The Calmest Place on Mars

How to spend: A guide by a saver

Sapiosexuality, arrogance and elitism.

sigh - not feeling like saying something smart here. Thanks.

We all know this is a reality and we don't enjoy talking too much about it. There is a stigma associated with unemployment and this audio validates all the fears that a person recently unemployed might feel. Please feel free to reach out if I can help in any way.

A system to hack your own brain and dopamine system - create easy wins. Make a list of daily 10-12 easy wins to keep the momentum going.  P.S. Still not losing it.

I've seen a surge in negativity. That's normal, that's fair - but let's fight against it. I remember when I was a kid, was listening to a song called "Please be Naked". Now I only care about you being KIND. So many people are fighting so many battles these days and, yeah, sue me, I know it's a cliche. Just listen, ok?  Level of concern is the mood.

Comprehensive discussion on the idea of following up on your words through actions. 

Sometimes you should not listen to all the negative talk inside your head and clearly you shouldn't listen to negative talk coming from other people. That's even worse. Enjoy.

How to follow your purpose

Discussing the incoming crisis of trust, why hope and cooperation are key and what we should focus on during those times. Hint, it is not fearmongering or the angry news reports.

There are a few questions to ask yourself about finding your purpose. A great online resource for it is Coach Corey Wayne. He inspired me to create this video and to extend my help. I adore discussing about character strengths and measurements of personality. If I can help in any way with a very blunt description of your strengths, if we know each other well enough, I'd be happy to do so and once...

What I learned from a history show that does, at the end of each series, an episode on lies and mistakes. 3 key takeaways that might help anybody listening. They clearly helped me.

In this episode of the Calmest Place on Mars, I'm discussing that understanding some things are in our control and some things aren't is such an easy notion. However, it is hard to put into practice. Many things that are not in our control might cause us distress. This usually happens to the most productive of us, the people who have systems in place and are obsessed with time management. We strug...

... And other silly questions I ask myself 100 times per day. See, stress rarely is external. Most of the times we inflict it upon ourselves and then complain about it

Discussing my favourite prayer and how I am tweaking it to resonate the most with me. Prayer as meditation

A short explanation of the Masculine vs feminine energy. Discussion on how hanging on affects your chances to get the woman of your dreams.

Discussing habits, tracking, observation and writing.

Discussing few parallels from one of my favourite books of all times - How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnagie. We're discussing repetition, emphasis and the pursuit of improvement.

Remember, every person will have an opinion about how you live your life. However, none of those opinions should be accounted for, as they lack a deep understanding of your motives and goals. Do not get discouraged by people telling you how wrong you are for trying to improve.

This is more valuable than a 3h goal setting seminar - it doesn't matter how great your goals are if you are paralysed by decisions and cannot take action

The shortest way to misery is to compare yourself to somebody, especially somebody you dislike. You will make yourself feel neglected and asking why questions to prove that you are a victim. Things can spiral extremely fast from there.

Nobody can tell if your idea has any worth, unless you are willing to put the time in

Discussing some philosophical ideas behind creation and the pains and joys of the process. What is the Calmest Place on Mars?

This is what I have been doing lately, creatively. I'll explain it all in an episode tomorrow.

Unbiased book reviews are gone and the sound is too low despite my actually taking time to record this properly, but as long as Claire de Lune plays over my voice, I do not mind.