The Black Sublime Podcast

Mr. Haberdashery mourns George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Tony McDade and the other Black lives lost at the hands of white supremacy. This is a personal episode, advocating for the acknowledgement and respect for Black human dignity, and expressing, albeit imperfectly, the value of community, intimacy, and friendship in the fight for freedom and justice.

Mr. Haberdashery dives into OnlyFans, discusses straight sex workers getting rich on gay dollars, and reflects on the cultural conversation on self-care.

Mr. Haberdashery defends Molly from HBO’s Insecure, discusses polyamory as politic, and laments the lack of empathy for Black lives.

Mr. Haberdashery gives condolences and discusses how believing in certain myths harms ourselves and others.

Mr. Haberdashery talks testing “allyship” and shares one spiritual truth that has helped him find happiness thus far.

Mr. Haberdashery further discusses how he combines the spiritual and the sensual, the subliminal problems with code-switching, and the many uses of the Measure app.

Mr. Haberdashery shares his view on spirituality, sensuality, and their impact on work ethic and productivity.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses the appeal of alternative medicine among marginalized people especially during the health crisis.

Mr. Haberdashery shares his theory on why some people just don’t care about social distancing in the U.S.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses his personal relationship with justice as he and the nation cope with the impact of COVID-19.

Mr. Haberdashery meditates on his response to femme cosplay and to the social media circus built by bored work-from-homers in the context of COVID-19.

Mr. Haberdashery offers some modest words on coping with the current coronavirus crisis.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses why relying on elite institutions for liberation, equality, and justice, especially for people of color, is a mistake.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses Boosie versus Zaya, ignorance around adolescent transitioning, and the importance of a “full-body yes.”

Mr. Haberdashery shares stories from his 30th birthday celebration, discusses his views on leadership, and opens up about his battle with nutella.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses the hilarious effects of sea moss, a surprising feature of descending from slaves, and the complexity around the Gayle King-Snoop Dogg-Kobe Bryant situation.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses how unhealed pain can lead to twitter fingers, barbed tongues and failed relationships, which is why he often stays tf home.

Mr. Haberdashery honors Kobe, discusses the relationship between addiction and fear, and confronts the truth about the Grammys and the need for reparations in music.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses the pain in searching for companionship among those with shared trauma and the trouble with always looking elsewhere.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses the impact the way we think about thinking has on our capacity to love and heal.

Mr. Haberdashery brings in the new year discussing the changing sex party culture and the joy of loving who you love.

Mr. Haberdashery explores the trouble with being honest and late and makes the case for penetration.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses the phenomenon of judging how artists self-medicate, the power of friendship, and white female adoration of Lizzo.

Drunk Episode! Mr. Haberdashery doubles down on T.I., discusses active recovery and NoName’s refusal to perform for predominantly white crowds.

Mr. Haberdashery discusses how well people hide themselves in a digital age and his experience with key parts of white culture.