The Higher Self Hotline

(Episode #8) What happens when you're the one everyone else leans on — and you're quietly running on empty? Today's conversation moves through the layered experience of holding space for others while running out of gas — from community leaders juggling motherhood and mission, to the ache of watching your inner growth outpace your outer reality. Zoey and Brittany get into the difference between bur...

(#351) Fashion isn't superficial. It's spell work. This week, Zoey sits down with celebrity stylist Lo VonRumpf. Lo walks us through his own journey with style and self expression: a love letter to the five-year-old with the Hello Kitty bag. That kid is now the man dressing some of the most recognizable people on the planet. Style, it turns out, was never just fabric for Lo. It was protection. It...

(Episode #6) Have you ever felt like your body was keeping score of everything you never let yourself feel? This episode opens with one of the most tender conversations we've had in this container — a listener carrying kidney stones, chronic pain, and a grief she's never spoken aloud, and the gorgeous reframe that helps her stop fighting her own body. From there, a second listener brings a questio...

Are you ready to feel the weight of everything you've been carrying finally lift? August is pulling all of us into a nine month, and that means the collective is being asked to release what's no longer ours to hold. If you've been sensing an ending on the horizon, you're not imagining it. This week, Zoey and Amelia are unpacking how July's personal numerology actually played out for each of them b...

Have you ever felt like your body was falling apart right when your life finally started working? In our live coaching series inside of The Bitching Hour!, we're digging into real questions, from real people who are doing the work. Today's conversation is all about the growing pains of expansion — from the physical toll of sudden visibility, to knowing when healing work has turned into a loop, to...

Hello, Divine Darlings! I’m sure if you’re here, you’ve probably been told you're too sensitive, too much, too loud before in your life. This week, Zoey sits down with author, life coach, and non-binary activist Jeffrey Marsh (they/them) to talk about the inner critic we all carry and what happens when you finally stop listening to it. This episode traces Jeffrey's journey from a childhood of bein...

Have you ever wanted to reclaim your power from everyone else’s expectations? In our new live coaching series inside of The Bitching Hour!, we’re digging into real questions, from real people who are doing the work. Today's conversation is all about breaking free from other people's expectations — from families who call your gifts "demonic," to exes who question your next move, to society's rules...

Episode #348 Have you ever received what you’ve been dreaming of and immediately want to run the other way? It’s not that you can’t hold it, you're just new to this. This week Zoey and Amelia introduce a new segment – Crybaby Club – where Zoey shares her download after surviving the California Adventure ferris wheel of death. She uncovers what’s at the heart of her next level of gaining more atten...

Episode 347 Some of us were told we were too much before we even knew what we were feeling. Too angry, too sensitive, too intense. What if that rage was never the problem, but the messenger? This week I'm sitting down with one of my best friends and practitioners I admire most – sacred rage and boundaries coach Brittany Loeser. Brittany is a sacred rage and boundaries coach, a ceremonialist, and s...

Episode #346 The world just minted its first trillionaire while the rest of us are examining our money stories like they owe us an apology. July is a collective month eight in a collective year one, which means power, money, and visibility are all on the table. This is your invitation to find where your power is being outsourced, and take it the fuck back. Episode Synopsis: Welcome to season 13, d...

You can love someone with your whole heart and still know they're not coming with you. If you've been grieving a friendship, a frequency, or a version of yourself that's falling away, you're exactly where you're meant to be. Pull up a seat, divine darling. The hotline is open! It's the season 12 finale and it's feeling bittersweet. Zoey shares a real download about what she’s stepping into. We cha...

If you've ever felt too depleted to even begin taking care of yourself; if you've given and given until there was nothing left and somehow kept giving anyway, this episode was made for you. It just so happens to be the last client session. Twelve seasons. Seven and a half years. Hundreds of souls who trusted me with their most vulnerable pieces. This is the final client session ever shared on The...

(Episode 343) June didn't come to play it safe. This month's collective numerology is pulling you inward whether you're ready or not and the question is whether you'll meet yourself there with curiosity or chaos. If you've been overthinking everything lately, there's a reason , and we hope this episode will gently guide you deeper. Zoey and co-host Amelia Buxton break down the collective numerolog...

