Stoicess' Secret

You have been working together for five years as coworkers. Both of you have the same job series and always tag-team difficult tasks. The boss posted two jobs as internal promotions for the identical work the two of you performed. You both knew your two-person team was a shoo-in for the jobs, but the day of reckoning soon followed. For you got one of the promotions, but the other was not given to...

How do you even the score after going through a bad breakup? Here are some thoughts to consider.

You and your child are finally having a one-on-one lunch together today at the local restaurant. You can’t wait to hear about their life as a grown-up. On their arrival, they have an unhappy look on their face. When you inquire, the child blames their unhappy marriage on you. Listen to the podcast to learn how to handle this uncomfortable situation.

Ever feel you've let your physical looks go? And then your partner says something you believe is insulting regarding your looks? If so, listen to this poem.

ack of respect appears pervasive in today’s world, whether it be toward one’s elders, leadership, or parents. However, the Bible gives stern lessons regarding such disrespectful behavior. Listen to the podcast for insight before you get “your neck caught in the branches” during an unexpected event. 

Trying to decide where to go on a first date is taxing. It will be lasting memories between the two of you (either great or bad). So, how do you decide the place? Listen to the Stoicess' thoughts.

It’s a lazy Saturday afternoon, and you get a text from your Ex asking, “Whatcha doin?” Since there’s nothing else to entertain you, you decide to respond and learn he’s ready to renew your relationship. Listen to the video for some thoughts on how to handle this.

We think about what it would be like to get rich (or richer), but we also need to consider what responsibilities come with having wealth. Listen to the podcast for insight into the other side of the equation.

Having difficulty finding the right person for you? Maybe it's time to follow nature's guide to finding another. 

They were once a coworker you bickered with continuously, but now after spending time together on a mutual project, you've warmed up to the guy. And now he's asking if you're interested in a date. So, should you agree? Listen to the podcast to consider your next step.

Is your current relationship one of endurance or convenience? The poem may give some insight into your answer.

Want to ensure you never choose a partner who is a Mama's boy? If you've got one already, how do you navigate the dreaded mother-in-law? For either scenario, this podcast is for you!

A colleague approaches your office desk wanting your advice since overhearing another employee saying they cheated on their taxes. The colleague wants to know if you think management should be told this finding since the cheater may steal from the company.  As you sit at your desk, your mind begins reflecting on this whole concept of cheating. Your mind turns to the practice of wardrobing because...

You know the type. They’ll threaten your job, infer what a low-life you are, demand the rest of your day be devoted to them, and don’t forget, they’ll want a full refund and some damages payment to make this right. They're your customer, and they can be like a dog with a bone when they've got a gripe against the company. Listen to the podcast for some words to consider the next time you...

Aren’t you the lucky one! You’ve found someone who is gorgeous, smart, and breathtaking. The only problem is they are your best friend’s sibling. So, do you proceed to date them? Listen to the Stoicess’ poem for insight. 

when you were growing up, your parents were very frugal because times were difficult and money tight. However, times improved when you became an adult, and you had the capability to spend money on your children for several luxuries you never had as a child. However, your children are now grown and when facing financial hardships due to overspending, they see you as an extended piggy bank for them....

It’s time to leave the nest and head off to college in another city. Your parents are worried about your safety because you’ll be living in a new city alone. Your parents want to put a tracker app on your phone so they can monitor your whereabouts. You’re having anxiety over this one. Join me as we address the invasion of your privacy.

You’ve found a new person to date and think they are the best ever. However, over time you see a change in the person. It's as if they are playing a game with you. How do you handle this? Listen to the poem for some advice to consider.

You know that being judged when you express your unique thoughts and opinions is not new. It’s because people have a tendency to look down on others who differ from them.  But have you thought about the judgmental people in the Bible? What if a trusted friend passed judgment on you and secretly had you killed in order to get their way? In this webinar, we discuss a horrible situation that one of o...

Has a parent ever tried to guilt trip you? Nagging you for not spending enough time with them since taking that new prestigious job? Join me as we take a look at this ongoing nightmare.

It began as a lovely day as you and your partner were spending time together. That is, until your partner mentions that his best friend treats him much better than you do. How do you respond? It's time to kick in your "Stoicess' Mind".

Stoicess & Professor Weekly Touch-Base: THOSE WHO WOULD WASTE YOUR TIME  We’ve all experienced people in our lives who are timewasters. When they waste their own time, that’s one thing, but when they attempt to waste our time, it’s when we need to consider taking immediate action.    But what if we are the ones that are wasting God’s time. We tell Jesus that we love Him in our prayers and ask...

When you were young, your parents assigned your older sibling as your caretaker. However, following adulthood, your sibling has not relinquished the command. If you obey the commands, a psychological smear campaign will ensue. Is it time for a head-to-head battle? The Stoicess has some thoughts on the subject.  

How do you address your partner when they accuse you of unfaithfulness simply because you glanced at another? My poem gives you some insight on how to address this situation.

Fear is one of the most awful enemies we face. Fear holds many back from pursuing their dreams and achieving their goals. They feel stuck and unable to reach their full potential because they cannot break free from the fear of the unknown or fear of failure. Sometimes that grasp of fear is held over us by others – those who threaten to remove their friendship if we keep pursuing our current journe...