to meet the right person. Find out what it is & how to avoid it in this episode Be a Husband Factory Insider

Send us Fan Mail How do you feel about your future? Are you optimistic? What about your past? Do you feel like it hinders you in any way or do you know that you have unlimited potential? Regardless of what your life has looked like or looks like now- you can absolutely have everything you want. This episode gives an introduction in the ‘how’. Be a Husband Factory Insider Scripture reference : Roma...

Send us Fan Mail Every girl needs a bestie that’s a guy. I’m talking about Jesus. As a single woman, you cannot afford to navigate relationships without a close friendship with Jesus Christ. Think about it.  He alone knows your future. He knows the ins and outs about the guy you are interested in.  He knows what’s best for you He loves you more than anyone else ever will. So much so that He died f...