(Episode 342) Cat Lantigua is an award-winning Dominican American author, community architect, and free knowledge advocate who walked into my orbit through our team and immediately made me feel like I'd found someone whose brain was connected to mine by a rainbow thread. We talked about community, loneliness, capitalism, decolonized history, literacy as a weapon, and why the world needs whatever i...

(Episode 341) She’s been teaching mindfulness in Texas for years. After enrolling in a masters program in social emotional learning, and about three weeks in, she realized should have written the curriculum herself. Sitting in the uncomfortable in-between, after you know the end of an era is near but, you don’t know what the next chapter is. Spirit had a hyper specific timeline and this session cr...

(Episode 340) Healing happens in the discomfort, in the conversations where you laugh so hard you cry, and then cry so hard you laugh. In this episode I sit down with Hector Marcel, the president of Tree Jewels (only New York’s leading modern enlightenment studio). He also brought me to tears twice, made me laugh so hard I couldn’t breathe, and rewrote everything I thought I knew about joy. This c...

(Episode 339) She's a freshly licensed massage therapist with a cleaning business she's built from nothing, a partnership offer that feels all kinds of wrong, and a spirit that is quite literally too big to be contained. I knew the moment we started talking. The channel opened so wide I had to just keep going. What came through was a vision, ancient, sacred, expansive and a very clear message from...

(Episode 338) Zoey and Amelia are back for the monthly numerology deep dive, and before we get into what May has in store, we're catching up on April first, because April had things to say. Amelia got her Mexican residency approved and realized her entire routine was built for a life she's already living, not the one she's building next. Zoey spent a week in New York watching her husband's best fr...

(Episode 337) The old world is crumbling. The new one is being born. And the women building it are doing it without a playbook, without a map, and in some cases, without sleep. Seven years into building one of the most beloved human design platforms in the space, they're both pregnant or freshly postpartum, running a global retreat business, and navigating the kind of life transitions that crack y...

(Episode 336) She came back to the session six months later, a completely different person, new job, new clarity, a teddy bear she bought for a child she doesn't have yet, and three lofty dreams she couldn't stop thinking about. In this client session, I sit with someone who took the messages from our last reading and ran with them. What Spirit brings through is a picture of a life that is already...

(Episode 335) You asked, we answered, AND we also told you about the time I walked into my birthday party venue and came face to face with my arch nemesis, a woman I had genuinely forgotten existed until she looked at me and said, "you look familiar." My newly appointed co-yapper Amelia and I are back for another round of Let Me Ask My Psychic. A decade-old Yelp beef, a nemesis reveal, lunar cycle...

(Episode 334) Your healing is not happening on the cushion. It's happening in the conversation that triggers you, the phone call that crosses a boundary, the grocery store aisle that floods you with a memory you thought you'd moved past. Sah D'Simone is here to show us what it looks like to bring the work all the way home. Sah D'Simone is a globally recognized spiritual teacher, somatic movement l...

(Episode 333) You already know what you're here to do. You've been feeling it for a while now, in the pull toward something new and, in the resistance. This episode is for the woman who is becoming something she can't quite name yet, but knows she can't ignore. In this week's Client Session, I sit with a mother of three who has stepped away from a career in education, welcomed a new baby, and foun...

(Episode 332) Something is shifting, and you can feel it. April is carrying a frequency that wants to move things, change things, and crack things open in the best way. If you've been sitting on an impulse you can't explain, this episode is your permission slip. I’m joined by my dear friend, collaborator, and co-conspirator Amelia Elsie Buxton for a conversation that feels less like a podcast epis...

(Episode 331) You have been wearing versions of yourself that were never really you. And somewhere underneath all of it, your original design has been waiting patiently, intact. Ayesha Ophelia is a maker of portals, provocations, and possibilities, and this conversation is all three. As the founder of Humanities, an unlearning portal where seekers gather to take and teach transformative classes, A...