The Executor Help Podcast

What happens when everything starts falling on you?   In this episode, David talks about the moment many people quietly step into a role they didn't choose.   The one who handles things.   The one others rely on.   The one who keeps everything moving.   At first, it feels like helping. But over time, more and more responsibility starts to land on one person.   David reflects on what that feels lik...

In this episode, David speaks with Valerie Oldfield, a death doula who helps families through serious illness, planning, and grief.   They talk about why these conversations feel so hard to start—and what happens when we avoid them.   Valerie shares simple ways to begin. Not in a heavy or overwhelming way, but through small, honest conversations.   She also explains how planning ahead can be one o...

Why do strong people feel alone?   In this episode, David talks about something many people don't say out loud. What it feels like to always be the one others rely on.   The one who listens. The one who handles things. The one who doesn't fall apart.   Over time, that strength can create distance. Not because people don't care—but because they assume you're fine.   David shares a calm reflection o...

What really matters at the end of life?   In this episode, David speaks with Robert Christopher Coppes, author of Impressions of Near-Death Experiences .   Robert has spent many years studying the stories of people who came very close to death and returned.   Many say the experience changed how they see life.   They often lose their fear of death. They feel a deep sense of love and connection with...

In this solo episode of the Executor Help Podcast , David reflects on a belief many people quietly carry — that living well is something you earn later, after life becomes more organized, less stressful, and more under control.   Drawing on decades of working with families, David talks about how the pressure to "get everything right" can slowly drain the joy out of ordinary moments.   Many people...

Most adults struggle to talk to children about death.   In this episode, David speaks with death doula Sandra Spicer about how stories and books can gently help children understand loss, ask questions, and feel less alone.   If there's a child in your life facing grief — or if you simply want to be better prepared — this conversation offers a calm place to begin.   Sometimes a story can say what w...

There's a conversation most families know they need to have — about aging, health, responsibility, and what happens when life changes.   But we delay it. We tell ourselves there's still time.   In this episode, David shares what he's seen when families wait too long — not because they don't care, but because no one knew how to begin.   This isn't about fear.   It's about starting gently — before a...

Have you ever wondered if your aging parent's behavior is more than just forgetfulness?   In this episode, David has a conversation with author Nicole Smith .   Listen in as she pulls back the curtain on the realities of dementia, sharing her personal experience with family chaos, screaming matches, and the conversation that could have changed everything.   If you're navigating elder care or worri...

Ever felt weirdly guilty for having a good time when life is heavy or things at home are stressful?   In this episode, David gets honest about why joy isn't something you should feel bad about or push off until things get easier.   He shares real stories and gentle reminders that laughter and happiness are what keep us going—even when we're juggling responsibilities or dealing with big life change...

Grief can leave us frozen, overwhelmed by decisions we never wanted to make alone.   In this episode, David sits down with funeral pre-planner Deborah Pagliuca , who reveals the realities families face and offers compassionate, practical advice on how to ease their burden by planning ahead.   For David's book, other resources and more visit www.davidedey.com

Many people don't choose to become "the responsible one."   It just happens — slowly, quietly — until they're the one everyone depends on.   In this episode, David speaks to the invisible weight so many people carry in their families and their lives.   The organizing. The calming. The holding it all together.   The part no one sees — the tiredness, the quiet strain, the feeling of being strong for...

Who says your best years aren't still ahead of you?   On this episode, David and guest Jeff Singal who is a men's midlife compass (ikigai) coach. Jeff opens up about what finally helped him find joy, meaning again, even after a ton of setbacks.   There's real talk about friendships, tiny steps toward a fresh start, and even a new song to get you motivated.   If you want some inspiration (and a rem...

What truly matters when it comes to legacy?   In this season premiere, David shares honest reflections from years spent with families navigating loss and responsibility.   It's not about paperwork or money—it's about connection, laughter, and presence.   This episode is an invitation to rethink how you prepare for the future, emotionally as much as practically.   For David's book, other resources...

What does legacy really mean as you grow older—and how do you make sure you're not just shuffling through life?   Join David and men's life coach Orest Komarnyckyj for an honest, open dialogue about finding purpose after 50, handling medical setbacks, and the mental and physical shifts men rarely talk about.   Perfect for both men and women, this episode offers a window into life's second act, wit...

Have you ever wondered how creativity can help you move through grief?   This episode explores the powerful connection between art and healing.   Join David as he has a conversation with Noemi Beres , a self-taught artist who turned to mixed media collages to process deep personal loss, shares her journey—and discover how you, too, can find comfort and self-expression in even the toughest times.  ...

What Would Happen If You Couldn't Speak for Yourself? Have you ever wondered who would look after your life's details if you couldn't?   In this episode David has a conversation Jody Maffett, who was thrust into that exact situation when her father suffered a traumatic brain injury.   Hear how she turned a family crisis into a heartfelt – and surprisingly funny – journal that's helping families be...

Let's be real—the holidays aren't always merry and bright, especially when you're dealing with loss.   If the idea of festive parties and traditions feels more overwhelming than exciting, this episode with Carol Banens author of Grieving Through the Holidays is for you.   She's sharing honest stories, practical tips, and simple ways to handle holiday grief without all the fake cheer.   Give it a l...

Are you feeling overwhelmed with aging parents, caregiving, and legacy planning?   You're not alone.   In this episode, David sits down with Laura Tamblyn Watts, one of Canada's leading experts on aging and author of Let's Talk About Aging Parents, for a real, heartfelt conversation packed with practical advice and surprising truths.   If you want to feel more prepared—and less alone—this is an ep...

Are you listed as an executor in someone's will—or think you might be someday?   Discover the one tiny detail that can save you weeks of stress, expensive headaches, and family arguments.   In this episode, David shares real listener stories and breaks down the practical tips you need to avoid common estate pitfalls.   Don't let small oversights cause big problems—tune in to get clear, real-world...

What if estate planning didn't have to feel cold and clinical?   On this episode, discover how Adria Ferrier, founder of Elayne, turned heartbreak into a mission—and built an innovative platform that transforms legacy and loss into something deeply human.   If you want to rethink how families navigate one of life's toughest moments, this conversation will change your perspective.   For David's boo...

Have you ever struggled to talk about death or support someone grieving?   This episode is for you.   Join David and death doula Marlene Morrow as she shares her journey, the moving work she does, and essential wisdom about advanced care planning, supporting children, and how we can all bring more comfort during life's hardest transitions.   Listen in—this conversation could change the way you thi...

Did you know your funeral could become your greatest act for the environment?   Join David as he has a conversation about the world of green burial with Sasha Honsl from Green Burial Ottawa Valley.   Learn what makes green burials different, why they matter, and how they just might be the ultimate gift back to Mother Nature.   If you care about your legacy—and the planet—don't miss this episode.  ...

What if talking openly about death could actually help you live a fuller life?   Join David for a conversation with hospice social worker Lisa Pahl, co-creator of the Death Deck.   Discover how humor, honesty, and heartfelt stories can break the stigma around end-of-life discussions—and why these conversations might be the key to deeper connections with your loved ones.   For David's book, other r...

Have you ever wondered how people find their way forward after losing someone they can't live without?   In this episode, David is joined by Carol Banens —grief coach and author—who opens up about losing her husband, the unexpected realities of grief, and the gentle steps she took to rediscover joy.   Tune in for real talk about grief that goes beyond clichés, and practical tips to help you or a l...

What happens when grief follows you to work?   In this episode, David sits down with Janet Gwilliam-Wright and Mekel Harris of Bloomwell —two compassionate experts helping employers and employees navigate the storm of loss.   If you've ever wondered how workplaces can become truly supportive environments in the toughest times, you'll want to tune in.   For David's book, other resources and more vi...